Hobby Questions to All!

[The1Slayer]

Why don't the two of you just get a room and seal the deal..........................................

[Nascobar21]

Gentle Hugs
Peace offering, I buy you a meal the next time I'm in the Houston area.
We will debate on any topic you like and I get turned on by intelligent conversation. Deal?

I’ll hold you to it on that meal. I don’t forget. Lol

[Universal]

I’ll hold you to it on that meal. I don’t forget. Lol

what kind of food you like?
I aim to please and still be the best smart a$$ around. Giggle

[Nascobar21]

what kind of food you like?
I aim to please and still be the best smart a$$ around. Giggle

Shrimp Pasta

[Universal]

Shrimp Pasta

You have good taste, ok.... I am going to kick a$$ in the debate while we dining. If you don't like intelligent women you can decline but I have a feeling you like me a little bit.

[Nascobar21]

You have good taste, ok.... I am going to kick a$$ in the debate while we dining. If you don't like intelligent women you can decline but I have a feeling you like me a little bit.

We’ll see....

[JFLYER]

I was going to say that this thread was as bad as some of those Houston threads where I made the mistake of saying when I should have listened to those small voices in my head sayin' "SHUT UP". Then I looked, and sure as hell it IS a Houston thread!

Like many of the older folks on these forums, I grew up when segregation was broken. I have seen WO bathrooms across the deep south and special areas set aside for 'black' (later to include almost all minorities). It was wrong then just as much as it is wrong to say my country was formed by racists, and continues to be racist - in regards to people 'of color'. Today *I* see racists as those unwilling to allow others to think differently than they do. While Trump has a evil mouth, the facts seem to support his good work and results to all rather than racism. Yeah, there are a lot of folks with bad mouths and there really isn't much we can do to shut them up. That being said *I* see the current overpowering drive to hammer home a racist tag as being much more decisive, offensive, and harmful to our country.

That all being said, I still have not managed to get the courage to engage a provider of color for reasons attached to the aforementioned drive to tag folks as being racist. So who does that hurt? The serious question based on the OP's assumptions (which may be a bit off - IMNSHO) actually is hidden.

If you are a repeat client, do you notice a change in the providers behavior or performance? Even if your donation given is always consistent.
If I notice a change for the worse, that provider falls on my DNS list

How much influence do a Yes or No review steer your decision in seeing a provider? Even if you seen her before
If I have seen a provider before, it is unlikely a decision for repeat visit would be modified by any other review

Do you fear backlash from providers when you write an honest “NO” review?
Having been publicly chastised (without the use of my name) for my actions during a session I gave a bad review of, I really don't care any more. If the girls want to gang up and black list me, I am old enough, wise enough, and strong enough to not give a damn. In other words, DILLIGAF?

Have you ever been sabotaged when using a provider as a reference all because they want you to keep coming to them?
I don't know for sure but suspect

Do you think certain race or age group are given better treatment even if the donation rate is the same?
I have no clue

Do you exaggerate your reviews or experience just to be a Whiteknight or get special treatment?
Absolutely NOT! The review is what happened so others can make their own decisions based on facts. I read enough reviews that openly state they are fiction to not add to that class. Yes, I know it is evidence of fear of LEO's and that is horse manure. As you should be able to guess, I am NO ONE'S WK and don't expect special treatment. Note that I did not say I didn't WANT that, just not expected it

Do you provide your donation before or after encounter? Do you think the scenario play out differently?
I have made the mistake of funding a couple encounters before I saw the providers and in both cases it turned out bad. One was hours late the first time and the other was days late. The first one was actually never showed after she called and told me a time but I had not funded that session yet. Normally I put it on the counter when I walk in

Do you sometimes feel finessed by agreed or advertised rate and service by getting less than expected?
Occasionally but I write that off to the class of person the provider is - some are superb people and some are simply low class human beings. Expectations of high class people in the escort business is a pipe dream and the pipe is full of funny stuff

[RunTheCourse]

this went south..............






time to end it.......................

That went North.......


Time to analyze it.....


