So, we as gents want to play safe as well. So when a new unverified honey posts on the welcome wagon and wants to ask us for references, I want to ask them as well. I’m paranoid that even sending references to an unverified person can also have my references at risk. So, with that being said, I asked a newbie for references………and of course that did not go well lol. What do you all think? I think its fair game to ask. Especially if a verified provider cant’t vouch for them.