Asking for menu, and or pics

[HoustonHammer]

[QUOTE=Alyssa XOXO;967118]If you are on P411, MANY girls have completely different names there (dunno why). If you can't right click on their pics to Google search, input their name in Google with the word ECCIE. Pictures and reviews will pull up. Do it with any name they are using on any site. For example: Sarah Lee Eccie. And also click on images once it pulls up. Or just put their name, eccie images. Everybody and their mama was on ECCIE at one point, their pics and reviews are still on Google. Sometimes you may want to add "Houston Escort" in the information as well. Start with their photo gallery here and just start Google searching for the images. They use the same pics on various sites with different names. [/QUOTE

I can’t stand when providers use the same dam pictures over and over for years with no changes and can’t understand why someone would ask for more pics.. common sense!. I been reverse google searching, eccie cross checks, etc. New talent is harder to find reviews on. I been in this game 10+ strong. I am looking for younger providers as I get older.. sure you can find a bunch of info on old talent.. but those profiles don’t interest me as much anymore.

[Alyssa XOXO]

Well, all of this information would've saved a lot of time. You failed to specify. It's the hobby, do what ya can; there's always RW dating, etc. A well seasoned gentleman that is very financially secure has absolutely no issue pulling young RW girls for free. If you've hit a plateau in the hobby and it's no longer fun, make a short switch and save some money in the process. Have a great day

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

Yeah.....might wanna try SD/SB arrangement. Many of the young girls that take that path of sex work do not consider it sex work or an actual business.

I'm sure they will happily discuss activities and money.

Good luck. lol

[HoustonHammer]

Well, all of this information would've saved a lot of time. You failed to specify. It's the hobby, do what ya can; there's always RW dating, etc. A well seasoned gentleman that is very financially secure has absolutely no issue pulling young RW girls for free. If you've hit a plateau in the hobby and it's no longer fun, make a short switch and save some money in the process. Have a great day

Wish that would work but not a single guy. I hobby cause it’s convenient and doesn’t require much time. I will stick to some regulars for now. It’s more of the itch to try new flavors.

[atx924]

I usually ask them if they have reviews or a menu posted somewhere online rather than asking directly. I also Google search their name and/or their number + eccie/ourhome2/theeroticreview (because I don’t have 411) and see if I can find a review that way. If they try to send me a screenshot of an already posted review I try to see if I can find that same review myself to make sure it’s legitimate, not deleted, and try to determine whether I can trust it. It seems like on some other sites some providers have their friends post a review for them to make them seem good to go. But sometimes I see 2 different reviews for a provider, from 2 different usernames, with the exact same wording, verbatim

[SalmaXO]

Gentlemen: It’s not about HOW to ask. It’s about WHEN to ask. There is no way to sugar coat those questions. There is however, an order in which it should be done.

Once you find a girl you are really interested in, follow these steps

1. Read the entire ad/ click on any links

2. Google provider name/phone number/city. (If you have questions wether she’s real or want to find reviews etc this is the time to do it) ex. “SalmaXO Houston Tx”

3. Send your intro & references/ P411 ID per her instructions- (this shows the provider that you are a Gentleman & are serious about meeting AND most importantly it makes the provider more comfortable to answer such questions)

4. Once she has verified your info & reaches back out to you (Which May take time since some of us have thousands of inquiries
This is the time to ask the questions. If you are screening through text I suggest letting the provider know that before scheduling a visit you have a couple of questions and ask her where she prefers to answer them (text/PM/email etc)

*NEVER* ask for more pics unless it’s absolutely obvious that they aren’t recent. If you worry about how recent they are ask instead if they have recent reviews, OF, SC, Insta or Twitter etc. if you still want new pics ask if she sells content otherwise you will look like a pic collector trying to get a free pic

*NEVER EVER* text direct questions about menu/pics. Always ask provider where they prefer to discuss things of that sort. Personally I don’t mind answering those through PM or Email (After verification of course). If she refuses to answer then it’s probably time to move on. (It literally takes 2 seconds to copy/paste your intro/references so don’t complain about wasting time. If anything I assure you that she’s the least interested in wasting time which is why we don’t respond to vulgar Texts like “you available?” Or “menu?” “Pics” and the one the That immediately makes me want to vomit “specials? Discounts?” Don’t be that guy.

