It's definitely not a requirement for me, but I have to admit that I like it. One provider that I had been seeing for a while, I actually asked her to start sexting me. I thought it would be much more exciting than the usual "Hey, how are you?" "When are you coming to see me?"

Some providers just aren't built that way. As much as she tried it just always seemed fake to me, like she was forcing it. Sooooo, if it's not your thing, don't.