I just looked up these two women. Not certain if there's pics on this story here but I'm suure there are. So yes I totally get it. Also, I looked like a girly girl when I met my husband, and shortly after I shaved my head and had a mohawk. I look like a full blown butch and he doesn't care at all. I also have seen some gents that absolutely love my hair now than they did before. Men are capable of real love.