Stalking or is it just meant to be lol

[Lia88]

Wooooooooow!! That's enough to make me want to turn to liam nielson and Find them frfr.....woow!!
& your right money not friends but I can say I was lucky to make some nice friends and associates that have the same mind frame like me....
But woowwwww!! I have to say that again thats Wow!

[Warpt]

Female stalkers in the movies look fun. Lots of crazy sex. Sex with crazy is fun. But you don't date or marry crazy.
But in reality, females stalkers are exactly that, CRAZY. They go all ballistic, talk bad to your friends, do anything to hurt you cause they can't have you.
They think doing all that crazy shit will get you to go back to them. After the crazy comes out, Fuck That, I don't talk to them or come close to them again.
They all seem nice until something snaps. Then it's crazy time.

[Lia88]

Female stalkers in the movies look fun. Lots of crazy sex. Sex with crazy is fun. But you don't date or marry crazy.
But in reality, females stalkers are exactly that, CRAZY. They go all ballistic, talk bad to your friends, do anything to hurt you cause they can't have you.
They think doing all that crazy shit will get you to go back to them. After the crazy comes out, Fuck That, I don't talk to them or come close to them again.
They all seem nice until something snaps. Then it's crazy time.

They're some crazy fun ppl though . that is true. *cough*
But I agree on the going over the top stalking and Breaking Windows...that is why. Which is hard to do. You have to learn the signs of crazy before you give up the goods.
Unfortunately in my situation that's unavoidable. And if your a gent here. For you too.. But you guys have a chance to know if she's crazy. You can just disappear if she is lol pay attention to the convo and the eyes. The eyes hombre they never lie.

Lmaoooo at warpt...they all seem nice until the crazy comes out lol haha true true...isn't that for everybody

[Warpt]

They're some crazy fun ppl though . that is true. *cough*
But I agree on the going over the top stalking and Breaking Windows...that is why. Which is hard to do. You have to learn the signs of crazy before you give up the goods.
Unfortunately in my situation that's unavoidable. And if your a gent here. For you too.. But you guys have a chance to know if she's crazy. You can just disappear if she is lol pay attention to the convo and the eyes. The eyes hombre they never lie.

Lmaoooo at warpt...they all seem nice until the crazy comes out lol haha true true...isn't that for everybody

Providers provide a service. To give you what you want or need that you can't get anywhere else.
They give you what you want and you give them what they want. Business need only.
I am married, I don't need a side chick to fuck that up.
I need some relief now and then. I make a phone call or text, get relief, then go about my normal life.
We are supposed to let them go about their normal life afterwards also.
I do like to send 1 last text or email after the date to say thanks. That's it!!!
If your life is so dull or fucked up that you have to fuck up someone else's, you may need to go see a doctor.
Hobbyist have the option to pick who they want to be with by looks. Providers don't always have that option, if they want to stay in the business.
Just because you fucked a hot chick, don't mean she's yours. She can be if you give her what she wants, but don't count on that.
I'm an old fucker, I know I can't get the quality of girl I'd like if it wasn't for this hobby. I don't want to fuck that up by stalking and getting a bad reputation with all of them.

[Guest 090419-1]

Female stalkers are hot and sexy right up until the time the bunny gets boiled...

I was stalked years ago by a famous, popular pro athlete. No one believed me that he was a sociopath. I was finally vindicated when he was convicted of some crazy white collar crimes (fraud, Ponzi scheme, etc.) years later. He’s in federal prison now and people finally know I was right.

[Lia88]

Exactly! one of my clients i seen Today use to be Soo upset & nervous about Being in the hobby bc he's married. I mean we use to have real talks about it after our sessions where I had to offer comfort and advice. I hate to see ppl not enjoy themselves & feel guilt. But he's not like that anymore.We have weekly meets. It took a while for him to get comfortable. He was extremely nervous but after i say a month he relaxed a bit. Found out it was bc a girl was stalking him & Outted him to his wife. So his release and sense of A getaway was taken away for a while....and that's sad..Providers are like Geishas. Were entertainment & comfort. No matter how fancy you try to dress it up. That's what it is. The more ppl realize that the better. Considering Anything outside that should be discussed and mutually agreed upon..

[Lia88]

Female stalkers are hot and sexy right up until the time the bunny gets boiled...

I was stalked years ago by a famous, popular pro athlete. No one believed me that he was a sociopath. I was finally vindicated when he was convicted of some crazy white collar crimes (fraud, Ponzi scheme, etc.) years later. He’s in federal prison now and people finally know I was right.

Stalkers have no Poster child. They come in all shapes and forms. And most are set off by not being able to have their way. I call it the adult tantrum

[Guest 090419-1]

You are very wise and insightful, Lia. I hope this all works out for you.

[Lia88]

You are very wise and insightful, Lia. I hope this all works out for you.

Thank you <3

[Phoenixx]

I befriended a "under dog" provider. She was being bullied pretty bad, and I let her know I was there for her. Next thing I know she went ballistic. Went to my SO at the time and outted me, went to my mom, son, nephews. Had CPS called 4x in 1 month. Got gasoline thrown at my house, had so many ads with real pictures and information on them. Had guys showing up at my house for those ads. Got a letter from the social security office that I needed to file taxes for working for a company called "eccie" lol. Had text after text, threat after threat. Got served for being a stalker with pages of this and that, went to court and got a protection order on me and had to pay $400. That didn't stop her, it was day and night for about 6 months. Haven't heard from her in awhile, a 1 month friendship went to the left very quickly. I made it through, but who knows when crazy will show up again. When that stalker will have a bad day and come back. Watch for the tell tell signs, the ones I ignored. Don't let anyone near your home or family, no social media. Make money, not friends

jeeeeeeeez. that is so fucked. that all happened within 6 months?!

crazy.

[Lia88]

jeeeeeeeez. that is so fucked. that all happened within 6 months?!

crazy.

Right! damn

[Betsy]

He wrote it in a letter that he would sale his kidney on the black market for me. Put that Stephen king novel unseen by my front door. I would have settled for brass monkey and a biggie sized value meal.

[Phoenixx]

He wrote it in a letter that he would sale his kidney on the black market for me.

stalkers sure do get creative....

Right! damn.

it's already bad enough when a provider has to deal with stalking from a client, but when it's another provider doing the stalking....

that's even worse wtf

[The Water Company ~]

when it's another provider doing the stalking....

that's even worse wtf

Exactly! Sometimes you have to just inter a ***** in your mind as they can be worse than guys. At least that's what works and gives me some form of peace in my frame of thinking.

[Lia88]

[QUOTE=Phoenixx;158500]

stalkers sure do get creative....

Right especiallyyyy when your not answering or returning texts so they create videos of them talking in the hopes that will magically make a difference.
*insider* l