Originally Posted by
Retired Ninja
You seem to think they owe you an answer, but they don't owe you anything, and the entitled attitude isn't likely to be a turn-on.
If you contact a lady and for whatever reason she decides not to answer you just take it as a no and move on. The passive aggressive "Well, since there has been no response..." isn't going to get you anywhere other than the trash can if she just happened to miss your first message or hasn't had time to respond yet.
I guess I'm lucky I haven't had any of my messages ignored, or maybe I'm just good at introducing myself. It's not hard.
Hello <her name>,
I'm <your handle> on <site> and I saw the ad you posted on <date>. I'm interested in seeing you for <time period> on <date> at <time> if you are available. If not I can do anytime from <time> to <time> on that day, or <another day> from <time> to <time>.
You may reach me here or <other contact information>. I'm looking forward to meeting you!
Take care,
<handle>
Bonus points if there was something interesting you saw in her ad or on her website that you can mention to both let her know you read it and to possibly break the ice a little since you are a complete stranger to her. Something you might say to anyone in normal conversation, not "I saw your picture and I wanna rub my face all over them big tittays!" Objectification isn't a turn-on and is likely to get you right in the trash can too.
Treat her like the actual human she is, not a random interchangeable piece of meat, and you'll probably get better results. If she asks you for something either provide it or tell her no thank you and leave it. Sure, you might try and negotiate out of her screening or rate, but for most all that shows is you don't respect her or her boundaries before you meet so you won't if you meet.
Please don't take this the wrong way as it is meant to be helpful, if not to you than maybe others. Maybe you already do all of this and just have bad luck or we don't contact the same ladies, and in that case I feel for you. It is a business and their livelihood. I don't think anyone is in it to constantly have to say "I would have seen him if he didn't say or do X" So, don't be that guy and meet as many of these awesome ladies as you can!