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    Newbie Etiquette

    We all had to start somewhere. So I’ll ask some of the vets (and providers). I’ve only ever seen 1 provider in the past but can’t help but want to see more and more. Most require references but having only seen 1, what’s the best way to communicate this and make sure everyone is comfortable being the new guy on the block?

    Obviously there’s plenty that goes into this but wanting to become more of a regular it’s tough.

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    Relocated from the InterSEXions "flirt" forum as a more appropriate topic for Coed Discussion, very relevant to the Hobby.

    General advice and debate in forums can be one thing, but every companion screens to an individual comfort and safety level, so best to find someone you're interested in and contact that lass for HER requirements. Explain your circumstances as you have above. Newbie-friendly lassies will work with you, but you can always politely query other providers who don't openly advertise that label. (But be advised that communications to those who specifically prohibit newbies might not elicit replies.) If any bawdy beauty says, "No," just move along.

    There is a newbie-friendly thread of pretty H2 participants stickied at the top of this forum to help you get started, and you might try searching ads in the promotional forums using the key words "newbies welcome" and "newbie friendly." Irish luck in lust, lad!
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    Thank you this is very helpful

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    Make sure the ladies you see that are newbie friendly also need to be reference friendly. There’s quite a few that are newbie friendly but never respond to references.
    REFERENCES ARE A MUST. I WILL NOT SEE YOU WITHOUT REFERENCES.

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    Every lady is different. I'm newbie friendly and offer alternative screening for clients brand new to the hobby who don't yet have references.

    As for references for me it all depends on who the ladies are that you have for a reference(s). I accept references from well know ladies only and I personally don't allow them from brand new ladies, ones who don't screen or have less than stellar reputations. Some times I only need one reference if she is a trusted lady and sometimes I need a couple. There are lots of newbie friendly ladies and one who don't require 3+ ladies before you can meet.

    Just be sure when seeing new ladies that they actually are reference friendly before booking and finding out later when you reach out that they don't vouch.

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    I thought I sent you a list of ladies to contact who are newbie friendly. You saying they did not pan out? Really?
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    I don’t believe I ever received your list doc. I got a sticky thread this morning but found this to be a rather efficient alternative as well

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    Quote Originally Posted by AtxHard12 View Post
    I don’t believe I ever received your list doc. I got a sticky thread this morning but found this to be a rather efficient alternative as well
    Cool!! Carry on good Sir.

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    If you find yourself in S.A.. I will help you 💋 I LOVE to love newbies

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    There are a couple of things you can do right away.

    The main thing is post more. Post a lot. Not just crap, no, but be active, post interesting, funny, complimenting, or contemplative topics.

    If you are well known and posting things of value, complimenting, funny, and so on, over a period of time particularly, it's highly unlikely that you are not a legit hobbyist. Girls, as a result, will be much less likely to question your legitimacy (even if it's subconscious). LE, trolls, morons, dangerous people, and so on, typically don't have a good track record of posting or they don't post at all.

    Second thing? Don't bring it up. Post, become an active member of the community (not only "review" active), talk to some of the girls, and just be a decent and nice guy. You will be very, very surprised at how many "not newbie friendly" girls will not even ask, or they won't care. BUT it's very much dependent on your communication style with them, how you approach them, and your activity on the forums. Or they may speak with you in various PMs or texts over a period days. It's highly unlikely anyone with less than good intentions is going to do that. The smart girls know this and will not care less about reviews at that point. The main issue you have right now is you are truly "new".

    They use the "not newbie friendly" very similarly to how companies hiring for high level professional positions use the "must have a Ph.d in xyz and 8yrs experience". You don't need that in 99% of the cases. I can't tell you how many jobs in computer science I've had over the years where that was supposedly required. It's just a weeding out technique for those who are not fit anyway.

    This culture is different, for sure. That was not a perfect analogy but it's similar. Basically you just have to prove that you are worth it, you are nice, you are legit, and you know how to treat a girl. You will do this by becoming more active in the community, even if just through your posting style and persona, learning how to communicate with girls, especially providers, and being a genuinely good and nice guy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mathguy View Post
    There are a couple of things you can do right away.

    The main thing is post more. Post a lot. Not just crap, no, but be active, post interesting, funny, complimenting, or contemplative topics.

    If you are well known and posting things of value, complimenting, funny, and so on, over a period of time particularly, it's highly unlikely that you are not a legit hobbyist. Girls, as a result, will be much less likely to question your legitimacy (even if it's subconscious). LE, trolls, morons, dangerous people, and so on, typically don't have a good track record of posting or they don't post at all.

    Second thing? Don't bring it up. Post, become an active member of the community (not only "review" active), talk to some of the girls, and just be a decent and nice guy. You will be very, very surprised at how many "not newbie friendly" girls will not even ask, or they won't care. BUT it's very much dependent on your communication style with them, how you approach them, and your activity on the forums. Or they may speak with you in various PMs or texts over a period days. It's highly unlikely anyone with less than good intentions is going to do that. The smart girls know this and will not care less about reviews at that point. The main issue you have right now is you are truly "new".

    They use the "not newbie friendly" very similarly to how companies hiring for high level professional positions use the "must have a Ph.d in xyz and 8yrs experience". You don't need that in 99% of the cases. I can't tell you how many jobs in computer science I've had over the years where that was supposedly required. It's just a weeding out technique for those who are not fit anyway.

    This culture is different, for sure. That was not a perfect analogy but it's similar. Basically you just have to prove that you are worth it, you are nice, you are legit, and you know how to treat a girl. You will do this by becoming more active in the community, even if just through your posting style and persona, learning how to communicate with girls, especially providers, and being a genuinely good and nice guy.

    -mg

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    Welcome to this realm!
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