Responding to ISOs - Men thinking they dont need to send refs

[Lovinglifeinaustin]

How about we get back to the OP’s topic?

[DocHoliday]

How about we get back to the OP’s topic?

My apologies to the OP, if I offended her.

[Guest 072519-1]

IMHO, if someone does not want to be screened, they should go hit up some SWs.

Exactly !!
Last night I screened a p411 gent. He had no problem.
Some guys are still thinking "lets just meet" is the thing to do. Smh.

[Guest 072519-1]

Because there's always a provider who'll put herself at risk and see him.

It's snake season. Usually the risky behavior continues until one of them gets bit
and then we'll get to read all about it in the alerts section.

Until then make a mental note of who doesn't want to be screened and carry on.

This season has me updating my resume !
Im NOT putting myself at risk. Its not worth it.

As soon as a gent gives me a issue about screening.. I block him so he cant waste my time contacting me again.

[The Water Company ~]

As soon as a gent gives me a issue about screening.. I block him so he cant waste my time contacting me again.

Exactly. The second he starts with the ASSholery I block and move on. I do not continue the back and forth with him !

[Guest 072519-1]

Exactly. The second he starts with the ASSholery I block and move on. I do not continue the back and forth with him !

Yes. I actually had a dude go on another site and leave his numb asking me to unblock him.. Lol. Huh no sir once u pull antics with Jess your blocked. No unblocking you once the Fu**ery has occurred !

[The Water Company ~]

^Exactly!

[ck1942]

Below are words included in every member's welcome or verified mail message from the site administrator:


please expect to be asked to cooperate in the screening process for intimate activity.

***And, please cooperate in any screening/vouching process for intimate activity. This is part of the RESPECT for others in the home2 community!***


Note the second sentence in the above ^^^

Doesn't take a lot around here for any member to be reminded/reprimanded or, for that matter, reduced accesses or an "unplanned exit."

ijs

[TexasRiley]

Don't get me wrong, I value everyone's safety, but you have to admit that the hobby has become very administratively overburdening... it takes all the fun out of it. Just my 2 cents.

You're not verified. And you dont think we should screen. I mean our safety and freedom is on the line. That has to be respectable to want to becareful.

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IMHO, if someone does not want to be screened, they should go hit up some SWs.

Exactly!!

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Exactly !!
Last night I screened a p411 gent. He had no problem.
Some guys are still thinking "lets just meet" is the thing to do. Smh.

Yep. If they have no respect for safety and discussion they're not my kind of man.

[Kammye]

exactly. The second he starts with the assholery i block and move on. I do not continue the back and forth with him !

ditto sista!

[suckaforlove]

A lot of times providers DO NOT want to co-operate with giving references just to be vindictive or to keep clients to themselves I guess. I know a provider who said she'd write a post pretty much lying on me just because I said I would not see her again due to her price, even though I gave her a good "yes" review. So in other words I'm probably on some "do not see list" just because somebody wants to be spiteful.

[suckaforlove]

Attaboy. Nah you have to screen in my opinion for safety and L.E. I've talked to some providers that made me want to start a "whoop client ass' list for some of the things guys do to women.

[Tx210boi]

If a gentlemen doesn't want to be screened that should already be a warning sign. There are good providers out there who do alternate screening that help newbies out and then they are glad to vouch for them afterwards. In past I have run into few providers who talking to them in text wanted to meet up and didn't ask for refs. I sent my references info anyways. But that does worry me that they do that, don't let the fact that you maybe struggling financially that day as a provider and trying to have business flow jeopardize your own safety just to see a client and earn as much as you can that day because you have something you need to pay off etc. It happens too often.

[TexasRiley]

A lot of times providers DO NOT want to co-operate with giving references just to be vindictive or to keep clients to themselves I guess. I know a provider who said she'd write a post pretty much lying on me just because I said I would not see her again due to her price, even though I gave her a good "yes" review. So in other words I'm probably on some "do not see list" just because somebody wants to be spiteful.

Yes I've sent about 7 refrence requests out in the last week and have not recieved even 1 back.

[Guest 072519-1]

Attaboy. Nah you have to screen in my opinion for safety and L.E. I've talked to some providers that made me want to start a "whoop client ass' list for some of the things guys do to women.

Your not lying about that !! I have some gents I see and when we talk about the hobby & antics some B.S that some attempt to pull... they are like "Wtf is wrong with these dudes?" Especially when discussing the BBFS jerks who try to pull B.s during sessions.

But, personally how can a guy expect a lady to let him come to her PRIVATE location (apt) with out knowing who is coming? That's NOT realistic at all.

The worst line ever is " Im married, Im a cool guy. I have 9 inches to give you baby. Im not trying to do all that. I just want to hook up real quick."

Believe it or not, this is a common text LOL. Smfh!

If a lady has on her website/ad ect that she screens then just move on if your NOT okay with it. Don't waste providers time with stupid endless texts and get your ass blacklisted !! (Or on the client whoop ass list)