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Thread: thenamescarlett: thenamescarlett robbed me

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    Yikes!

    It’s always the bonafide squeaky wheels getting oiled around here.

    I always hear guys talking about oh yeah I spent thousands to send her to rehab.

    It’d be nice to hear more ‘I invested in this lady who is always on the up and up tuition, or new business venture.

    There are so many trust worthy ladies here who could use your generosity but some of you guys give to the mess-heads and come crying here about it.

    Bless your lil hearts....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love View Post
    Yikes!

    It’s always the bonafide squeaky wheels getting oiled around here.

    I always hear guys talking about oh yeah I spent thousands to send her to rehab.

    It’d be nice to hear more ‘I invested in this lady who is always on the up and up tuition, or new business venture.

    There are so many trust worthy ladies here who could use your generosity but some of you guys give to the mess-heads and come crying here about it.

    Bless your lil hearts....
    You know for sure a squaky wheel actually needs the grease though. It's good that you're on top of things but this is a transactional relationship most of the time. If you want extra money you should ensure you're the one I would come back to if you want more.

    If you are doing well and put together you wouldn't need my help. I'm sure it would be easier for you if someone were just paying extra or tipping beyond what would be considered a tip but it's not something you actually need. If a girl is fucked up and is in a hole they're not going to be able to get out of themselves reaching down to pull them out is just the right thing to do if you're able. I've yet to do it in the hobby but there's been plenty enough times I've done that for someone else in my life and it's always a good "investment" as you put it. Even I don't get anything out of it.

    Let's put it this way: it would be considered normal to give food or money to a homeless dude. It would make a lot more sense if I escorted him to a mental health or outreach facility to get his life back on track. If I did that to a business man he would be rightly insulted and let me know about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by killeeninformer2 View Post
    You know for sure a squaky wheel actually needs the grease though. It's good that you're on top of things but this is a transactional relationship most of the time. If you want extra money you should ensure you're the one I would come back to if you want more.

    If you are doing well and put together you wouldn't need my help. I'm sure it would be easier for you if someone were just paying extra or tipping beyond what would be considered a tip but it's not something you actually need. If a girl is fucked up and is in a hole they're not going to be able to get out of themselves reaching down to pull them out is just the right thing to do if you're able. I've yet to do it in the hobby but there's been plenty enough times I've done that for someone else in my life and it's always a good "investment" as you put it. Even I don't get anything out of it.

    Let's put it this way: it would be considered normal to give food or money to a homeless dude. It would make a lot more sense if I escorted him to a mental health or outreach facility to get his life back on track. If I did that to a business man he would be rightly insulted and let me know about it.
    Aside from the initial overly personal tone, you make some good points.

    I’m glad I could understand where you’re coming from.
    Have a nice day.

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    I just want to say I’ve had $2300 (yes TWENTY THREE HUNNIT folks) come up missing around a well know mess head who’s still around to this day.

    I never outed her publicly or came crying to the boards about it.

    I charged it to the game.

    It was literally the worst time of my life and I STILL had some Gs in the bank to get a uhaul and get my own place.

    Yeah I have had struggle moments, especially the last 1.5 years of laying low bc of the big changes in this hobby world, but I don’t steal from ppl.

    I have also had a few times in all my years where clients come thru when I really needed it and I will never forget them. They’re also the kinda ppl who are like don’t worry about getting it back to me. It’s a gift and that’s it.

    We’re all adults here and we should know by now don’t loan money you expect to get back.
    Last edited by Ebony Jasmine Love; 07-08-2019 at 11:04 PM.

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    I’ll tell it like someone told me.

    You didn’t lose an arm or a leg.
    You lost money (one hundred freakin dollars).
    You can get more money.

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    if i lose an arm or a leg, im getting a bionic new one
    like the 6 million dollar man
    i figure by todays prices , thats about 3 2hr sessions with a greek upcharge

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    Update with a happy ending: https://home.ourhome2.net/vb/showthread.php?178949-thenamescarlett-thenamescarlett-made-it-up-for-me

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