Venting. Comments/Criticism is welcome!

[Mcc888]

Because there are men out there that respect women and their time & company and then scumbag losers that should never be in the presence of woman. It's really that simple. As far as the screening process, while I understand it, it makes it difficult for guys like me that really don't have any good references. Remember some guys don't meet up with girls all the time or are new to this whole thing.

[kytty]

Because there are men out there that respect women and their time & company and then scumbag losers that should never be in the presence of woman. It's really that simple. As far as the screening process, while I understand it, it makes it difficult for guys like me that really don't have any good references. Remember some guys don't meet up with girls all the time or are new to this whole thing.

I don't mind OH2 unverified guys as long as they can verify themselves in some way to me which I have had a couple do. Likewise before I was verified on here, in order to meet some guys I had to really open myself up and let them know who I was and everything about me and then they realized I was good. I sort of got left over a barrel this past year which is why I was doing this. I first found Eccie and then they basically voided the TX section on there right as I started to get to know my way around the board. I was like "dang!" Anyways, I am glad this site is here and hope I don't accidentally ever do anything wrong as far as the rules because I am most grateful and it's really fun to watch all of the different subjects on here.

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

Because there are men out there that respect women and their time & company and then scumbag losers that should never be in the presence of woman. It's really that simple. As far as the screening process, while I understand it, it makes it difficult for guys like me that really don't have any good references. Remember some guys don't meet up with girls all the time or are new to this whole thing.

There are a LOT of Ladies that are "Newbie Friendly". You don't have to have references to screen.

Most, like myself, will accept personal info in lieu of references. Honestly......I prefer this method. I would rather check to see if you are a violent criminal before inviting you into my personal space. lol Provider references are not exactly gonna help with that.

As frustrating (and quite nerve wracking) as it is to send your info for screening.....

Imagine how scary it is for us. Alone and in a vulnerable situation with a man we have never met before to participate in the most intimate of acts.....

While knowing that if we are physically harmed by that person, if he crosses our boundaries, doesn't stop when we say no....we have very little recourse.

Put yourself in our shoes. Just for a moment. Screening to our comfort level is all we have to protect ourselves.

As long as you have done your research and choose only the providers that are verified and have good reputations, surrendering a little info is a very small thing that can make a world of difference. :)

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

This! Very much this.

There are a LOT of Ladies that are "Newbie Friendly". You don't have to have references to screen.

Most, like myself, will accept personal info in lieu of references. Honestly......I prefer this method. I would rather check to see if you are a violent criminal before inviting you into my personal space. lol Provider references are not exactly gonna help with that.

As frustrating (and quite nerve wracking) as it is to send your info for screening.....

Imagine how scary it is for us. Alone and in a vulnerable situation with a man we have never met before to participate in the most intimate of acts.....

While knowing that if we are physically harmed by that person, if he crosses our boundaries, doesn't stop when we say no....we have very little recourse.

Put yourself in our shoes. Just for a moment. Screening to our comfort level is all we have to protect ourselves.

As long as you have done your research and choose only the providers that are verified and have good reputations, surrendering a little info is a very small thing that can make a world of difference. :)