Clients that want to "Hang Out as Friends", thoughts please

[GFElvr]

I lost a good provider because we got too close and things went downhill outside of the hobby world

[Bullseye11]

Wow, the memories. Chalino was a good guy and always took care of me. Won't even go into the wild times with the crazy Asian on bissonnett (mostly because it was always a blur).

[skittlez]

This has been an excellent thread IMHO...
and of course, all over the map with responses from
STRONG NO! to HELL, YES!

Bottomline... it depends upon both the guy and the gal...

For this guy, I don't (generally) 'hang out' with providers,

I know this is a faux (and temporary) relationship...

butt, I am willingly to if the timing and temperament seems right for both of us

and to date, this has worked out very well...

sharing is caring - and all the best!

[Reese McClain]

I forgot about Dolphin. Pyro and Slayer bring back some great memories.

Let's not forget Billy and Beth. I was more of a Wildflower customer than an Escape/Amazing customer.

I did get to spend some quality time with Billy before he passed. I feel blessed to have those great memories. They did give me my start in the hobby.

[richard fitzwell]

I think it depends on the people. I have hung out with a few ladies just as friends. I think it’s the mindset of the individuals. There are a lot that I would not do that with and I’m sure a lot feel the same way about me. Most of the people that I hung out with as friends have helped me out of a jam or too.

[Anna Nikkole]

I'm friends with a few, but friends get it mixed up. They try to get freebies or discounts. Gotta be careful who you are friends with

[Universal]

I lost a good provider because we got too close and things went downhill outside of the hobby world

The same thing happened to me recently. The client/friend would act like a drill sergeant that you couldn't hold a logical conversation with him, his lack of empathy and emotional connection was the same response, don't worry about it....... most everyday conversation on any topic had the same reply from the guy. Global warming, family, Goals, (his remark,) don't worry about it. Social skills lacking when you keep shutting a topic down.
You would be shocked to find that most clients/escorts are totally different in their public outings. I crave intelligent conversations and some might fall short on compatibility.

[RunTheCourse]

just my $.02
because someone wanted to run things, abuse newbies, dominate threads or have the need to hijack threads and flame members and providers.
I dont feel the need make this thing of ours more than what it is because I have a life outside of this and I am just a handle on a screen. It's nice to be nice and a little respect goes a long ways. Please don't harm our community. I like to leave this thing and enjoy my life and I like to visit from time to time and reconnect with my pals.
So to everyone... Have fun and be safe.

(I didn't mean to preach)

pyro

You can preach this on Sunday's brother

[Zantanna Paralla]

I do it often and have no issues. Meet some of the most awesome people I know I meet on E and P411. One i see and also “hang” out with several times a week. Never any issues and has been going in for years

[MrSuess]

We have a small group of like minded sugar daddies and babies whom we met over years.Created a group on kik and often meet whenever possible.

[WW-DEAR_JOHN]

I did get to spend some quality time with Billy before he passed. I feel blessed to have those great memories. They did give me my start in the hobby.

How long ago did Billy pass away? I don't remember hearing about it, however the last time I saw him he did have cancer and didn't look well at all. I think that was in a bar off I-10 when some of us
were getting together wishing Beth a happy birthday several years ago. This was probably the last get together I attended.

[pyro]

I wish I kept in better touch. I used to trade pm's with him at the other site but that was a while ago. I was sorry to hear of his passing. He left this world better than how he found it.
Back on topic, this is a business. Yes friendships can come out of it but to want it to be anything more than that means you may have issues separating your real life from your hobby life. Know the difference. There is no free lunch.

[jayrcr_13_gtx]

I do it often and have no issues. Meet some of the most awesome people I know I meet on E and P411. One i see and also “hang” out with several times a week. Never any issues and has been going in for years

I have one that i see 2-3 times a week as well. There has been a few others along the way that i have seen social and professionally lol...I believe it has to do with the maturity of both parties and a understanding of boundaries.


And i have also to take a QUOTE from PYRO

I have witnessed the demise of resources like this because someone wanted to run things, abuse newbies, dominate threads or have the need to hijack threads and flame members and providers.

Thank you both for both sides of the coin and your contribution to this thread.

[Guest 081220-1]

Oh no, you dont say....looking for friendship in all the wrong places (a board such as this one). You get what you seek. I'd prefer respect, and a gentleman way of treating others, but friendship is just the wrong thing to expect. It may happen, but even ehen it does,the chances of being hurt is exponentially higher coz this is a board designed for hooking up.

[Universal]

Oh no, you dont say....looking for friendship in all the wrong places (a board such as this one). You get what you seek. I'd prefer respect, and a gentleman way of treating others, but friendship is just the wrong thing to expect. It may happen, but even ehen it does,the chances of being hurt is exponentially higher coz this is a board designed for hooking up.

The broken hearts in this business when a man or woman is mislead into a relationship of free lust instead of love. He won't leave his wife even in the heat of passion a promise of divorcing >Her won't happen.