I live iin a very rural area. No providers within hours of me, and not many civilians I would want to nail here either.

With that being said, I work away from home most of my life. But where I work, same as where I live. Nothing to even look at.

So, I usually try to find a route to work that passes through a place where the hobby is somewhat active. Then I have to find a spot to drop off co-workers, like a bar or casino.
Have an hour of fun, then pic up co-workers and head to work or head home.
I usually play on the way home, not on the way to work, after a few weeks of not seeing a lady, I can bone up better.