Bobbing a provider's head during a BJ

[Guest 011723-1]

I have had this happen frequently lately. It is irritating. If you do this, I will slap your hand :) Every provider is different, I'm sure some won't mind... If you enjoy doing this, you can see one of them instead.




Besos,


Alyssa

[Barbara1967]

I Will Do It... 💋💋💋

[Kammye]

I have had this happen frequently lately. It is irritating. If you do this, I will slap your hand :) Every provider is different, I'm sure some won't mind... If you enjoy doing this, you can see one of them instead.




Besos,


Alyssa

I second this. And i also state BEFORE giving my famous bbjs do not touch my head at all. I do not enjoy it. :)

[Barbara1967]

I love it.. when they put they're hands on my head...
It means I'm doin a great job...😋😋😋 & I Really love it when I'm told they're about to Cum too...🤩😍🤩😍

[DocHoliday]

I second this. And i also state BEFORE giving my famous bbjs do not touch my head at all. I do not enjoy it. :)

What about touching your ta ta’s???

[Barbara1967]

Ooh Yes, Them Too...☺️��☺️

And Been Thinking, I Want to Hook Up With A Girl... It Would BeThe First Time...But I Hope It Will Be Fun And I Would Want To Do It Again...��������

[Ben Rhimene]

Interesting topic. I bet MathGuy has a formula which explains the friction coefficient impact such "assistance" has.

In the meantime, we all have our likes and dislikes when it comes to physical gratification, and so I would not judge you on your preferences. I would, however, judge you on how you respond. I have NEVER heard or read of negative reinforcement working when it comes to sexual behavior; all the experts suggest using positive reinforcement to achieve the desired result. Words like "no" or "don't" will not go over well and should be reserved for serious safety concerns. Head bobbing is likely a signal to change pace, so a possible approach would be tell him to put is hands on your ______ because it turns you on, and try to mimic the pace he wanted. Good partners pick up on your signals, spoken or otherwise.

When I flip the script, I love it during DATY when a lady grabs my hair, presses me harder against her, and also when she shoves me away due to tenderness, as it indicates a job well done.

But to each their own...I do agree that finding partners whose style suits you is key to great hobby experiences.

[dtymh55]

I do not touch the Lady's head unless she wants it. When I dine at the Y and the Lady touches my head and caresses my scalp I know I am doing a good job.

[Dorthy Monroe]

Interesting topic. I bet MathGuy has a formula which explains the friction coefficient impact such "assistance" has.

I laughed way to hard at this

[Kammye]

what about touching your ta ta’s???

i love my tatas being jiggled...and caressed. Youre long overdue sir....

[Island_Gent]

I have had this happen frequently lately. It is irritating. If you do this, I will slap your hand :) Every provider is different, I'm sure some won't mind... If you enjoy doing this, you can see one of them instead.




Besos,


Alyssa

How ‘bout FF, both parties hands free.
Problem solved. 🤔

[MissBee]

I don't mind a sensual hand on my head but if your goal is to dictate how deep...I will stop. It's my technique... just lay back and relax

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

I need to amend my earlier statement on this subject.....

There was this one fuckwaffle that went on and on about how dissatisfied he was with his past experiences with providers. No connection, rushed, no conversation or cuddling, etc. So he was really looking forward to meeting me since I advertise to provide all the things they were lacking in.

Fast forward to his session...
He comes in, strips, lays down on the bed and just looks from me to his member.
Doesn't seem to want to kiss or cuddle or talk at all.
(Ok....? Let's get this shit over with then)

Once I'm down there, trying to work him up, he grabs my head and proceeds to Rabbit Fuck my mouth. Pops within a minute. Jumps up before I can, dresses and heads for the door.

ALLLrighty then. So most would be wanting to say that he did not like what he saw when I opened the door and he was just getting it over with himself.

However, this guy was calling back only the next week wanting to see me again! W.T.F. ??

No way in hell will I subject myself to be treated like a goddamn fleshlight AGAIN by this idiot.

And Dude, if you are on here and reading this, you know who you are. Stick with the ones you claimed to be dissatisfied with. They were giving you exactly what you obviously wanted and did nothing for you to complain about.

[5t3v3]

I have had this happen frequently lately. It is irritating. If you do this, I will slap your hand :) Every provider is different, I'm sure some won't mind... If you enjoy doing this, you can see one of them instead.




Besos,


Alyssa

Is it the hand on the head you don't like or that the ones who do it are trying to make you gag on their magic wand?

[luxor]

Agreed with hands on the head and being too aggressive. Everyone has their preference.

I personally just let the lady go to work. Especially when the lady is getting more aggressive, sloppy, head bobbing and some hand twisting motion, that’s when it drives me nuts. My hand will GENTLY go on the head as a sign of “don’t stop”. But I’m not aggressively pushing the head down.