After-play and pillow talk

[Raikage]

pillow talk is always great and often plays a key role in after-play for me and the ladies I see. It depends on the chemistry though, alot of people are strictly business minded which hinders better business from both parties.

[MarkWatney]

I adore it, but I don't expect it. It's a great bonding experience, and probably enhances the likelihood that I will repeat, or even extend the session if the gal has time. But there's also a lot to be said for a good romp in the sheets even without it, so I guess it depends on chemistry and connection. Definitely makes it more GFE.

[Universal]

so I guess it depends on chemistry and connection. Definitely makes it more GFE.

Intelligent answer my Kryptonite

[Loxly]

I'd think that most guys know, in the first few minutes, if they're going to get the "bum's rush" once they pop. Regardless, both fore play and after play, make a session great (for me). If you treat each session as though it might be your last, which at my age is a possibility, then you leave happy and probably will be a welcomed repeat customer. MHO

And as my Ole Pappy used to say, "You don't ride 'em hard and put 'em away wet!"

[F117]

What a wonderful discussion! So sweet and pleasant! Cuddles! Cuddles!

Hi Alexandra!

Yes, it is pleasant and refreshing to have a discussion with all "sides" equally represented. A couple of months ago I got into an epic urinating match on the Board That is Rapidly Self-Destructing under a National Co-ed discussion titled "IOP". A couple of long-term "hobbyists" insisted that IOP with a provider is as good as it gets. I politely disagreed, stating that there are times when I experienced the real thing in the hobby life.

The trolls insisted that I was being fooled by providers who were very skilled at faking it and playing me like a fiddle....

Then the ladies joined the conversation...

And the trolls disappeared!

I hope this board can maintain this level of civility, although I have to admit most of the ads in the "Red Hot Zone" and "Daily Companion Ads" aren't my cup of tea!

Thanks for contributing!

[Kallie Bloomquist]

Too much IOP can be a distraction, but there are rare providers where it is not IOP all the time, and that is when a session is special.

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

A little bit before, during and after.
It's only natural (and human)....esp as a GFE provider.
Just like kissing and touching etc etc etc I feel some convo is necessary to keep the connection.
I won't talk anyone's head off (my mouth is even better suited for other things) but I prefer to offer a total experience vs just come in and check off all your services list and go.

[Ava In Austin]

A little bit before, during and after.
It's only natural (and human)....esp as a GFE provider.
Just like kissing and touching etc etc etc I feel some convo is necessary to keep the connection.
I won't talk anyone's head off (my mouth is even better suited for other things) but I prefer to offer a total experience vs just come in and check off all your services list and go.

Same here MM :-)

[Ivy de la Courte]

Cuddling and kissing, giggling, and talking are some of the best parts of spending time with people in my opinion. I think that a lot of people who have seen me enjoy it for that reason as well. I try and think about if I could meet someone, say nothing, have sex, and then get up and leave but I don’t think it would even be possible for me to do. As others have said- everyone works differently and for their own reason though. Personality and intimacy are part of spending time with me which I think is what people consider GFE. Cuddles for everyone!

[3daygetaway]

There’s something to be said for going to a foreign brothel, picking a girl from a lineup, not speaking a word (or not understanding anyway), and having a roll in the hay.

One of my few unfulfilled fantasies is doing a double-blind, one-night stand: a friend would set you both up and facilitate the meeting. You’d know each other, as acquaintances but be blindfolded as to not identify them. I’d do the deed, silently, then leave without ever knowing who she was—we’d see each other at social gatherings and always wonder: was he/she the one I hooked up with?

[Westley]

Foreign brothels are ok. To each their own! However, in my opinion the IOP is best proffered by those courtesans with whom I share mutual interests other than sex. That can be a costly endeavor in a brothel. Moreover, those providers who for one reason or another are always stressing over financial matters are usually not a good fit for me. Based on my observations those are the individuals often tempted to operate beyond their appetite for risk.

