My personal opinion is that
Austin Ellen has the best answer.... but to dive deeper, as I usually do
, let's take a further look shall we?
This topic is extremely sensitive for a variety of reasons but you really shouldn't let it bother you, as Ellen mentioned. Let's be real here. There are guys who contact "you" and are nice, respectful, gregarious, nice looking/sounding, and you
might offer a discount, you might not. Some guys, apparently
many (so many that it boggles my mind to think there are that many inept men
), are disgusting and you want nothing to do with them and you give them the finger (figuratively) or block them or don't reply.
The one thing I would implore many girls to try to see, barring the a-holes, total dipshits, and loads of guys who don't know the first thing about women or how to approach them (
in any situation apparently), is that many of us
do empathize....completely. I do. I know others do. As I've said in other threads, you have gay men that also do this on gay provider sites. I'm sure they deal with the same crap. The issue here is really not about,
what is the value of selling ones body, or that asshole clients don't respect that it can really suck to sell your body as a
"product". Barring those idiots I mentioned earlier, everyone, male or female, should understand that selling one's body to strangers is risky,
can be disgusting, you sometimes deal with weirdos, people who want very odd things or fetishes, etc... and you as the
"product" have to do it. Yes, that can suck, obviously.
This is also why I think women (or gay men who do this as well) should be faaaaar more selective. It's why I have always been so vocal about the fact that client selection (whether it were for men or women) should be much more discriminating.
IMHO if I were doing it, let's say I were gay, or at least willing to do it (I'm absolutely not, it's repulsive to me), but I could
easily appeal to a gay crowd on gay provider sites, I would price myself such that I got plenty of calls ringing off the hook. I would have
extremely picky standards for choosing my "partners" (extremely picky). I would know what they like, don't like, what they want, what kind of work they do, hobbies, personality, what they look like, at least a detailed facial/hair/body description, their hygiene, etc... If any
one thing was off when they showed up or was untrue (at least not to my satisfaction anyway).... sayonara! In this way, were I not totally repulsed by the idea of sex with a man I would only have
decent encounters. I would never be made to feel abused, used, like dirt, made to do weird things, etc...
Girls you
ALL have an opportunity to do this. There is
zero reason any of you, ANY of you, regardless of if you have an 18yr old super model body, you're a PAWG, milf, 35, 45, or 55....or whatever should ever need or feel the reason to do a single thing you don't want to do. You should never need to lay with a man you don't want to, that disgusts you, that wants to do an act that demeans you, that asks for unsafe things you are uncomfortable with, that wants to play out some weird fantasy (to you) that you are totally not okay with, that stinks, repulses you, is a misogynistic pig, etc.... Never. Never never never. Not just because you are all beautiful unique women who should be treated with the dignity that any person desires. That's true of course. But the real reason is bc
YOU don't have to.
YOU hold the cards to
YOUR business. You don't have to serve anyone you don't want to. Period. This is true of any business, any product, any service. But, even more so in this particular niche "underground" industry.
I think that's exactly what Austin Ellen meant and I wholeheartedly agree 100%. Just say no. Get more info about the guys. Say no. You don't have to do it. Not just the money. The money is actually the least important aspect bc it's a damn good income even if you're one of the more
economically priced girls. The important part is not being made to feel like you
HAVE to do things you don't want to, or that you
HAVE to lay down with people you don't want to, or that you
HAVE to endure being treated like some "product". You
ABSOLUTELY don't have to do any of it. That's the beauty of this work and running your own business, just as Ellen said. You make the rules. That's not some hollowed out inspirational cow dung speech or quote...lol. It's the truth.
You are all lovely girls! Any guy who doesn't treat a woman the way she should be treated wasn't raised by a good mother or father. SMH.
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