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    Quote Originally Posted by Kandii_Kane View Post
    1. What are some of your #1 to do's with a provider?

    2. When checking a new provider out what are your dealbreakers and what makes you say "I'm booking her!"?

    3. This wont apply to everyone but what are some of your fetishes/activities you're into?

    Sorry if I'm asking too much just curious is all 😁
    GFE is a must, affection and passion is key, If I wanted a quick robotic pump and dump all I'd have to do is find one of those real cheap houses where all you do is cough up 40 and you get a super model and even then some of them are way more passionate,
    Deal breakers because you really can't tell, alot of providers promise the world but don't come through, is you MUST HAVE REVIEWS, besides looking good, only other thing that would make me take a shot is excellent reviews where I can say hey, she sounds like my type
    Activities? BBJ is a MUST, protection is important but covered bj is terrible, also sometimes DATY is warranted,

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    Usually I'll check out her reviews before booking. More positive than negative reviews aren't dealbreakers but if I sense an attitude while setting up an appointment, that's a dealbreaker. Deposits are dealbreakers as well.
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    1. Kissing and DATY are a must. I once spent a whole 1 hour session just talking and DATY.

    2. No kissing, no DATY, no AA, reviews that say no IOP, clock watchers and high prices are deal breakers. Anything over 200 and I begin to question if it was worth it.

    3. See #1 and I love nipples.

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    I'm off subject, but what's wrong with DATY?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kandii_Kane View Post
    1. What are some of your #1 to do's with a provider?

    2. When checking a new provider out what are your dealbreakers and what makes you say "I'm booking her!"?

    3. This wont apply to everyone but what are some of your fetishes/activities you're into?




    Sorry if I'm asking too much just curious is all 😁
    Must have an incall location and include it in the rate. Even if it is a Notel. There is no way I am giving my ID to rent a room.

    Clear definition of what is or isn’t on the menu. And make it simple, Some girls have so many extra charges for this or that I feel like I am ordering a pizza.

    Updated pictures, change them every week or so.

    Must have a few good reviews.

    If all that, then I just see if we are a match for what I find attractive in a woman, and what activities I am looking for in a session.

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    Quote Originally Posted by someguy12 View Post
    I'm off subject, but what's wrong with DATY?
    Nothing wrong with it at all. lol in this thread, guys are saying if she's not down with DATY, she's probably not the girl for em.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Moondoggie281 View Post
    Must have an incall location and include it in the rate. Even if it is a Notel. There is no way I am giving my ID to rent a room.

    Clear definition of what is or isn’t on the menu. And make it simple, Some girls have so many extra charges for this or that I feel like I am ordering a pizza.

    Updated pictures, change them every week or so.

    Must have a few good reviews.

    If all that, then I just see if we are a match for what I find attractive in a woman, and what activities I am looking for in a session.
    Basically what he said

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kandii_Kane View Post
    1. What are some of your #1 to do's with a provider?

    2. When checking a new provider out what are your dealbreakers and what makes you say "I'm booking her!"?

    3. This wont apply to everyone but what are some of your fetishes/activities you're into?

    Sorry if I'm asking too much just curious is all 😁
    1) A preference for GFE providers, so DFK/LFK almost a must. BBBJ obviously preferred as well but CBJ with good technique not an absolute dealbreaker.

    2) Off the bat I like ‘em thicc, but have played with spinners on occasion. Witty, clever ads pique my interest and if I like the visuals I’m almost always heading in. Bad TCB and younger providers, under 25, I almost never visit with. Just my personal preference.

    3) I had a fav who’s since retired that I used to role play with. Been on the hunt for someone to play with like that ever since. Greek is always a treat with a provider who’s genuinely down. Nipple play(on me) and tuma are always welcome. 😋


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    Quote Originally Posted by Kandii_Kane View Post
    Gotcha. Yes a lot of the younger black males make it hard for the ones who actually act appropriately.
    Guess young white men never act inappropriately lol

    But back on subject:

    Deal breakers
    -Providers that ask for race (since most basically use it as a way to filter AA) *Personally I prefer to see No AA, wastes less of everyones time, and I'd certainly not want to see someone who doesn't want to see me.
    -Lack of clear pictures (e.g., those high angled, super close selfies.)
    -Tone of post as well.
    -lack of, or large amount of recent negative reviews.

