Venting. Comments/Criticism is welcome!

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

I can't take credit for it. Got it from a fellow Sex Worker that I follow on twitter lol

[Guest 101723-1]

Exactly. And I want to say, this may be my last time offering such a huge special. $100 off my normal rates and men will still beg for more.
I would hate for a man to think IM desperate with my 3 sugar dadd—OOP. ANYWHO back on topic

Gentlemen, please have “big dick energy” when contacting me. Tempted to add that in my signature lol.

For some guys, it's all about power and manipulation.

Even if they have the funds, if they pay the rate you are asking, you have the power.
If they are able to get you to bend to their wishes beyond what you are readily giving, they get a sense of power over you.

Running specials is tricky. These type automatically think that you are doing it (like many of us do at times) because you are "desperate" for money.
So, in their tiny dick energy brains, they think "Oh yeah! if she's desperate, she'll take even less!"

Paying the posted rate without question and following screening and booking instructions = Big Dick Energy

Haggling rates and thinking their privacy is more important than your safety = Small Dick Energy

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Reason 508 why I’m in love with you!

Her Screening info:



Name *

First Name: The
Last Name: Slayer
email*: char.charcoal@protonmail.com
Subject * Booking
Message * I'd like to book with you!
any questions, greetings, special request belong here: Hi Cherri! Wold love to meet you. I see your running a $200/ Hour Special. Would love to participate

Date *
requested date of appointment
MM : September
DD : 2?
YYYY : 2019


Time *
requested time of appointment
Hour : 6pm
Minute
Second


Phone *
I will not call/text without permission.
(###) (713) 867-5309
###
####


Location
where would you like to meet? general area: Westchase



Reference 1 *

PLEASE INCLUDE:

-PROFILE LINK : www.hotpinky.net
-CONTACT INFORMATION: Their number here or E-mail
-THEIR NAME : Hot Pinky
recent references ONLY! : saw her 2 weeks ago



Reference 2 *
PLEASE INCLUDE
-PROFILE LINK : www.hottmama.com
-CONTACT INFORMATION: Their number or e-mail or Profile link here
-THEIR NAME: Hott Mama
recent references ONLY! Saw her 4 weeks ago


Reference 3 *
PLEASE INCLUDE
-PROFILE LINK
-CONTACT INFORMATION
-THEIR NAME
recent references ONLY!



P411
SKIP IF NOT IT DOES NOT APPLY - I don't have P411







This literally took me 12 minutes to fill out Cherri's screening info............ 12 minutes of a guys time to spend with this Beauty...............






Trust me gentleman................... Her screening is very simple to do.......... She is not asking for much........






I'l be seeing you soon again my Lovely girl!!


















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[Astros1965]

In all the time I've been hobbying, I have never haggled any provider for a lower rate. If I feel her rate is too high, I move on. On point two, I review a provider's requested info for screening. If I don't feel comfortable providing any of the requested info, I move on. If a lady requests 'x' number of recent references, and I don't have enough to satisfy her screening, I move on. Simple and respectful - no time wasted by either party.

A65

[The1Slayer]

Reason 508 why I’m in love with you!

[Tracker7]

First of all, your special rocks and from what I’ve seen, you do too!

FWIW, I completely agree with you on both:
1 - I don’t haggle, it is what it is. People- all people are always gonna try to better deal anyone for anything,
Whether it’s the yard man or a new car and on and on, and the nature of this hobby will perpetuate it. Don’t worry about it, decline and move on- that’s what I do when I see a 6xx rose/hr.
And on 2- you deserve the level of screening you are comfortable with requiring.
However, from my lowly perspective- being very new at this, your screening appears pretty simple, but some are much more invasive; Copy of DL, business cards etc..
To me that’s a little too close for comfort. It doesn’t make me have ill feelings or say negative things, but I will politely pass.
Safety and discretion are a two way street and if it doesn’t seem safe, I am out!!

Dangers lurk on both sides, your beautiful- don’t sweat the small stuff. This is a good discussion to have- thanks for bringing it up.
T

[Kammye]

Cherri you arent alone. I have learned that if they dont want to follow my screening requirements (and it literally isnt much that i ask) then i dont respond back. It used to bug me ALOT; but there are sooooo many that do abide by my requests; and i give them the fucking time of their life! Im a REALLY good judge of character and the easier the process the more fun to be had when we meet.

BIG DICK ENERGY INDEED SIS!!!! :)


(I MAY HAVE TO SNATCH U UP FOR A DOUBLE SOON) ��

[The1Slayer]

(I MAY HAVE TO SNATCH U UP FOR A DOUBLE SOON) ��

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[Kammye]

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*ponders*.....

[The1Slayer]

*ponders*.....

Cherri Plum...+ Slayer...+ Kammye......=





BUT........!!!! There HAS to be a Review with PICS and GIFS.................................!!!!!






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[Karma44]

Cherri,

You aren't doing anything wrong at all. In fact the opposite. You are doing everything Right.

