What exactly is GFE?

[Aweshucks]

GFE is pretty simple it's a girlfriend experience you kiss him on the mouth and you suck a dick raw.

No you don't have sex Raw even though a girlfriend probably would that's not part of this girlfriend experience

+1 and has to feel like she is totally into it...like a GF!

[Oralist]

i think its first realizing that it involves intimacy which involves listening, conversation, touching, flirting and loads of kissing and just having a great time with whomever you are with. I love GFE because I like to have that connection thru conversation and flirting, it makes everything better for me.

+1.

[Bigwill832]

GFE is pretty simple it's a girlfriend experience you kiss him on the mouth and you suck a dick raw.

No you don't have sex Raw even though a girlfriend probably would that's not part of this girlfriend experience

Yup yup yup

[muscleman2004]

GFE is pretty simple it's a girlfriend experience you kiss him on the mouth and you suck a dick raw.

No you don't have sex Raw even though a girlfriend probably would that's not part of this girlfriend experience

+4 for TR. This is exactly what I expect from a gfe in this hobby. Thats my definition 100%. You hit the nail right on the head TexasRiley. Also you let the man daty.

[ChrisKnight]

95% of GFE is about IOP. GFE is not about specific activities, it's about the overall feeling of meeting and the chemistry of the encounter. If the man walks away feeling like he's one in a thousand, then he feels like he's special and had a true GFE experience. Even though...he really was just one in a thousand (haha).

[skittlez]

This is an excellent thread and underscores 'the mix' of expectations that guys/gals have re: GFE

I assume GFE will include kissing and some modicum of IOP...

I would also expect BBBJ from a real (or GFE hobby gal),

butt I wouldn't expect BBFS (from a GFE hobby gal).

Maybe PSE 'might' imply that.

I would more likely expect BBFS from a real GF - butt again, not the same expectation from a hobby (GFE) GF...

GFE MUST offer 'good lovin' with pleasant chat, convo and mutually fun 'play'...

Sooooo GFE does not mean (BP style) BBBJ and CFS, with donate demand upfront, mechanical 29 minute "on the clock and out" attitude.

There needs to be the faux emotional connection via IOP. She's the GF, he's the BF...

Smile and kissing and fun and chat are significant parts of all this...

Soooooooooooooo... for me, I have preferences and if there is anything that I MUST HAVE for that date, I just (research reviews) or ask her - or both...

[Snickerdoodle]

Absolutely! GFE does NOT equate BBFS, and arguably not even BBBJ. (Yes, some will debate the latter, I know.) Girlfriend Experience is about attitude, affection, enthusiasm, hugging, kissing, unrushed carnal enjoyment at a comfort level a gent might have with his girlfriend, and not just about any particular intimate act or standard safety precautions that non-GFE ladies also utilize.

This is a great description. The word I like to use is passion. I do prefer BBBJ though.

[Snickerdoodle]

i think its first realizing that it involves intimacy which involves listening, conversation, touching, flirting and loads of kissing and just having a great time with whomever you are with. I love GFE because I like to have that connection thru conversation and flirting, it makes everything better for me.

I like this explanation very much.