    Deal Makers
    -Timely responses
    -Positive community presence.
    -Butt, ass, junk in the trunk, YAMS

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    Anyone that shows a true representation of themselves gets swiped right. I hate a so so review, half hidden shot, outdated pics.....be true.. If u thick fine, if u fat okay, if you skinny bet but don’t sell me on something your not.

    Next I look for location, specials or reasonable rates.....

    My likes..... cbj (choice) but lots of booty and tits worship......but of above all..... Yo ass has to be able to twerk and ride the D like on Xvideos.....

    Left off fetish.....phat Kat, big long labia......big clit.....that also gets you in right column

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    1. What are some of your #1 to do's with a provider?

    2. When checking a new provider out what are your dealbreakers and what makes you say "I'm booking her!"?

    3. This wont apply to everyone, but what are some of your fetishes/activities you're into?

    Sorry if I'm asking too much just curious is all ��

    OP, I think this was a very helpful post to the entire community - both guys and gals should get a lot out of the many answers put forth in reply to your inquiry... attagirl!


    1/3. Sooooo... I like pics and I am willing to make pic reviews for sessions that merit such.

    For me, allowing pics is not a "must do" butt, my to-do list is already long - and it is unlikely for me to put a provider high on the list if she has a no pics policy.

    I do the reviews for two reasons...

    For the GUYS:
    IMHO, "sharing is caring" and my male colleagues deserve to see fresh/accurate pics and intel on my experience with the provider. That info can help them make informed decisions.

    For the PROVIDER: I do a review to help out the gal - and I only do pic reviews, anymore...
    the exception is that sometimes I'll also do a text review on Eccie and refer back to the pic review on OH2.

    A review is a recommendation, an endorsement - and a review with pics, gets her noticed MUCH MORE than via text alone.
    Just see the tally of 'views' on pic reviews vs non-pic reviews.

    THAT SAID, the pics are for HER BENEFIT and I will not pay any up charge for pics and I do not expect (pic time for review) to come out of my 'retail' play time.

    I do enjoy taking the pics - butt I have 1000's of pics already - and millions of free pics are available on the internet.
    So it is GPS to think that I need any certain provider's pic.

    *** ALSO, I do not publish pics until AFTER the provider has seen and approved the pics. ***
    I just think that is 'proper' - so that is my policy. I also remove EXIF data, blur (tats) and crop (face) as needed for her image comfort.

    2. I like a bit of chat, convo - before we get to the pic sesh or activities sesh... to me, this is not 'provider work' - and I expect a 30 minute sesh to be measured NOT BY A CLOCK - butt by 30 minutes of "activities".

    If a provider is a "30 minute on the clock - and out girl", then she seems BP or ListCrawler quality to me.
    I will avoid her OR be very clear with her up front about the terms, I expect. Then, she can decide how she wants to run her biz at that point - and I will make a decision, too.

    The 'retail activities' that are of value to me includes LFK, DFK, caress, FIV, BBBJ, SS, DATY, CG, RCG, doggy, MISH, CIM, anal - all these are preferred (and in a GFE style) - butt none are required...
    30 minutes or an hour of "activities" like these are what I am booking for...

    If a gal doesn't value a pic review, that's no problem with me - we just skip that phase to an activities sesh - and there will (of course) be no review.

    I expect to get some hatin' for being clear on this (my hobby policy) -- butt, I sincerely DO expect 'more' from an Eccie or OH2 gal...

    Several more things to discuss... GFE, IOP, YMMV and TCB...

    GFE - ladies 'act' like a GF if you advertise GFE
    IOP - illusion of passion - ladies, mastering this one concept will multiply your biz with 'repeats'
    YMMV - gents, 'your mileage may vary' - this is one for you. These gals are individuals and they DO PUT OUT a variable service (lots of reasons for this)... so always respect them and treat them very good... they are likely to reciprocate. If they do not measure up, well... cross them off the list - research the reviews - and find a new, better one next time.
    TCB - This is basic BIZ 101 ladies. Put who, what, when, where, why and how much in your ads and your profiles - age, ht, wt. pics, location, hours...

