I think what Domo is complaining about is not getting a reference from ladies he has seen so that he can pass screening for other ladies. I've been quite fortunate in that those I've seen have been happy to provide references. It really helps to have a great attitude, show appreciation to the provider for seeing you, and just be nice. Also, ask up front if she'd be willing to provide a reference or two. I try not to ask for more than a couple of refs before seeing that provider again. It shows I appreciate her help.
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