Sex with an escort is not cheating - CHANGEMYMIND

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Sex with an #escort/#companion/#****** (#payforplay$) is not cheating. #CHANGEMYMIND


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[Torilove13]

Truthfully I don't think it is. If I was married or in a serious relationship I would rather my man pay for play then to mess around & have a emotional relationship with another female. With a escort usually no real "feelings" are there,he sees her they do their thing & goodbye till next time. That's just my opinion & I tend to have totally different views on lots of things.

[SimplyEcstatic]

I think a lot of it comes down to how would you feel if you found out your spouse is doing the same thing and do you want to risk destroying their life.

It doesn’t matter what the ‘cheater’ or person doing the act thinks of it, you cannot define other’s feelings and reactions to a situation. What matters is does your spouse view it as cheating. You can tell them all day it isn’t cheating but you won’t be mending a broken heart by saying their heartache is based on a lack of comprehension.

[MAtuzak]

Sex with an #escort/#companion/#****** (#payforplay$) is not cheating. #CHANGEMYMIND


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Try telling her that when she has the lawyer serve you with divorce papers. I think they'll see things differently

[LovelyEvelyn]

Everyone should just be poly. It's SO much easier and less emotionally draining

[Lovinglifeinaustin]

I don’t think it is. My wife had a different opinion. However, she agreed that hobbying was better than an affair. We both agreed on that.

[Lovinglifeinaustin]

Everyone should just be poly. It's SO much easier and less emotionally draining

That would be nice, but not easy. Relationships are so territorial. Both sexes feel threatened when their SOs are intimate with others.

I watch too much true crime TV. :-)

[robexar]

Ask your wife what she thinks!

For some odd reason, most wifes do not agree.
Once though in Amsterdam, my wife actually let me try out the Red Light District.
We never talked about it, but I was happy as Hell!

[octobergrey]

Being poly is the way to go IMO. The whole idea of monogamy is kinda crazy, if you think about it. There ARE a lot of hot people out there and just because you find someone to have a relationship with, doesn’t mean that everyone suddenly stopped being hot. If my girl sees a hot guy, who am I to reprimand her NATURAL feeling of wanting to fuck him? I want to fuck hot women too! It’s a natural feel where as monogamy is a choice. Just because you’ve decided to become a vegetarian, doesn’t mean bacon stopped smelling delicious.

My 2 cents....