Quote Originally Posted by darkerside View Post
Over the years, I have explored many different kinks. I have had several ddlg relationships as well pet play. These types of play really are more mental exercises reinforced by the physical.

Same as most Dom/Sub dynamics and rape play. Sadly, most men focus on the physical acts and think it is all about spanking and choking. To really engage the fantasy, it must start with the mental and emotional side to be truly rewarding for a little or a pet.

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You're absolutely correct it's because most of the people who think as such are inexperienced or don't know the true meaning to the ddlg and pet play fantasy.. I think many of them are just Dom's but they feel more superior with the ddlg or pet play reference...