Nasco- Ballsy, Brash, Unflinching Right and a little wrong, Would have been deemed an 'agitator' during the movement, Necessary
Universal- One of her other jobs should be Forensic Detective, Necessary
Math Guy- Conceptually altruistic, bit rose colored, regains points for niggardly insight
Phoenix- Either I need to get to NOLA or she needs to get to Htown.....Very Necessary
Fallout4- Exactly

The dem system worked as it was designed, there is a heated discussion that goes south and Slayer (the Mayor) acts as Mod nudges the convo back on track. Without Nasco and Universal the culture wouldn't move forward because everyone doesn't have the ability or the personality to engage in healthy, lively debate and come to an amiable conclusion. I think most dislike the stench of racism but if history (from the beginning of time) is an indicator of the future it will never end until there are no more identifiably pure races. I think it was designed that way by the creator of this dimension, that's WHY it's called 'your race'...you HAVE to run it. Until we reach our higher selves, which is love, we will have racism
In the context of what Nasco was trying extract with the survey, the race question probably should have been omitted/ rephrased and here's why. (1) Providers will tell you when they are NBA so that squelches the race question for the people that don't want to mix (unless this is a fetish that i'm unaware of) (2) When a provider says they are NBA it doesn't necessarily mean it's a race issue; it's sometimes a (stereotypical) size issue, sometimes it's an age issue (no dudes under 30) and sometimes a (stereotypical) performance issue ['Gurl they like to do it too long]. (3) Just adding the word 'race' clouds the discussion (4) As a society we are hyper sensitive, on both sides, about race. If you are eliciting sexual responses either rephrase or omit that word.

Do you think certain race or age group are given better treatment even if the donation rate is the same?

I think providers are business women first and for me it doesn't logically follow that conscious racism would be the impetus for service inconsistencies; she's already agreed to see you knowing you were AA. If a provider is inconsistent it often has to do with the way she sizes up a client as any salesperson would do which is the human side of her. I think her frame of reference/ instinct could sometimes cause inconsistencies also.

[Universal]

Nasco- Ballsy, Brash, Unflinching Right and a little wrong, Would have been deemed an 'agitator' during the movement, Necessary
Universal- One of her other jobs should be Forensic Detective, Necessary
Phoenix- Either I need to get to NOLA or she needs to get to Htown.....Very Necessary

Without Nasco and Universal the culture wouldn't move forward

Phoenixx would eat us alive doing a debate, she is that intelligent. Brains and Beauty

[Nascobar21]

That went North.......


Time to analyze it.....


Nasco- Ballsy, Brash, Unflinching Right and a little wrong, Would have been deemed an 'agitator' during the movement, Necessary
Universal- One of her other jobs should be Forensic Detective, Necessary
Math Guy- Conceptually altruistic, bit rose colored, regains points for niggardly insight
Phoenix- Either I need to get to NOLA or she needs to get to Htown.....Very Necessary
Fallout4- Exactly

The dem system worked as it was designed, there is a heated discussion that goes south and Slayer (the Mayor) acts as Mod nudges the convo back on track. Without Nasco and Universal the culture wouldn't move forward because everyone doesn't have the ability or the personality to engage in healthy, lively debate and come to an amiable conclusion. I think most dislike the stench of racism but if history (from the beginning of time) is an indicator of the future it will never end until there are no more identifiably pure races. I think it was designed that way by the creator of this dimension, that's WHY it's called 'your race'...you HAVE to run it. Until we reach our higher selves, which is love, we will have racism
In the context of what Nasco was trying extract with the survey, the race question probably should have been omitted/ rephrased and here's why. (1) Providers will tell you when they are NBA so that squelches the race question for the people that don't want to mix (unless this is a fetish that i'm unaware of) (2) When a provider says they are NBA it doesn't necessarily mean it's a race issue; it's sometimes a (stereotypical) size issue, sometimes it's an age issue (no dudes under 30) and sometimes a (stereotypical) performance issue ['Gurl they like to do it too long]. (3) Just adding the word 'race' clouds the discussion (4) As a society we are hyper sensitive, on both sides, about race. If you are eliciting sexual responses either rephrase or omit that word.