Not that high volume providers are bad. However, tight schedules with back to back clients afford very little time for a lady to prepare. Especially, the current client is trying to break the bed and nail his genitals to the floor when the next client shows up early. Mr. Charlie (that what I call him-when "he" is in control) has mind of his own and apparently needs extended foreplay. In my old age I am at the mercy of Mr. Charlie and his need for extended sessions and play dates

Coming in as the next client goes out or being interrupted by the next impatient client is a mood killer for me. Hence, Splenda agreements is what I usually try to arrange. I usually pair with one or two ladies UTR and my reach out toothless who may be a good fit when my ATF are not available.I have had more success oversea and South of the Border than here at home. I am admit my personality makes me complicit to a certain extent. However, I attribute my lack of success primarily to the outrageous and unrealistic financial goals as well as the wont for immediate gratification at the expense of building a resilient consultancy.

Shaming potential clients over labels and perceived status is not the way I would go about trying to build a sexually oriented consultancy or create the IOP. A monthly stipend to help with relieve the financial strain and one or two extended or overnight dates a month does it for me. Yes, it is essentially pre-payment for "time" but I eliminates a lot of ackwardness and makes it easier for companions and their admirers to create an experience that consistently exceeds my expectations.

In this way, the unknown becomes a known variable reducing stress and financial strain make the IOP much easier to achieve. As for verification, it serves a purpose but it is not a substitute for due diligence in screening clients. If a client was an asshole before verification then it is probable the client will be an asshole after verification. I just my $2.00.

[Austin Ellen]

I love the word "courtesans" Westley.

Foreign brothels are ok. To each their own! However, in my opinion the IOP is best proffered by those courtesans with whom I share mutual interests other than sex. That can be a costly endeavor in a brothel. Moreover, those providers who for one reason or another are always stressing over financial matters are usually not a good fit for me. Based on my observations those are the individuals often tempted to operate beyond their appetite for risk.

Not that high volume providers are bad. However, tight schedules with back to back clients afford very little time for a lady to prepare. Especially, the current client is trying to break the bed and nail his genitals to the floor when the next client shows up early. Mr. Charlie (that what I call him-when "he" is in control) has mind of his own and apparently needs extended foreplay. In my old age I am at the mercy of Mr. Charlie and his need for extended sessions and play dates

Coming in as the next client goes out or being interrupted by the next impatient client is a mood killer for me. Hence, Splenda agreements is what I usually try to arrange. I usually pair with one or two ladies UTR and my reach out toothless who may be a good fit when my ATF are not available.I have had more success oversea and South of the Border than here at home. I am admit my personality makes me complicit to a certain extent. However, I attribute my lack of success primarily to the outrageous and unrealistic financial goals as well as the wont for immediate gratification at the expense of building a resilient consultancy.

Shaming potential clients over labels and perceived status is not the way I would go about trying to build a sexually oriented consultancy or create the IOP. A monthly stipend to help with relieve the financial strain and one or two extended or overnight dates a month does it for me. Yes, it is essentially pre-payment for "time" but I eliminates a lot of ackwardness and makes it easier for companions and their admirers to create an experience that consistently exceeds my expectations.

In this way, the unknown becomes a known variable reducing stress and financial strain make the IOP much easier to achieve. As for verification, it serves a purpose but it is not a substitute for due diligence in screening clients. If a client was an asshole before verification then it is probable the client will be an asshole after verification. I just my $2.00.

[Westley]

I love me some "courtesans" too Ms Ellen. I appreciate the personal investment, servant's heart, persistence and strong psyche it takes to be a successful courtesan. However, the art of the courtesan appears to be dying practice in a world running amuck with individuals who are inappropiately placed in the "profession" as well as profiteers from self-righteous religious ***** mongering extremists, and corrupt opportunist LE to grossly overcharging newly minted porn starlets.

Don't forget you owe me a spanking. I'll let you catch me later.

[AlexandraSand]

Great movie about Courtesan is 1998 "Dangerous Beauty" about Venice and Veronica Franco.
Also "Memoirs of a Geisha" 2005,
"Madam Du Barry"
"Madam De Pompadour" and most of the period movies often reference famous courtesans.


Paulo Cuelho "11 Minutes" book is very nice too. In this book, very often young lady is reffered to as "prostitute" and not as glamorous "courtesan."

[knottyman]

If she wants pillow talk.
She can scream into it all she wants as I shove my 3inch massive meat stick in her ass.
Gaping her asshole till it looks like someone hit a baseball thru a windshield.