Asking for menu, and or pics

[HoustonHammer]

If you are on p411 or a site and there is no reviews that describe activities or you have limited pics. What is the most appropriate way to request for activities and additional pics?

I am asking because I am frustrated with some recent meets of inaccurate pictures
and assumed activities (example no cim, daty, or dato). I can live without this stuff but will think twice before I am willling to pay a rate for a provider who offers this vs doesn’t. I rather choose someone else.

[Eightpack212]

Hey great thread here HoustonHammer, this is a question that I seriously have asked myself sometimes too, so it'll be great to see the additional feedback you get.

But for me, I don't use p411, but here in NYC, I use the "site" option. I find that most providers here in NYC use LC or EscortIndex (aka sumosear.ch). So on that site, I don't really see many reviews being left on ads, so its pretty much a hit or a miss in terms of the quality of service I might be receiving, because of the lack of reviews.

As far as it goes for recent meets of inaccurate pics, that's another hit or miss as well for me, because I don't usually ask for additional pics (I just notice that most providers here in NYC on LC/EscortIndex, state in their ads to not ask for additional pics/ I mostly don't get a reply back when when I did request for additional).

But, if the pic looks fake in an ad (I determine this by my gut feeling, googleing the phone # to see if the provider might have any additional pics, and if it just organically doesn't look real) I just move on and continue scrolling.


I haven't really run into the problem of the provider not looking similar to her pics though, when it is time to meet up (here in nyc).

But when I do come across a provider that I like on LC and the provider doesn't have a menu listed in her ad . I simply text her ->"Hey I just read your entire ad, and I am 100% interested but before booking an appointment, I was unsure about what you do/don't allow (since I did not see you mention this in the ad I saw)."

Now, usually when I say that, they usually ask "What did you have in mind?" or they tell me what they DO NOT do, and then move the conversation forward by saying "How much time would you like?" ...

And then I proceed from there.

If her menu isn't mentioned in the ad, or after you read the ad and you still come away with questions. my advice would be, just ask her in the most respectful way possible of what you are trying to find out and state the reason why you need to know (which in this case would be, because it's not mentioned in the ad or you read the ad and you were unclear about some things). As far as additional pics?->I'm not too sure on what great advice would be, since I don't really ask for any additional pics when booking an appointment.

Again, great thread here HoustonHammer, interested in seeing what the feedback might, so I could go about doing things better as well.

[tbone2u]

I use P-411 a lot. If the girl is on a review site she is pretty easy to find particulars on.
If she's not....it harder. Sometimes you just have to take a chance. Sometimes you win and sometimes you don't.
I think I do pretty well with my choices. Your gut tells you a lot if you bother to listen to it and pay attention to the little things in her ad.

[Paulie]

Well said Tbone. Hunting is half the fun.

[tbone2u]

You are so very right. Years ago I hit the amps sometimes 5 or 6 times a week. I enjoyed finding new ones and making "new friends".
I never batted over .500 but I had a hell of a time.

[HoustonHammer]

I can’t do LC or any of those questionable sites. First thing they ask is send a pic. Like why the fuck would I send a pic if I am the one looking for more info.

[Alyssa XOXO]

If you are on p411 or a site and there is no reviews that describe activities or you have limited pics. What is the most appropriate way to request for activities and additional pics?

I am asking because I am frustrated with some recent meets of inaccurate pictures
and assumed activities (example no cim, daty, or dato). I can live without this stuff but will think twice before I am willling to pay a rate for a provider who offers this vs doesn’t. I rather choose someone else.

If you are on P411, MANY girls have completely different names there (dunno why). If you can't right click on their pics to Google search, input their name in Google with the word ECCIE. Pictures and reviews will pull up. Do it with any name they are using on any site. For example: Sarah Lee Eccie. And also click on images once it pulls up. Or just put their name, eccie images. Everybody and their mama was on ECCIE at one point, their pics and reviews are still on Google. Sometimes you may want to add "Houston Escort" in the information as well. Start with their photo gallery here and just start Google searching for the images. They use the same pics on various sites with different names.

