Dirty Talk During A Sesh

[LoveMonger]

I love to hear a man talk me through an O. That just makes it so much more powerful!

I’m happy to try, but it can be difficult to speak and lick at the same time...just sayin’. ;-)

[Guest 122923-2]

Love the dirty talk. Wish more providers would embrace it!

[Psycho Bunny]

I kinda like it when a lady gets bossy and tells me what to do. How they like it. "Did I tell you to stop? Right there. Now swirl your tongue. I SAID on three fingers max."

But none of that Daddy or Papi or am I a good little girl talk. Nah. Just nah.

[1andonlyboardman]

I was a dirty talker pre-pro, but now it's a bit hard to get it going without being self conscious. If it is requested, I will oblige enthusiastically! If it is a regular, it has been known to just happen. Possibly because it's easier to guage them and the comfort level allows for it.
I think gents should keep in mind that my brain is functioning at a lower capacity during stimulating acts and I may say something ridiculous and end up laughing audibly against my will (i am THAT funny) so if you request it, be sure you can handle the nonsene that may come with it.

I doubt many guys are going to find it a turn off. The thing is, if it's turning you on to do it then it's going to be a turn on for me...Whatever it is. Enthusiasm is sexy, Being self conscious not so much.

[mathguy]

But none of that Daddy or Papi or am I a good little girl talk. Nah. Just nah.

LMAO. I couldn't agree more! I cannot stand that daddy and papi talk (sorry to those who do it - sorry). I guess the "good girl" thing is ok depending on how she says it, her voice, cadence, context, etc.

But the daddy/papi thing? Fucking 1000% agree my friend.

DO NOT CALL ME YOUR DADDY OR YOUR PAPI.

Kinda gives me the creeps and it can be nauseating too (depending on their voice or the way they say it): "Ayyyyye ayyye papi, papi!" or "Oh daddy, yes daddy....you like that daddy!!?". I'm not your daddy (or papi). Haha.

Before any of you get on my case that are from first or second generation families from Mexico, Central America, and particularly Spanish speaking Caribbean islands where this is very common, yes, I realize "papi" (rough synonym for daddy) is used colloquially as a term of endearment. It's not dissimilar to the way "baby" is used in the US or UK and other English speaking countries; it doesn't translate well though. If you are going to direct talking toward your partner you should say "baby" or "honey" or some other "pet name", or simply their name/nick name.

[Guest 011723-1]

^ I agree. I hate using the "daddy" term. It makes me feel uncomfortable (take notes) LOL.

[CubanAva]

LMAO. I couldn't agree more! I cannot stand that daddy and papi talk (sorry to those who do it - sorry). I guess the "good girl" thing is ok depending on how she says it, her voice, cadence, context, etc.

But the daddy/papi thing? Fucking 1000% agree my friend.

DO NOT CALL ME YOUR DADDY OR YOUR PAPI.

Kinda gives me the creeps and it can be nauseating too (depending on their voice or the way they say it): "Ayyyyye ayyye papi, papi!" or "Oh daddy, yes daddy....you like that daddy!!?". I'm not your daddy (or papi). Haha.

Before any of you get on my case that are from first or second generation families from Mexico, Central America, and particularly Spanish speaking Caribbean islands where this is very common, yes, I realize "papi" (rough synonym for daddy) is used colloquially as a term of endearment. It's not dissimilar to the way "baby" is used in the US or UK and other English speaking countries; it doesn't translate well though. If you are going to direct talking toward your partner you should say "baby" or "honey" or some other "pet name", or simply their name/nick name.

It makes me physically ill when guys say "that's my naughty little girl" "my little girl likes that big dick doesnt she" "daddies girl is so wet for him" "my little baby girl likes choking on daddies fat cock" etc.
Like, what? And when I find out they have daughters... especially ones that look similar to me, I suddenly get the urge to call CPS. Especially given the amount of gentleman on these sites that want the 18 y/os that look 12. That's disturbing.
I do not mean to fetish shame and I understand that some fantasies are perfectly healthy and they do not allude to inappropriate or criminal behaviours, but some make me cringe. With that being said, I appreciate that these fetishes and fantasies are played out by two consenting adults and that that may be enough for some... it's the ones who push boundaries that are worrisome.


I prefer the coaching, narrative, expressive dirty talk. Tell me what it feels like, what you are doing to me, how you're doing it, what you want me to do etc. Even the dirty slut talk is exciting. Oh yeah, do not say anything to the effect of "I'm going to get you pregnant." Instant red flag, off you go. That's a threat! No no no no.

[Tx210boi]

For me this is one thing I really need and turns me on the most besides cim, and unfortunately only met 1 that is really good at it while others say they are not good at it :(

[Kandii_Kane]

It makes me physically ill when guys say "that's my naughty little girl" "my little girl likes that big dick doesnt she" "daddies girl is so wet for him" "my little baby girl likes choking on daddies fat cock" etc.
Like, what? And when I find out they have daughters... especially ones that look similar to me, I suddenly get the urge to call CPS. Especially given the amount of gentleman on these sites that want the 18 y/os that look 12. That's disturbing.
I do not mean to fetish shame and I understand that some fantasies are perfectly healthy and they do not allude to inappropriate or criminal behaviours, but some make me cringe. With that being said, I appreciate that these fetishes and fantasies are played out by two consenting adults and that that may be enough for some... it's the ones who push boundaries that are worrisome.


