Be as honest as you care to be.....

[jojodancer15]

I would have never expected the board to have so much behind the scene politics and hidden agendas. When I first joined I just assumed it was a cool place for providers and gents to hook up and have fun. Boy have I learned a lot since then...

[DallasRain]

It is a cool board.....you have same stuff on every board and in real world things too........my policy is just dont get pulled into it or feed the dragon

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

OOOOO!!!! I remembered something I didn't know in the beginning that I know now!

The LINGO!!

I'll never forget that email from a Gent interested in "A trip to France and possibly Greece" and I told him "I had never traveled out of the US and didn't have a passport"

[JessieJane]

OOOOO!!!! I remembered something I didn't know in the beginning that I know now!

The LINGO!!

I'll never forget that email from a Gent interested in "A trip to France and possibly Greece" and I told him "I had never traveled out of the US and didn't have a passport"

YES !!!! Lmao... Honestly to this day I still pretend like I don't know what in the hell some men are saying in their hobby "Lingo"

[Universal]

What I just recently learned from (reading) observation, most Men will judge/blame a woman that does bareback as an escort but 99 percent of men that are (married) will do bareback with the excuse....he is clean & just recently tested.
He can put on that condom instead of waiting on her to do it, guess he has to blame the woman when he is too lazy.
Dude, check yourself !!!!

[Dorthy Monroe]

OOOOO!!!! I remembered something I didn't know in the beginning that I know now!

The LINGO!!

I'll never forget that email from a Gent interested in "A trip to France and possibly Greece" and I told him "I had never traveled out of the US and didn't have a passport"

Lmao

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I would have never expected the board to have so much behind the scene politics and hidden agendas. When I first joined I just assumed it was a cool place for providers and gents to hook up and have fun. Boy have I learned a lot since then...

That’s the truth

[DEAR _JOHN]

How addicting it can be. Lol

Exactly!

oppppssss I already replied. Sorry about that.

[Anna Nikkole]

It is a cool board.....you have same stuff on every board and in real world things too........my policy is just dont get pulled into it or feed the dragon

Yesssss. Because misery does love company. It's pretty easy to see who isn't happy! Just skip by it like you don't even see it. Mind your own biscuits and your life will be gravy.

[pumpernickel]

How prevalent managers are. And how closely related some providers are to one another(not by blood, but by management).

[Bigtex6]

1. To only meet up with folks who are courteous and professional in the first round of communication. If someone is rude, short, needy, up front, it is a really bad sign and ALWAYS just gets worse, never better.


2. Focus on spending time with quality providers that I gel with, rather than when in my 30s and had the desire (and the ready stiffy) to bang as many as possible! Quality alway beats quantity.

3. WTF is the fascination with bbfs.I never thought I would see it become so popular, for those of us who were sexually active in the 80s during the HIV epidemic. A bbbj is not the same as a bbfs session, cream pie etc. do the research.
Yes with bbbj/daty there are risks but testing and antibiotics can cure it. Never ever thought it would become this popular. To each, his or her own. No judgment, just don’t imagine spinning that roulette wheel.

And no guy can blame the girl, I bring my own covers to every meet .....

4. Use burner phone, separate emails, etc to cover your tracks. I WAS one dumb MF when I started in this hobby, and I even used my own phone.....the great raids of the mid 2000s cured that as I sweated for months ....uncle Leo never called, I got on the board and started following the advice of the Veterans. God was I stupid .....alway, always follow the advice of the old timers ......I mean at least 10+ years.....


5. How many really cool, nice sweet women there are out there who bring true joy to me in one hour increments.....much love and respect to you all. I mean there are ladies who go above and beyond just a transaction. Truly, I have some really fun times and it’s made this COVID shit bearable. I have always respected their time and privacy.

[Anna Nikkole]

How prevalent managers are. And how closely related some providers are to one another(not by blood, but by management).

This is more popular than people know. It's sad. I mean the fact that dating and being in a relationship is tough. Everyone is looking for the same thing "love". Who loves us more than a money hungry pimp. I've seen it in many forms and fashions. Being single for a few years now, I begin to wonder about some of my exes.

This business can be pretty great when you love yourself, wait for quality and don't lower your standards because you are anxious. Or you wanna be in the stable with other cool kids, they show you love because friends and family found out about you and turned their backs.

Honestly I get so lonely and those encounters do help. But I just like to keep my own money. I've considered dating and simply lying about my profession just so I could have a normal relationship. But after a decade and evolution what is normal now anyways!

If I had known I would own so many assets and be retired by now. But... Life!

[JessieJane]

A question for ALL....Share as much as you are comfy with......
Is there something you know NOW about the hobby that you'd wished you had know in the beginning??

On the OP's topic...
Yup.. How crazy things were going to be in the hobby in 2019 & 2020 ! The new laws and how all the emphases on "reviews" really wont matter in the end because the hobby has turned into a shit show. I probably wouldn't have put up with as much BS back then LOL

[Michaelrayab]

Twiggy, so good to see your name...are you back ? Would love to see you if so !
Regarding the question, I wish I had a better appreciation for the amazing ones
who have come along and spent more time with them. Once they are gone, all
you have are the memories and regrets at not appreciating their company more
while you could.

[WangoTango]

I truly wish that I had known When I was single of the existence of the hobby world, the sites, the possibility of being with so many attractive women without the multiple dates and courting involved, being in love for one hour, and then go home happy!
I would have have so much fun!
Now that I am married is so hard dealing with having to hide it, time wise and financially as wife is a CPA financial planner, hence she manages the finances. So doing this when I was single and free to do what I pleased, would have been a life changer!

+1 here!! Lobbying is so much easier than dating or marriage.

[WangoTango]

I truly wish that I had known When I was single of the existence of the hobby world, the sites, the possibility of being with so many attractive women without the multiple dates and courting involved, being in love for one hour, and then go home happy!
I would have have so much fun!
Now that I am married is so hard dealing with having to hide it, time wise and financially as wife is a CPA financial planner, hence she manages the finances. So doing this when I was single and free to do what I pleased, would have been a life changer!

I wish I knew that paying for pussy with money was cheaper than paying for pussy with time.

Good one!