1. Discounts..... Are meant to be short term and special. You better take advantage of them before they go away. Some, are once in a lifetime opportunities and others just don't come along that often. Think Black Friday specials. I love that you do them for the reasons you do. But unfortunately it is human nature to always want more. Some people just take it too far. I agree with the others, and those aren't the clients you want to deal with. I know you have a big heart and care so much and that is what I love about you, but just cross them off your list and move on.


2. Screening....I think it is great you screen the way you do. It is safer for all involved, plus weeds out the time wasters and cry babies.
The challenge is most other girls don't screen that much. As a result, lots of guys have gotten really lazy about this. I'd suggest 1 and only 1 polite reminder about your particular screening process and if they don't do it then they are not going to do it. Again this is where your big heat gets steps in. At this point just cross them off and move on.
It always cracks me up the guys that won't invest a few minutes for screening, seem to be the ones who waste 5 times that about of time whining and bitching about to anyone who will listen.



Keep doing what you are doing. I wish more girls were like you.
Now the other side of the coin is there are several girls that are not like you and waste our time, ghost us, aren't organized and ask for the same info 2,3 or even 4 times. Which makes things very frustrating on our end.

Cherri,
I have another review of you coming and when I get back in town, I'm coming to see you!

GUYS -- Cherri has made it super simple to see her. She is giving us the answers to the test. Just take the few minutes to get her some info and you will be HANDSOMELY rewarded!

Jut like my man Slayer said.

I mean look at this sexy angel.

[Nascobar21]

1. Your rates seems reasonable from your recent ads I’ve seen this month. If a provider rate is unreasonable or too high, I’ll just move on, no haggle on my part.

2. I understand the importance of screening from a providers perspective. I’ll admit, I’m not a fan of going through a screening process for various reasons based on my experiences. There are times where I provide the requested info for screening but for whatever reason I don’t get a response from her. Like someone else mentioned, I’ve been asked to provide personal information I don’t feel comfortable giving.

Your form seem simple and straightforward but I do want to ask you some questions:

The provider references that you ask for, do you actually reach out to them to verify the client?
And if so, how successful are you in getting responses from them?

That last question is most important because I’ve had situations where the provider tells me they haven’t got a response from my references, therefore I can’t see her for the time being.

As a verified hobbyists on both boards with history and written reviews, does that count for anything with the screening process?

I know that getting clients to go through screening process can be hassle for both provider and client. Think about the different screening process the guys have to follow per each provider we trying to see for the first time.

I don’t have P411, but I do think that maybe this board can implement a universal screening process like a one time thing, that way a provider can simply see that this client is good to go.

Otherwise, we will continue to face these challenges on both ends.

[kline]

Hi Cherri. I was just reading your "vent". I can certainly see the need for a woman who is going to meet with a total stranger in private to have all the information she can get. (not that it would really do much good in a really bad situation). I do not know what specific info that you ask for either. I have had a couple of ladies ask for a complete copy of my drivers license. I would not give that to a person I know much less a stranger. As I'm sure you would not give that info to me if I asked for it. However one of the biggest issues for me and for most of the guys lurking about this site is that this is a hobby for us. Many of us only participate once or twice a year. So when a lady says we must have a certain amount of references it basically means that we are never going to be able to see any of the ladies on this site. A small handfull call themselves "newbie friendly" but when contacted they also want references. I asked one lady if she understood what "newbie" means. I am an older guy and have not been active in a long time but there are times when I might like to for old times sake, lol. Anyway that is all the venting I plan on doing. I hope that everyone out there stays safe, healthy and happy.

[Guest 101723-1]

Your form seem simple and straightforward but I do want to ask you some questions:

The provider references that you ask for, do you actually reach out to them to verify the client?
And if so, how successful are you in getting responses from them?
to honestly answer this question YES. I will always cross check with references. Some ladies take notes after their sessions (such as myself) so we can a) remember the client and his/her dislikes, likes and interest. b) remember their name to formally address them c) have information to pass along to the next provider so shes able to verify "oh hes hispanic or oh hes white".. blah blah. Now, in the case that I do NOT get a response, I have other methods of screening. Looking at board history, reviews, interactions on the board.. things like that.

That last question is most important because I’ve had situations where the provider tells me they haven’t got a response from my references, therefore I can’t see her for the time being.

As a verified hobbyists on both boards with history and written reviews, does that count for anything with the screening process
other thing that I am known for doing is always reading client reviews. things he says, the comments other guys say.. theres many many many other ways to screen which I will be implementing close to the end of this month for gents that infrequently hobby.

There.

[Guest 081220-1]

Never say how many reviews you had with Yes. To some, it may make them happy to know you are good, to most, they see that as though u r a revolving door and tune out. Better to let reviews speak for themselves

[kytty]

I am lately experiencing just the opposite of what this thread is talking about. I keep getting contacted by guys that say they are verified on here but seem terrified to actually meet with me. Some of them I feel I have given way too much information and it still doesn't matter. That is a terrible way to start out what is already a "I-don't-know-this-person-at-all meeting. It really screws up the atmosphere knowing someone is that dang nervous. Other than that I keep getting contacted by guys who try to lower my price as well and that's just not nice in my opinion. They should just look for someone that suits their roster. And the power thing someone mentioned in this thread is a possibility. I hadn't thought of that.