private Incall VS Hotel

[Guest 011723-1]

I was asked by a client if I had a private Incall today and I'm asked this quite often. I'm just curious if it's because of the discretion and the safety factors? Or something else?

Enlighten me please.

[Guest 072519-1]

Honestly I have done both. It is to a point where guys feel safer than at a hotel. So they tell me. It is ALOT of risk and I have decided to make my new location for only previously seen gents and BCD with strict screening.
Where a lady is doesn't matter if guys see a lady that doesn't screen.
A hotel you can check out of.. Apts have a lot of adversity you are up against daily.

It is easier for like I stated regs/well established gents.

Its not comfortable if it's where you reside rather than just a meeting spot.

There are good things & hazards just like hotels...

[Fancyinheels]

My former residential incall sank beneath the waves like Atlantis. In the 5 years I occupied it, the place pleased many of my frisky friends who disliked hotels and preferred the privacy, stability, versatility, and personal uniqueness of my palace of pleasure with a full bar, kitchen, courtyard garden, entertainment system (other than ME, heh), walk-in closet of costumes, the giant iron antique bed (one of the few furnishings to survive), and my unconventional Celtic flair for decor, chuckle. I never had a problem there... until it flooded.

Hotels have advantages, too, especially for the safety of easy location switching, as do outcalls for the convenience of gents, but boy, I sure do miss that amorous abode.

[Guest 011723-1]

^ I'm sorry to hear that Fancy. You mentioned it previously on the E and I remember. That was during Harvey right? You're right though my place is comfy. The most important thing though is that I feel safe. It helps that it's built like a fortress LMAO! Visitors have to get buzzed in and I even have to use my fob to get to my incall from the garage. LOL. It's a bit exaggerated but it works.

[Lovinglifeinaustin]

I generally prefer apartments and houses to hotels. I don’t have to deal with a hotel concierge, check in staff, custodians, etc. A hotel is ok if I am familiar with the lobby/elevator layout, or if it’s crowded and I can be inconspicuous between the front door and elevator.

I like an apartment or house if only one or two women share the space. If more than two entertain there, then I am concerned about the higher level of traffic possibly attracting the attention of nosy neighbors.

Lastly, I feel good being trusted enough to be invited into a lady’s home. That helps me want to come back.

[Fancyinheels]

^ I'm sorry to hear that Fancy. You mentioned it previously on the E and I remember. That was during Harvey right? You're right though my place is comfy. The most important thing though is that I feel safe. It helps that it's built like a fortress LMAO! Visitors have to get buzzed in and I even have to use my fob to get to my incall from the garage. LOL. It's a bit exaggerated but it works.

Pre-Harvey a wee bit over 3 years ago, but went underwater even worse for Harvey, I'm told. Made the right call to give the rental up, as a tornado glanced the Irish Chihuahua Refuge 2 weeks later and heavily damaged my home. I could only deal with ONE disaster and subsequent repairs at a time. (Mother Nature and I are still not on speaking terms, the accursed witch!)

My old incall had security gates requiring individual and constantly-changing codes to enter, but matters not now, oh, well...

Yes, feeling comfortable and safe while entertaining assures a better visit for both sides.

Some hotels have advanced security... and advanced cameras to pick up every move on the grounds. That would bother me were I a fellow unless I could explain my movements, should the need arise. (Already have a cover story in place for MY increasingly infrequent lodging stays. I mostly do outcall to longtime loyal Fancy fans, now.)

[Guest 011723-1]

^ Oh darn. Well at least you're safe! Yes hotels are a no go for me. It can be a 4 star hotel but unless I'm staying in a different country/city. I would rather use my Incall. I used a hotel once with cameras and it made my client uncomfortable. I can definitely sympathize.

[1andonlyboardman]

A private incall feels more like visiting a GF to me. The providers seem to be more comfortable in their own place.
Discretion is a part of it as well and while an apartment complex can have nosey neighbors they don't have desk people you might have to walk by.
Hotels seem to be hotspots so unless I know the provider well I wouldn't meet at one. Patel's places are fine but again I wouldn't see anyone who isn't well established.

[Securitized]

Motel out call is the “most bestest” option because:
1. It’s neutral territory (level playing field)
2. It’s got less distractions from personal artifacts
3. It’s good for the hobbyist because he can ask the Provider to leave anytime and she must oblige because it’s his room
(Vice versa, if it’s her room then she can ask the hobbyist to leave at anytime even if she took his money but provided no service so outcall protects the hobbyist)
4. It’s good for the Provider because if he rapes or assaults her then she can get his real world information from the motel since the room is in his name

[Oralist]

I feel safer in an apartment. I've done Mr. Patel's Places, but am a little uncomfortable there. I've seen multiple Companions using the same PI at the same time. Scenario for a bust, IMHO. There are a few on smaller streets that are more discreet than those on freeway feeders.

[Mobeezy]

Being in someone’s home is so much nicer.

[TexasRiley]

I was asked by a client if I had a private Incall today and I'm asked this quite often. I'm just curious if it's because of the discretion and the safety factors? Or something else?

Enlighten me please.

The only thing you get from a hotel is that they clean the room for you and do your towels for you at a private apartment in called you're on your terms.

[Psycho Bunny]

I'm a simple guy. I just don't want to have to pay for parking.

And since someone brought up PI's earlier, is there a difference between blue and white v. red and yellow PI's?

[StopShort]

I prefer private incalls to hotels and especially motels. Motels are generally off busy streets/highways and anyone can be seen turning into them. If you have an easily recognizable vehicle, you can be seen going into these. Therefore, I prefer private incalls because of the privacy and anonymity

[Oralist]

I prefer private incalls to hotels and especially motels. Motels are generally off busy streets/highways and anyone can be seen turning into them. If you have an easily recognizable vehicle, you can be seen going into these. Therefore, I prefer private incalls because of the privacy and anonymity

+1 on that.