[Peringa]

If you are on P411, MANY girls have completely different names there (dunno why). If you can't right click on their pics to Google search, input their name in Google with the word ECCIE. Pictures and reviews will pull up. Do it with any name they are using on any site. For example: Sarah Lee Eccie. And also click on images once it pulls up. Or just put their name, eccie images. Everybody and their mama was on ECCIE at one point, their pics and reviews are still on Google. Sometimes you may want to add "Houston Escort" in the information as well. Start with their photo gallery here and just start Google searching for the images. They use the same pics on various sites with different names.

Alyssa you should compile or your post into one and call it - "This is how you do it!!"

[Alyssa XOXO]

Alyssa you should compile or your post into one and call it - "This is how you do it!!"

I mean, so many people jumped over here trying to act brand new, I just don't get it. Why have different names on different sites and no review policies but, yo ass has reviews out everywhere listing what you do. And this whole "cuz of the new law", is BS. Check P411, Tryst, Adult Look, etc. You will find profiles, pictures and reviews of activities. And the ads here of course.

Back On Topic: Good Luck OP and do your research

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

IMO.....if she doesn't have the info out where it can be seen during your research, she should expect to be asked. :shrug:

Speaking only for myself, it's not just for "legal" reasons that I will not discuss specific activities.
1) I have made my preferences clear on my profile here and 2) I am not interested in "scripted" sessions.

Keeping a website and my pics updated every 6-8 weeks has kept the requests for "verifying" pics to a bare minimum.

[HoustonHammer]

[QUOTE=Alyssa XOXO;967118]If you are on P411, MANY girls have completely different names there (dunno why). If you can't right click on their pics to Google search, input their name in Google with the word ECCIE. Pictures and reviews will pull up. Do it with any name they are using on any site. For example: Sarah Lee Eccie. And also click on images once it pulls up. Or just put their name, eccie images. Everybody and their mama was on ECCIE at one point, their pics and reviews are still on Google. Sometimes you may want to add "Houston Escort" in the information as well. Start with their photo gallery here and just start Google searching for the images. They use the same pics on various sites with different names. [/QUOTE

I can’t stand when providers use the same dam pictures over and over for years with no changes and can’t understand why someone would ask for more pics.. common sense!. I been reverse google searching, eccie cross checks, etc. New talent is harder to find reviews on. I been in this game 10+ strong. I am looking for younger providers as I get older.. sure you can find a bunch of info on old talent.. but those profiles don’t interest me as much anymore.

[Alyssa XOXO]

Well, all of this information would've saved a lot of time. You failed to specify. It's the hobby, do what ya can; there's always RW dating, etc. A well seasoned gentleman that is very financially secure has absolutely no issue pulling young RW girls for free. If you've hit a plateau in the hobby and it's no longer fun, make a short switch and save some money in the process. Have a great day

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

Yeah.....might wanna try SD/SB arrangement. Many of the young girls that take that path of sex work do not consider it sex work or an actual business.

I'm sure they will happily discuss activities and money.

Good luck. lol

[HoustonHammer]

Well, all of this information would've saved a lot of time. You failed to specify. It's the hobby, do what ya can; there's always RW dating, etc. A well seasoned gentleman that is very financially secure has absolutely no issue pulling young RW girls for free. If you've hit a plateau in the hobby and it's no longer fun, make a short switch and save some money in the process. Have a great day

Wish that would work but not a single guy. I hobby cause it’s convenient and doesn’t require much time. I will stick to some regulars for now. It’s more of the itch to try new flavors.

[atx924]

I usually ask them if they have reviews or a menu posted somewhere online rather than asking directly. I also Google search their name and/or their number + eccie/ourhome2/theeroticreview (because I don’t have 411) and see if I can find a review that way. If they try to send me a screenshot of an already posted review I try to see if I can find that same review myself to make sure it’s legitimate, not deleted, and try to determine whether I can trust it. It seems like on some other sites some providers have their friends post a review for them to make them seem good to go. But sometimes I see 2 different reviews for a provider, from 2 different usernames, with the exact same wording, verbatim