    Guys that ask questions are not time-wasters. YOU (provider) are the time waster if you don't supply info. I've noticed that many OH2 gals are getting better at this.
    Ladies, plz answer promptly and clearly by text or PM.

    Lastly, 'attitude'... I value attitude far more than youth or beauty or skillz,
    give me a gal with a great attitude that makes me feel that she's glad to see me (IOP) -
    and have her act like she is completely committed to making this a very successful session... I want that.

    Unfortunately (YMMV), the reverse (poor attitude) is always possible where the gal (often collects donation upfront)...
    That's procedure is 'poor form/mood kill' and a possible 'red flag', IMHO...
    then if she acts as a dead fish, lackluster attitude and service... just running out the clock.

    Those seshs are my NO reviews (bottom 5%)...

    All the best, gals and gents!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kandii_Kane View Post
    1. What are some of your #1 to do's with a provider?

    2. When checking a new provider out what are your dealbreakers and what makes you say "I'm booking her!"?

    3. This wont apply to everyone but what are some of your fetishes/activities you're into?

    Sorry if I'm asking too much just curious is all ��
    1. I'm a GFE kind of Guy. DFK, lots of exploration (digitally and orally), DATY, sometimes DATO, SS, face sitting, 69, BBBJCIM (preferably with swallow). A Companion with great IOP and who isn't into rushing things is important to me.

    2. Dealbreakers are no DATY, No DFK, no BBBJ, poor TCB, pissy attitude, GPS. Looks that appeal to me, all great reviews that include the things I like, Incall that isn't more than 30 miles away and great TCB make me want to book her.

    3. Not really into fetishes, but I am seeing someone that is into being Submissive. May have to give it a try with her.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kandii_Kane View Post
    1. What are some of your #1 to do's with a provider?

    2. When checking a new provider out what are your dealbreakers and what makes you say "I'm booking her!"?

    3. This wont apply to everyone but what are some of your fetishes/activities you're into?

    Sorry if I'm asking too much just curious is all 😁
    1. I like someone who is willing to discuss likes and dislikes and not say "what ever you want". I like to experiment and find boundries and sometimes edge past them slowly. I like interaction basically.

    2. Something different for me is I am not a GFE guy. I prefer lust over passion if that makes sense. I like doggie, butt play and hate standard missionary. I want it to feel more like we met in a bar and are knocking it out in the alley cause we couldn't help oursleves. (this does not mean 1/2 hour or QV appointments, still enjoy time). The most important I am booking her is communication before hand. Lets get on the same page so we can enjoy our time the most.

    3. Recently I have been in search of the alpha woman experience. This is not BDSM or humiliation, just the I want sex and you are the lucky guy. Not sure if that is a fetish but it is hard to find.

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    Quote Originally Posted by _desta View Post
    Guess young white men never act inappropriately lol

    But back on subject:

    Deal breakers
    -Providers that ask for race (since most basically use it as a way to filter AA) *Personally I prefer to see No AA, wastes less of everyones time, and I'd certainly not want to see someone who doesn't want to see me.
    -Lack of clear pictures (e.g., those high angled, super close selfies.)
    -Tone of post as well.
    -lack of, or large amount of recent negative reviews.

    Deal Makers
    -Timely responses
    -Positive community presence.
    -Butt, ass, junk in the trunk, YAMS
    I never said that at all. But most of us ladies drama comes from younger African American men as to why they have a No AA policy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kandii_Kane View Post
    I never said that at all. But most of us ladies drama comes from younger African American men as to why they have a No AA policy.
    But it seems like most just don't deal with ALL OF THEM, not just the younger ones. I do admit there are some that make that distinction and will post "NO AA UNDER 30" or something similar. But what do you expect from 20 something year olds in the hobby game?.....Like I said in my earlier thread "ridiculous reasons."
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