So sick of the bullshit

[okctim]

small rant incoming... I dont know how I got to the point that I pay ever bill, I do all the cooking and I do my best to wait on my wife and provide for her well being and she cant see to find the motivation to provide anything for me without "getting anxiety" or "felling self conscious"... its such bullshit, sex is literally the only thing I ask of her.. she works full time and yet hasnt helped pay a bill since 2011.. really? I have been married 18 years and were it not for the fact that I have worked my ass off, often working two jobs at times, to the point that finally there is some money saved up, I refuse to give up half of it all... if you know anyone about to or thinking about marriage, please steer them away, its not worth it!

[gfejunkie]

It's always been cheaper to rent.

[Universal]

You are an *ENABLER to a selfish person and it's PART your fault sweetheart for not putting your foot down. My parents both work and pay the bills together.
Treating each other with respect and giving each other physical contact is emotional/intimate bonding that shouldn't be neglected. You probably feel alone and she has become the free loading roommate. Gentle Hugs Generous Man.

[ThatOneGuy4171]

This hit a little too close to home. Especially the quotes.
It may be the paranoid in me, but I would think of where all her money goes if she works full time and doesn't pay anything. Maybe something to look at.
Best wishes to you. Stay strong!

[TexasRiley]

Thats why we're here baby. Providers making marraiges work since ththe beginning of time. Ive been divorced twice btw. Lol

[DocHoliday]

... I would think of where all her money goes if she works full time and doesn't pay anything. Maybe something to look at.

Right on Bro.!! I would look at a gigolo, female lover, hidden bank account(s), property purchased in her name only or through a straw man. I suggest you look at hiring a PI to look into her activity. You may be surprised at what he/she may turn up. However, get your ducks in a row before you make a move.

[DallasRain]

Thats why we're here baby. Providers making marraiges work since ththe beginning of time. Ive been divorced twice btw. Lol

awesome comment..were the surrogate wifes for yall!