I prefer the coaching, narrative, expressive dirty talk. Tell me what it feels like, what you are doing to me, how you're doing it, what you want me to do etc. Even the dirty slut talk is exciting. Oh yeah, do not say anything to the effect of "I'm going to get you pregnant." Instant red flag, off you go. That's a threat! No no no no.

Completely agree. Had a guy that was into that and once requested 20 minutes into our sesh I pretend to be his 10 year old daughter smfh I instantly got up and left dressing on my way to my car. I felt so disgusted and just horrified.

[mathguy]

^ I agree. I hate using the "daddy" term. It makes me feel uncomfortable (take notes) LOL.

Glad to hear such a cute girl say this and agree with me. And it's also a super sexy latina bombshell!

Note: I mention that last part mainly b/c it's a lot more common in Latin American & Caribbean countries to use papi (or it's translation, "daddy", in the US). Not exclusive, but common.

It makes me physically ill when guys say "that's my naughty little girl" "my little girl likes that big dick doesnt she" "daddies girl is so wet for him" "my little baby girl likes choking on daddies fat cock" etc.
Like, what? And when I find out they have daughters... especially ones that look similar to me, I suddenly get the urge to call CPS. Especially given the amount of gentleman on these sites that want the 18 y/os that look 12. That's disturbing.
I do not mean to fetish shame and I understand that some fantasies are perfectly healthy and they do not allude to inappropriate or criminal behaviours, but some make me cringe. With that being said, I appreciate that these fetishes and fantasies are played out by two consenting adults and that that may be enough for some... it's the ones who push boundaries that are worrisome.


I prefer the coaching, narrative, expressive dirty talk. Tell me what it feels like, what you are doing to me, how you're doing it, what you want me to do etc. Even the dirty slut talk is exciting. Oh yeah, do not say anything to the effect of "I'm going to get you pregnant." Instant red flag, off you go. That's a threat! No no no no.

Wow, not one but two killer Latina beauties that have agreed! Yummy! I don't mean that to sound prejudicial btw, it's just that in my experience when papi OR daddy are used it's probably 4 out of 5 are latina.

But it appears even lots of men do it, calling them their "little girl", or "daddy's little girl", or ask to be called "daddy", according to Ava & Alyssa?

Man, that's creepy. Just like Ava I don't mean to disparage your fetish preferences. We all have fetishes. I guess so long as your fetish is truly on the healthy side and has no socially unacceptable implications then fine. It's just hard to imagine it doesn't when using things like "daddy's little girl" (even if it's some dormant desire). I can see exactly what Ava is getting at about some of the men and then finding out they have daughters near that age. And even worse then finding out they even look the same?? Wow. Creeeeeeeepy.

I feel the same as Ava & Alyssa above. Totally.

Don't get me wrong, I love some dirty talk, depending on the mood, depending on my partner, what she desires, etc... I love certain nasty talk. Just like Ava said toward the bottom of her reply. It can be hot if the girl is ok with it and you both enjoy it and it's not weird or bordering something that is too similar to a socially unacceptable and disgusting act (I.e. having sex with your daughter.... yuck).

Example of acceptable, hypothetical, dirty talk (IMHO):
"You like me fucking that tight juicy pussy? You want more of it baby? Beg for more of that huge cock. Does my little slut want that big dick? You wanna cream all over my massive dick baby? Tell me. Tell me how bad you want it. I wanna make you cum all over my dick. Tell me want you want........yadda yadda blah blah".

Totally hypothetical. You could make it way different, whatever, just an example off the top of my head, but there is nothing socially taboo or "weird" in there. Or offensive.

Caveat: I'd caution you to be careful with "slut" and "wh**e" with girls in the hobby vs regular life. Some girls might be offended by those words and you need to know ahead. Easy conversation. Just ask her if you talk dirty are there any words that are off limits or that turn her off? Simple. Easy peasy.

-MG

[Guest 011723-1]

^ Exactly. You nailed it. I had a session where an older guy wanted me to act like a schoolgirl and say, " daddy." It was extremely uncomfortable and disgusting. I do enjoy dirty talk... But that crosses the line. Anyway, another point that you touched on math guy I also agreed on. I don't enjoy being called a " w****" being called a "slut" depends how well I know the hobbyist. I don't want a new client calling me that. Just my thoughts.

[Island_Gent]

Just an fyi, not sure about other mongers, but I’ve always cringed at being called “babe” “hon” “sweetie” and especially “daddy” by a provider. Like nails on a chalkboard to me.

And don’t attempt dirty talk if your IOP ain’t on point, you’ll sound inauthentic and ridiculous.

j/s

[Kandii_Kane]

Just an fyi, not sure about other mongers, but I’ve always cringed at being called “babe” “hon” “sweetie” and especially “daddy” by a provider. Like nails on a chalkboard to me.

And don’t attempt dirty talk if your IOP ain’t on point, you’ll sound inauthentic and ridiculous.

j/s

I'm guilty of the hun and babe southern girl and that's just how I talk though. Everybody's "hun" lol

[Moondoggie281]

I'm guilty of the hun and babe southern girl and that's just how I talk though. Everybody's "hun" lol

Hun, Babe, Daddy, Poppi, Rico, are all good with me. Sugar, you can call me anything but late for supper!

[Island_Gent]

I'm guilty of the hun and babe southern girl and that's just how I talk though. Everybody's "hun" lol

Do you Kandii. So I need to make regional exceptions to this? Case-by-case? 😊