Results 1 to 15 of 40

Thread: Flirting

Hybrid View

Previous Post Previous Post   Next Post Next Post
  1. #1
    Retired Companion
    Join Date
    Apr 2018
    Location
    Midnight in the garden of good and evil.
    Posts
    1,216

    Flirting

    Human beings flirt for many reasons. The first and foremost is to instigate a sexual attraction. We flirt so others will like us. We flirt to make someone feel important or to disarm them. We mimic and exaggerate attention - sometimes manufactured, sometimes very sincere - to see if it is returned to us.
    Mostly, we flirt because it's fun and we can. It makes us feel good.

    I love to flirt. Who else loves to flirt?

  2. #2
    Basic Hobbyist (unconfirmed) MarkWatney's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2018
    Posts
    386
    Great topic, Ellen.

    I love to flirt because it's fun and exciting and leads to more fun and excitement. One of the great things about the hobby is that you can go full throttle into flirting, whereas in civilian life there are a lot of unwritten rules about how much is too much in a given situation.

    Things move quickly in the hobby world, and it starts with the initial introduction, when you establish who you are, what you're like, and what you have in mind for the other person. Ads are a classic example, and also the first communication from the guys expressing interest in a gal. The ads are all about attracting guys, and the guys' response is more about establishing that they are safe, fun, and seriously interested in spending time/money with the gal.

    Compliments go a long way toward making a connection, especially when they are sincere. If a gal gets the message that she will be respected and appreciated throughout the encounter, then both parties are very likely to have a lot more fun. And if the guy gets the message that the gal is having fun, that makes him feel like a stud, and he's more likely to be a repeat visitor.

    Words of encouragement, expressing interest in your partner's experience, appreciative glances, expressions of delight, and considerate touch are all a part of making the experience unforgettable and highly charged with excitement. I probably missed a few things, but it's all part of the chemistry that makes for a mind-gobbling experience.

  3. #3
    Verified Companion Companion Kitty bunny fuck's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2018
    Location
    Austin
    Posts
    468
    Flirt is my middle name ❤️��
    who needs love when you have ******s?
    home of kinky fuckery and " The Magic Pussy Trick
    "The juice that's worth the squeeze"
    "What in the fuckity fuck you could've had a V8!"
    I have the REAL APPLE PIE
    Princess SUGAR Pussy
    ThreAD highjacker
    I'm not for insignificant mama boys, pricks Ball Grabbing Circus Monkey, pud Pounding Shit Goblins, pudwacker, fuckfaced assholes, so gentleman may only apply. I only acknowledge people worthy of my time.
    NO REVIEW POLICY *unless u check w/ me first

  4. #4
    .
    Join Date
    Dec 2018
    Location
    In Limbo
    Posts
    5,684
    I flirt as an cue for mental attraction and as praise to certain people. Shy people enjoy a outgoing personality that is approachable. Warm and friendly is the most important personality trait in any profession.

    Spelling change of que - cue

  5. #5
    Verified Hobbyist BCD risn2theoccasion2's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2018
    Location
    Austin, TX (Little California)
    Posts
    1,563
    Great post Ms Ellen. Sadly, Flirting is almost a lost art.
    Ask about any of my past encounters.

    Rudeness is the weak persons imitation of strength. Eric Hoffer

    Supporting selfish people is a waste of time and energy! They will always find an excuse to blame you for their own mistakes!
    ― Lily Amis


    As you proceed through life, following your own path, birds will shit on you. Dont bother to brush it off. Getting a comedic view of your situation gives you spiritual distance. Having a sense of humor saves you.

  6. #6
    Verified Hobbyist BCD Lovinglifeinaustin's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2018
    Location
    West of Weird 20 miles from Austin
    Posts
    4,243
    Flirting is a lot of fun. It boosts the ego and self esteem of the person on the receiving end. One of the five languages of love is expressing words of affirmation. Flirting is way of providing those words. We all like receiving, so we should all like giving.

    It’s a little awkward here in cyber land. I would much prefer flirting in person. But cyber flirting is better than no flirting at all, and can certainly lead to some delicious personal encounters.

    Happy flirting all!

    DCAB41B5-DBA7-4A7E-9EE5-53943B055B9A.jpeg
    James
    Loving life in Austin



  7. #7
    Registered Male (Not Verified) Westley's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2018
    Location
    Third planet from the Sun in a Solar System near the outer edge of the Milky Way.
    Posts
    310

    Smile

    Quote Originally Posted by risn2theoccasion2 View Post
    Great post Ms Ellen. Sadly, Flirting is almost a lost art.
    I agree. All to often flirtation is often confused with sarcasm. The art of flirtation like the art of conversation is lost to many of us in this new digital world.

