Thank you darling. I do what works best for me, and if 3 references work for someone else and my 2 work for me, we have to respect everyone's way of screening. Now a days there are more providers not giving references, and others not screening the way that "she" may like, so therefore let's get 3 instead of 2 in case one is as I have mentioned.
I have gotten emails and text lost in the shuffle before myself, I try to be courteous as for his time, but mistakes happen. Heck double booking rarely happens, and when it does it makes us feel horrible. Communication is always the key. Not communication about sexual activities but as far as arrival and confirmation.