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    Bad day - broke the rule.

    After many years of mongering, they got me.

    Really weird day. I've been stood up two weeks in a row and again today, and I was pretty damn horny. I looked at my TDL and PMed Stok, who agreed to meet. I got there and she was in street clothes in an unmade bed. We said hi, I dropped the donation ($200 for an hour with Greek) and went to the restroom. When I got out, she was still dressed and said that she needed to pay for the room before checkout time. When I looked, I saw that she took the donation. Yeah, spidey senses going off, but the little head...

    First weird part. She didn't look like Stok - actually I preferred her body. She had shoulder length brown hair and a pretty face, and looked like a pretty hot body. I'd just been looking at pics of Stok, and this wasn't her. No earthly idea how she's on Stok's number.

    Second weird part. She said that we'd met before and described me and my dick in pretty good detail. Said her name was Candy in her last life.

    Really bad part. The door finally opened, and in walks this huge guy - probably 6'3, maybe 220 pounds, asking me - the guy with his shirt unbuttoned - who the hell I was and why I was there in his room. I told him. He kept talking about wanting to marrying her if she just gave up on escorting. He didn't seem violent, but... He said he'd give me the money back (but didn't have it on him at the time ;-)). Fun time waiting to see if I can get any money back from her.

    Conclusion. She came back, and they had a fairly civilized discussion about her behavior. She agreed to repay me and I booked (never to return).

    There's a reason there's a rule - no pay before services.

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    Stok is in her 20s. In my experience, any escort below the age of 35 has a BF and/or SO and/or pimp, and as a species they are not happy that their lady does what she does (but they are happy with the cash she brings in.) Generally speaking, an escort over the age of 35 has had it with asshole boyfriends and/or husbands and is comfortably independent and committed to being unattached. I rarely see a lady under 40, and even more rarely a lady under 35. As such, in 10 years of hobbying I have never had a gorilla come out of the closet to confront me. The younger you go, the higher your risk.

    I’m glad you’re OK, OY. Just my dos centavos.

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    Stok has been on my radar since her 1st post. I was thinking about calling her up today as a matter of fact. I think I'll just wait it out to see if that was really her doing.

    I'm glad nothing happened to you bud. I hope things change for the better real soon.

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    OY, I have done dumber things. This week. And its only wednesday. You would thinkwe would know etter.

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    wow sorry that happened to you. crazy story, I'm curious to hear more

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    Glad you are safe....no fun at all to go through that type of drama/scam etc.
    I had something similar happen to me and that is why I stopped using BP/alligator etc....pimp pulled a knife on me...after that only eccie and Oh2.
    A little concern that this was imposter who ripped u off.

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    Did you get Stok's explanation for all this? She was on my radar, but not now...

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    The plot sickens.

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    OY, I saw that reply (links do make me look) and I think CM is right. Here is what I wrote over there with a correction to (this community is a bit more. . homogeneous) it in red.

    Hmm... I had an incident in June that suggests there is some funny business going on with some providers phones (or phone apps).

    Was in Htown on a fun trip with my other hobby and got text message from some dude looking for a provider I had spent time with. When I said no, he repeated the request along with a fairly detailed description. Again I told him I did not know her or her phone number. May not be the sharpest knife it the drawer, but not rusty steel.

    Then I got a second text of the same ilk from yet another dude. Same ending.

    When I returned to SA, I pm'd the provider and she has no clue what is going on.

    The other day I was preparing to see JennyJenny8675 and she texted me a different number because her phone app went wonky. Later I noticed that George posted something about her phone

    Now I read this and suggest to all who use some sort of phone app that you might want to double check your security as this monger suspects those using some sort of an app may have had their app's security penetrated.

    Again, I may not be the sharpest knife in the drawer but I am not rusty. Background includes network communications and computers and systems audits which also means a little knowledge about activities that don't fit.

    YMMV

    As for breaking the rule, honest mongers all do that once in a while and sometimes even get away with it. There are too many providers (here AND elsewhere) who are of questionable ethics for me to do that again and probably you too

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    I always lay down the donation immediately to put the girl at ease. This is the first time I've been bit in hundreds of visits.

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    Having seen her reply and selfie...

    You may be better off having had the bait and switch, robbery, and the experience of being the leader of a group counseling session.
    Opinions and Assholes. Sometimes it's difficult to tell the difference - especially when you can't separate the two.

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    That makes me sad..
    Y’all this wasn’t even me..

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    Thumbs down pics or it didn't happen


    Quote Originally Posted by OldYeller2 View Post
    I looked at my TDL and PMed Stok, who agreed to meet.
    pics or it didn't happen


    if you can't prove that you sent Stok a private message on August 21, then Stok's
    name should be removed from your initial post; however, if you can prove that
    you indeed privately messaged her, then I stand corrected....


    Quote Originally Posted by OldYeller2 View Post
    We said hi, I dropped the donation ($200 for an hour with Greek) and went to the restroom. When I got out, she was still dressed and said that she needed to pay for the room before checkout time.
    she usually offers a discount for bookings before noon

    so, that hourly rate of yours is likely untrue too


    Quote Originally Posted by OldYeller2 View Post
    I'd just been looking at pics of Stok, and this wasn't her. No earthly idea how she's on Stok's number.

    what I find so weird is how you stayed even after your first negative impression of this chick...
    street clothes & unmade bed?? DEUCES!

    then, since Stok doesn't advertise her number, how did you know
    it was Stok's actual number that you were texting???


    Quote Originally Posted by OldYeller2 View Post
    Second weird part. She said that we'd met before and described me and my dick in pretty good detail. Said her name was Candy in her last life.

    dude....................................

    Stok definitely didn't meet you before years ago since she mentions that
    she started mingling with men recently in her intro

    these random theatrics just make this story look more & more fictional.... srsly



    Quote Originally Posted by OldYeller2 View Post
    Really bad part. The door finally opened, and in walks this huge guy - probably 6'3, maybe 220 pounds, asking me - the guy with his shirt unbuttoned - who the hell I was and why I was there in his room. I told him. He kept talking about wanting to marrying her if she just gave up on escorting.

    I don't believe this... if this was real, you would have gotten robbed & tag teamed by them both

    again, the theatrics just add on to make the story worse & worse in order to ruin Stok's reputation......



    Quote Originally Posted by OldYeller2 View Post
    Conclusion. She came back, and they had a fairly civilized discussion about her behavior.

    why did you even stay when they left the room to talk? most clients would
    have been DONE with that foolishness right then & there



    far-fetched stories like these are planned with one main goal: to damage one's reputation...
    these tales should have proof of communication between client and provider that
    confirms they actually met since it's too exaggerated to even be true

    !



    Quote Originally Posted by Stok Stevens View Post
    That makes me sad..
    Y’all this wasn’t even me..
    don't be sad, you got haters

    you doin' something right, boo boo

    I LOVE LOVE LOVE your androgynous visage xoxo



    Last edited by Phoenixx; 08-26-2019 at 05:20 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OldYeller2 View Post
    I'd just been looking at pics of Stok, and this wasn't her.
    Quote Originally Posted by Stok Stevens View Post
    That makes me sad..
    Y’all this wasn’t even me..
    These two quotes should tell you all you need to know.

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