5. Book your appointment: if she checks all of your boxes of course.
*Tip: send the date/time you have in mind. Asking “what does your day look like” or “are you busy this day?” aren’t things a gentleman should ask. No provider will tell you “I’m super booked but I can squeeze you in” lol if you worry about that sort of thing then just book her earliest appointment :)

It seems like a lot but I assure you that it pays off. Any provider that is willing to answer risky questions like the ones mentioned above right off the bat & through text is more than likely not someone you want to meet/pimp/bait & switch (Best case scenario) or LE trying time entrap you (worst case scenario)

If sending the screening info upfront seems like too much work you are more than likely not someone a good provider wants to meet so there is no point in even contacting her.

I’ve had guys trying to set up last second visits when they haven’t even sent their screening info. I’m not sure what they expect but I can tell you they won’t get anything good with that approach because again a provider That is worth while would never see anyone who she has no information about. It’s a good way to end up in a sting Or robbed if that’s the sort of thing you are into.



Hope this helps someone out.

Happy Holidays Ladies & Gentlemen of Ourhome2

[JoeCool]

Very well said Salma XO. I only ask for pics when a lady doesn't post any clear ones of the fetish I have - feet. It's never a deal breaker if she doesn't send pics, but those who do usually get a much faster request for an appointment. Just my 2 cents. Merry Christmas y'all!

[Nascobar21]

Politely ask for a full body pic with today’s date written on a piece of paper somewhere. She can blur her face for anonymous reasons.

Only take this approach if you feel like her pics are outdated.

If she refuses or gives a BS reason she can’t do it, I.E. my camera is broken.... just move on. You maybe disappointed if you see her in person.

If you do meet her in person and feel like you were baited or mislead, you are free to walk away.

[Guest 061021-1]

If you are on P411, MANY girls have completely different names there (dunno why). If you can't right click on their pics to Google search, input their name in Google with the word ECCIE. Pictures and reviews will pull up. Do it with any name they are using on any site. For example: Sarah Lee Eccie. And also click on images once it pulls up. Or just put their name, eccie images. Everybody and their mama was on ECCIE at one point, their pics and reviews are still on Google. Sometimes you may want to add "Houston Escort" in the information as well. Start with their photo gallery here and just start Google searching for the images. They use the same pics on various sites with different names.

I have found in my old age (not even a milf let alone a gilf as previously called), that human beings have a natural tendancy to assume everyone does the same thing for the same reason. Some women may change their name because they are sick of hearing it after 8 years. Some are hiding certian things. Some just want a new start since everyone is human and makes mistakes. Some randomly thought of a really creative name they wish they had started out with (again mistakes). I would think that those women for the most part would have the sense enough to know their reviews are still posted and know that everything on the internet is indexed. There is no deleting anything in its entirety online. Because they realized the possibility of info leaking out - even if it was only an activity she no longer offered or an experience is different than 5 years ago, they want to change their name as to not misrepresent what they are about or simply are no linger comfortable with throwing their bcd business out there anymore. As for images, the same ones are used most likely because those photoshoots are not cheap and they are not willing to barter. Its all a matter of personal opinion. I think that may be in this case although the original poster has very good question about the validity of a certain provider using different names or different pictures or the same pictures different names which ever it may be there’s always a good reason for it and I think that people should not assume the worst of everyone or anyone for that matter. There’s always a logical explanation for everything.

[bigrich63]

Well thought out, perfectly logical and articulate! That makes you even sexier.

[wanna_be_rode]

I don't know you about everyone else..but i do not keep a list of names / prices / cross referenced by photos on me... there are times where I am like I need a session .... So I reach out and sometimes i forgot a name / rate / pic so I ask for an update on what I cant recall. If I get a response ... then I move forward, if I do not I look elsewhere. I have had a few ladies here say message me on OH2 for verification I do ..( when I can ) but now days I am more of a spontaneous session person as scheduling in advance is not easy for me .. I text , if they respond I move forward / if they do not I move on ....

[Joetex13]

Simply replying to the original post, if I feel the need to ask for a menu or additional pictures from a provider, then maybe that’s a provider I’m not ready to pull the trigger on seeing yet. Just like I’m not gonna ask for prices, at the time I contact a provider I will have already known what they’re asking for, I won’t even talk to ladies that are out of my price range. It’s a waste of my time and their’s.

There are plenty of ads and profiles that have more than enough pictures to get a pretty accurate idea of what her provider looks like. Most of them may not list out their entire menu, but will clearly state what they will not do. For a provider that’s been around for any length of time, we also have a pretty extensive review file at our disposal that lets us see the experiences of other people who have seen that provider.