    So....Ms. Ellen when are you gonna stop playing hard to get, come out of retirement and runaway with me? It can be our secret....no reviews!
    Last edited by Westley; 08-11-2019 at 02:49 AM.
    "Love all, Trust few and Do harm to none" - William Shakespeare

    I prefer the company of a lady that is "AA" friendly.

    Bons Temps Rouler!

  8. #8
    Verified Companion Companion AlexandraSand's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2018
    Location
    Between Austin & San Antonio, San Marvelous incall
    Posts
    2,057
    OMG. MarkWatney, You nailed it.

    Austin Ellen, I Love to flirt! Because I can! LOL! Absolutley!

    To all above/below mentioned, I would add Humor. Being funny is paramount, imho.
    Humor makes me squirm with delight, especially when first contact is initiated. I love jesting with words and flirting with my Future-Ex-Lovers. Flirting, for me, extends my date experience, because it can start weeks before the actual meeting. I/you banter on pm's, get exited, fantasize, run-away with my imagination, prepare, get pretty and get READY. Later, after date is over, delight can provoke even more flirtation. It can go for a long time!
    I guess, I am easily exited and aroused by smart and knotty flirtations. And compliments. And gifts. And... And...and...

    Your Gorgeous European Seductress
    San Marcos upscale incall with sexy atmosphere. Outcall - maybe- please ask.

    1 hour Coffee date 500 2 hour Champagne adventure 900 Introduction and Full Body Sensual Massage L1 250/L2 300
    Pegging 1hr 500 Foot fetish friendly!


    No review. Available to Generous Gentleman 45+
    https://preferred411.com/P282315
    Reviews here: https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2512141

  9. #9
    Verified Hobbyist BCD
    Join Date
    Jan 2010
    Posts
    1,161
    Hehehe
    She said knotty

  10. #10
    Verified Companion Companion AlexandraSand's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2018
    Location
    Between Austin & San Antonio, San Marvelous incall
    Posts
    2,057
    Quote Originally Posted by knottyman View Post
    Hehehe
    She said knotty
    You knotty man, you!
    Knotty - as British for silly, mischievous, misbehaved.
    Your Gorgeous European Seductress
    San Marcos upscale incall with sexy atmosphere. Outcall - maybe- please ask.

    1 hour Coffee date 500 2 hour Champagne adventure 900 Introduction and Full Body Sensual Massage L1 250/L2 300
    Pegging 1hr 500 Foot fetish friendly!


    No review. Available to Generous Gentleman 45+
    https://preferred411.com/P282315
    Reviews here: https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2512141

  11. #11
    Verified Hobbyist BCD
    Join Date
    Jan 2010
    Posts
    1,161
    Quote Originally Posted by AlexandraSand View Post
    You knotty man, you!
    Knotty - as British for silly, mischievous, misbehaved.
    I'm not British.
    But I do have a spotted dick
    Gimme 2 weeks and the Dr. says I'll be good to go!!

  12. #12
    Retired Companion
    Join Date
    Apr 2018
    Location
    Midnight in the garden of good and evil.
    Posts
    1,216
    Oh I love the wit and the banter too! I love when gentlemen makes me go hmmmmmmhmmmmm under my breath!



    Quote Originally Posted by AlexandraSand View Post
    OMG. MarkWatney, You nailed it.

    Austin Ellen, I Love to flirt! Because I can! LOL! Absolutley!

    To all above/below mentioned, I would add Humor. Being funny is paramount, imho.
    Humor makes me squirm with delight, especially when first contact is initiated. I love jesting with words and flirting with my Future-Ex-Lovers. Flirting, for me, extends my date experience, because it can start weeks before the actual meeting. I/you banter on pm's, get exited, fantasize, run-away with my imagination, prepare, get pretty and get READY. Later, after date is over, delight can provoke even more flirtation. It can go for a long time!
    I guess, I am easily exited and aroused by smart and knotty flirtations. And compliments. And gifts. And... And...and...


  13. #13
    Guest
    Join Date
    Oct 2019
    Location
    Houston,Tx
    Posts
    749
    Flirting is the Best!!!
    ❤️🖤🖤❤️ I'm a Leo so I'm already a dominant Energy...
    Most flirtatious feature= Entrancing you with my Medusa eyes!!

    Then with my soft touch, and curves you'll feel like you wanna marry a MF lol!!!
    If I want you believe me, your mine once I lock my eyes on you! I feel we are built to be passionate and outspoken and foremost we are all a ORIGINAL!!
    SO I LOVE BEING ME!!

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •