Stalking or is it just meant to be lol

[Lia88]

It happens to the best. You find someone you really like and before you know it your texting them alot, sending flowers to their house, sending playlist full of love songs, popping up at their house. Mind you. All the while this person hasn't responded to you in months. and then finally duh duh duh duuuh...the restraining order.

It's not flattering but I've had a few stalkers even moreso since I started being a provider. In this business the main focus is being discreet and Nsa. No extra baggage. But we all get caught up with having our fav clients or fav providers and start crossing that line. I mean were only human right?....but stalking and just plain liking someone is completely different.

Has anyone experiences a stalker ir stalking?
Or
Liking a provider/client to the point of actually dating?

[The Water Company ~]

Sistine Chapel made this thread for me: @Seeking P - Because sharing is caring
https://webcache.googleusercontent.c...&ct=clnk&gl=us

Everywhere I went the person was there. Damn idiot musta had me on lowjack or something. I could be in the checkout line at a grocery store and this fool would
text and know that I was in the line at the store. They knew when I was home, they would text and tell me that I would be dead by midnight, for me not to drive my car or I'm gonna blow up in my car etc. I never knew who it was.
Don't let your guard down.
There was a reason I gave you a gift.

Gurlll, I've been through it w/these damn stalkers.
Sorry, you're dealing with all that :(

[Lia88]

This guy sat in front of my house and took pictures proving he was outside of my house. I ddnt block him bc I knew he'd do something stupid like that. Now i have enough evidence for my second restraining order.... It makes me regret having my incall at my house. I should have caught the signs from the other guy banging on all my Windows and Doors...

But death threats!! omg I haven't gotten that. I don't know how I would handle that. That's some scary Sh**!

[OldGent]

She let me read some of the texts and emails. Threats of some pretty awful shit. I told her to buy a gun.

[Lia88]

And the sad thing is that's all you can do until something happens...why is it when something happens then action is taken....stalkers should be arrested also. Just like the guy that broke into rihanna house

[Lia88]

The media said he broke into her house bc he wanted to "have sex with her" Nooooo sex without consent is RAPE....he wanted to rape her....then bam. Lock him up for a few hours. That's not a enough. I think it should be a few days and counseling during those days or lock up

[DocHoliday]

Stalking is NOT & NEVER will be cool or acceptable. Gentlemen are paying for the ladies time here. When that paid time is up, they need to leave and STAY GONE until they pay again, unless the lady invites you to stay longer. Just a friendly reminder, this is a P4P site, NOT Match.com!!!!

[The Water Company ~]

But death threats!! omg I haven't gotten that.

Yes, death threats.

At least you know who it is.
The scary part for me was, I never knew who it was.

[The Water Company ~]

She let me read some of the texts and emails. Threats of some pretty awful shit. I told her to buy a gun.

I did.
Lia, always let someone know your whereabouts and stop
putting that fire pussy on all these guys.
That's why u got stalkers.

[Melissa Madyson]

Stalking is never OK... I have a stalker that once was a customer from Dallas, Tx. .....
He get's mad when I won't respond to him, or send him letters, ect. I blocked his number and e-mail, but he just makes up new ones and says he want's me to be with him.

I was being nice at 1st but then he started berating me with nasty(mean) texts and e mails. He even left threatening voice mails.
This guy just needs help.

Sorry you have stalkers.

M.M.

[ck1942]

Louisiana legal statutes are as typical as they come ... but the victim must obviously file complaints with law enforcement -- yes, I know the prevailing thought is that an escort might be vulnerable to LE as a stalker's defense.

The only way to impact the stalker's behavior is a visit from the B&B (badges and bracelets)!

https://law.justia.com/codes/louisia...e14/rs14-40-2/

[Lia88]

M.M. i think that's sadly what our problem is. We're tooo nice. But It's not our fault if thats how we are. I like people and am a people person....


P...girl I cant help it lmaoo when I'm into it I'm into it. I can just imagine what goes on in ppl head like, " Daaaamn I think this girl love me or something". Noooo you cuteeee thoooo papi lmaoo

But all jokes aside. I have a gun. But i seen on that blog it said a .38 is better

[OldGent]

Stalking is always a combination of a need for control and deep rooted insecurities. They can't handle the realities of life so they create these fantasy worlds where they are in control because they dont have the abilities or skills to handle normal relationships or interactions. I would take any degree of stalking very seriously because people are capable of anything when they are making it up as they go along and anything that threatens the delusion becomes a threat.

[DocHoliday]

Pardon me OG but I believe they have counseling, threapy and prescription medication for that. ^^^^ Stalkers should seek professional help...NOW!!! STOP scaring and posing a threat to the ladies!!

[Anna Nikkole]

I befriended a "under dog" provider. She was being bullied pretty bad, and I let her know I was there for her. Next thing I know she went ballistic. Went to my SO at the time and outted me, went to my mom, son, nephews. Had CPS called 4x in 1 month. Got gasoline thrown at my house, had so many ads with real pictures and information on them. Had guys showing up at my house for those ads. Got a letter from the social security office that I needed to file taxes for working for a company called "eccie" lol. Had text after text, threat after threat. Got served for being a stalker with pages of this and that, went to court and got a protection order on me and had to pay $400. That didn't stop her, it was day and night for about 6 months. Haven't heard from her in awhile, a 1 month friendship went to the left very quickly. I made it through, but who knows when crazy will show up again. When that stalker will have a bad day and come back. Watch for the tell tell signs, the ones I ignored. Don't let anyone near your home or family, no social media. Make money, not friends