Responding to ISOs - Men thinking they dont need to send refs

[TexasRiley]

Why do gents think if you reply to their ISO that it some how means they dont need to be screened ??

This has happened several times.

Most of us respond to multiple Isos if they pertain to the provider. So a random text is just that a random text. Unless you give your screenname. Your iso doesnt mean you're good to go. You still need 2 refs to see me.

[Attaboy]

Don't get me wrong, I value everyone's safety, but you have to admit that the hobby has become very administratively overburdening... it takes all the fun out of it. Just my 2 cents.

[Psycho Bunny]

I don't think the ladies are asking for any more screening information than what they were a year or two ago. It just seems more of them are taking the time to check/verify them, instead of just taking a guys word they're being truthful. I don't see that as a negative at all. There are more stringent laws now. We all have to look out for ourselves.

I just moan the increasing lots of she day appointments. Sometimes I don't know till day of, or the mood may randomly hit me.

[Italia DiBella]

I don't think the ladies are asking for any more screening information than what they were a year or two ago. It just seems more of them are taking the time to check/verify them, instead of just taking a guys word they're being truthful. I don't see that as a negative at all. There are more stringent laws now. We all have to look out for ourselves.

I just moan the increasing lots of she day appointments. Sometimes I don't know till day of, or the mood may randomly hit me.

That sounds about right

[Universal]

Don't get me wrong, I value everyone's safety, but you have to admit that the hobby has become very administratively overburdening... it takes all the fun out of it. Just my 2 cents.

that explains you not being verified !!!
I hope you don't get robbed by a pimp ....

[Kammye]

Don't get me wrong, I value everyone's safety, but you have to admit that the hobby has become very administratively overburdening... it takes all the fun out of it. Just my 2 cents.

Takes all the fun out of what? Us not wanting to be hmmm idk, raped, beat, robbed, or worse murdered??


Wtf is wrong with some of you men???

[Oralist]

Don't get me wrong, I value everyone's safety, but you have to admit that the hobby has become very administratively overburdening... it takes all the fun out of it. Just my 2 cents.

Better than seeing your mugshot on the nightly news. IJS

[TexasRiley]

Don't get me wrong, I value everyone's safety, but you have to admit that the hobby has become very administratively overburdening... it takes all the fun out of it. Just my 2 cents.

You're not verified. And you dont think we should screen. I mean our safety and freedom is on the line. That has to be respectable to want to becareful.

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IMHO, if someone does not want to be screened, they should go hit up some SWs.

Exactly!!

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Exactly !!
Last night I screened a p411 gent. He had no problem.
Some guys are still thinking "lets just meet" is the thing to do. Smh.

Yep. If they have no respect for safety and discussion they're not my kind of man.

[Josmith12328]

I have not yet done an ISO but I would hav agree with TexasRiley. Regardless of how a meeting is initiated (Ad, ISO, whatever) screening is a reasonable expectation for the safety of the Providers.

[suckaforlove]

Attaboy. Nah you have to screen in my opinion for safety and L.E. I've talked to some providers that made me want to start a "whoop client ass' list for some of the things guys do to women.

[Guest 072519-1]

Attaboy. Nah you have to screen in my opinion for safety and L.E. I've talked to some providers that made me want to start a "whoop client ass' list for some of the things guys do to women.

Your not lying about that !! I have some gents I see and when we talk about the hobby & antics some B.S that some attempt to pull... they are like "Wtf is wrong with these dudes?" Especially when discussing the BBFS jerks who try to pull B.s during sessions.

But, personally how can a guy expect a lady to let him come to her PRIVATE location (apt) with out knowing who is coming? That's NOT realistic at all.

The worst line ever is " Im married, Im a cool guy. I have 9 inches to give you baby. Im not trying to do all that. I just want to hook up real quick."

Believe it or not, this is a common text LOL. Smfh!

If a lady has on her website/ad ect that she screens then just move on if your NOT okay with it. Don't waste providers time with stupid endless texts and get your ass blacklisted !! (Or on the client whoop ass list)

[DocHoliday]

Why do gents think if you reply to their ISO that it some how means they dont need to be screened ?? Who thinks that way? Screening is smart.

This has happened several times.

Most of us respond to multiple Isos if they pertain to the provider. Unfortunately, some respond to ISO's that don't pertain to the Provider at all!! (e.g., a request for an incall in the energy corridor and the Provider's incall is located in the NRG area) ...Your iso doesnt mean you're good to go. You are correct!! You still need 2 refs to see me. Nobody should have any issues with that. Nothing new here.

IMHO, if someone does not want to be screened, they should go hit up some SWs.

[Guest 072519-1]

IMHO, if someone does not want to be screened, they should go hit up some SWs.

Exactly !!
Last night I screened a p411 gent. He had no problem.
Some guys are still thinking "lets just meet" is the thing to do. Smh.

[Guest 101723-1]

Whew

[suckaforlove]

1. I don't argue with or name drop because that's not wise in my opinion, unless somebody tried to do me harm, rob/steal etc etc
2. I DID NOT text "the person" everyday. (Lie)
3. I was harassed for 2 straight days afterwards to do a review and "that person" demanded to see the review before I posted it. (cool, no biggie)
4. After "that person" got what "that person" wanted ($$$.50 + yes review) the attitude turned extremely mean & rude (24 hrs after review was posted). That's why when I was asked if I would see "that person" again my reply was "nope". I didn't complain nor say anything bad about nobody.
5. The next day after replying "no" to the question I was asked, I received a threatening text message that "I have fucked with the wrong person" and how they would start a post in some private area of the board to get me blackballed etc etc it was quite long and crazy but I just deleted it.

All I know is, I don't instigate or start mess, I just stay in my lane. Some people are just trouble MAKERS.