Originally Posted by
Nascobar21
Thanks for your input. In many cases for me, the provider I see becomes complacent and the level of service diminishes. Nowadays it becomes harder for me to be a regular or repeated client. I’m polite and civil in my encounters but I feel that’s taken for granted at times. Not trying to play the race card but as a Black client, I feel like I have to move cautiously due to the negative stigma we get in this hobby. I proactively tell providers I’m seeing for the first time that I’m black just to see the response reaction I get. I once told a provider of another race that I’m black beforehand and she agreed to see me as long as I “Do right”. I take offense to these kinds of response, I’ll respectfully decline to see her.
I honestly feel that “SOME” providers of the same race as me provides better service to men of other race because they are perceived to be more superior than my kind. Lol I read reviews and I’m like “Damm, she didn’t go beyond for me and I paid the same rate”. But then again maybe it’s exaggerated. But let’s call a spade a spade like this doesn’t happen.
It’s possible and vice versa...It's on the same scale as “SOME” men who will pay a Caucasian or Latina provider 300-400 without a hitch, but will turn around and complain about paying that same rate for an African American provider of the same caliber, because Caucasian & Latina providers are perceived to be more superior than my kind. Then I read the reviews and see who they’ve previously seen and at what rates and I’m like 🤔.
As far as the service that “I” provide; I go beyond and above for all of my clients, African American, Indian, Caucasian, Asian. I have a mix, however I will say that 97% of my clientele is Caucasian. I don’t perform based off race. Things that tie into me deciding if I’ll see a client is your initial contact, are you pushy, are you acting like you’re above being screened or like your Gods gift to women, what kind of comments do you leave on the board, are you one that comments and or reviews SW walker postings (high risk for me...add to DNS List & Block), do you talk down on and to women (risk...not someone I want to spend my time with...add to DNS list & Block), did he really just try to negotiate my rate (automatic block & add to DNS list), how do you communicate and approach me? Have you read my profile and complied with my screening requirements. My screening requirements have been personally created by me and tells anyone how to ensure that we will have a wonderful carefree time, that you WILL want to repeat.
Any provider I have interest in seeing, reviews are heavily influenced for me. If she have some NO reviews, I look for consistency of what the clients are saying about the session. If they sharing similar experience, I’ll pass on seeing her. What a lot of clients don’t realize, we have to consider the clients RACE and AGE on the No reviews. For example, A White client may get a better experience writing a Yes review, but that could be different for clients of other race. I doubt any provider would admit, but I think age and race determines how they approach clients.