Do you think certain race or age group are given better treatment even if the donation rate is the same?

I think providers are business women first and for me it doesn't logically follow that conscious racism would be the impetus for service inconsistencies; she's already agreed to see you knowing you were AA. If a provider is inconsistent it often has to do with the way she sizes up a client as any salesperson would do which is the human side of her. I think her frame of reference/ instinct could sometimes cause inconsistencies also.

I would have to disagree with some of your arguments. A person can still be racist but willing to provide a service or sell you something. For example, Car salesman can provide me their level of service to sell me a car. However, it doesn’t I’ll get the same level of service as someone of another race.

My question about “Age and Race” wasn’t to discuss being a racist. A provider agreeing to see an AA client does not mean he’s going to be treated the same. It has NOTHING to do with her being a racist or not.

A woman once told me that she sees black clients but do not offer us GFE like men of other race. Does that make her racist? Maybe or maybe not

There are providers here who Off & On advertise NBA for whatever reason, I don’t see them as being a racist. The level of service could be based on stereotype based on Age and Race.

There’s no need to omit my question, it’s a legit question.

[Phoenixx]

A woman once told me that she sees black clients but do not offer us GFE like men of other race. Does that make her racist?

(standby)

A person can still be racist but willing to provide a service or sell you something.

Bingo

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[Universal]

magna ^^cum laude won't cut you any slack but you like the debates & I'm over here learning from the Phoenixx

[Nascobar21]

(standby)






Bingo

!

You can answer my questions without attacking or bashing me or just fall back.

[RunTheCourse]

I would have to disagree with some of your arguments. A person can still be racist but willing to provide a service or sell you something. For example, Car salesman can provide me their level of service to sell me a car. However, it doesn’t I’ll get the same level of service as someone of another race.

Good point (beginning to 'lean back'). Maybe I'm naive but specifically, in the context of your question, I don't think a true racist would hobby with their deemed hated race or change their level of service based solely on race, why would she, she's in the money business. More importantly shes in the repeat money business. A part of racism is built on stereotypes but we ALL have them so does that make us ALL racists or all victims of succumbing to stereotypes which means it happens to everyone. What about people with minor disabilities, do you think their level shrinks, unconsciously? Probably. Why would a provider consciously waste their time w/ an AA when she already believes they are what she believes they are? She has plenty of other options with those who she perceives water is wetter, ice is colder and more importantly money is greener

My question about “Age and Race” wasn’t to discuss being a racist.

[COLOR="#FF8C00"]I don't think one can come without the other in America when you mention the word race which is why, if you are eliciting only a sexual conversation, you probably have to leave that word out or rephrase the question. The way the question was asked, you can't get around what we are trying to get away from, racism. What if your question was "Why do you think people are given better or worst treatment even if the donation rate is the same?" and then possibly follow that question up with a "Eloborate?" I think you would have organically evoked the response/ convo that needed to happen to that particular question
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A provider agreeing to see an AA client does not mean he’s going to be treated the same. It has NOTHING to do with her being a racist or not.

True, but the premise is based on race if you single out specific sectors

A woman once told me that she sees black clients but do not offer us GFE like men of other race. Does that make her racist? Maybe or maybe not

(Still leaning) I didn't know this and I think this is the crux of your argument concerning the level of service. If she's consciously scales back due to race but still sees that race I don't know what that is...fantasy?

There are providers here who Off & On advertise NBA for whatever reason, I don’t see them as being a racist. The level of service could be based on stereotype based on Age and Race.

There’s no need to omit my question, it’s a legit question.

I don't dispute that it's a legit question, it's a But this is America, Texas specifically, the cotton pickin deep south and that question got the thread partially hi jacked. Good discussion tho I learned something.

[Universal]

Nabisco used the word >RACE.
we are allowed to have an opinionated discussion about one paticular question subject that peaks our interest because he is doing it, we get to follow in line with his examples. Freedom of speech, practice what you preach.