In this industry sometimes we have to generalize and stereotype when it comes to clients for safety reasons. For instance, if I don't like the sound of my clients voice when we speak on the phone, I don't see him. It costs me a lot of nice decent clients I'm sure, but if his voice makes me uncomfortable, then being around him will as well.

I used to not see black men, but in some scenarios I have spoken with a client, met with him and he turned out to be black (I don't ever inquire about my clients race.) Even though I am not physically attracted to black men at all, I am ok with seeing them if they are clean cut and well spoken. If you call me and 'sound black' (thick ghetto accent, refer to me as boo, ask if you can holla at me....) I will hang up.

2:04 PM
I have been in the hobby for nearly 20 years and it depends. I have shown up for appointments and the providers freaks out and cancels when they see I'm a big black male. The same one that was articulate with good manners on the phone. I can only imagine many (not all) have had a bad experience at some point. Other I imagine are trying to avoid men that may run in their circles.

In Minneapolis I know there are a large number of West\East African men and their views on women.. well they are not very progressive. I have heard stories about how they treat their women. So here I see a LOT of "No Black Men". Kinda lumps us all together.

The only time this "agitates me" is when I have to make a LONG trip (over an hour in traffic) for an appointment, I get there and she cancels. Sad but hey... life goes on.

• Oct 23, 2018, 8:02 PM
I have never had a problem with Black men as clients, in the sense that they are perfectly polite gentlemen. However, i have blacklisted clients based on the fact that they were so well endowed that i was sore for my entire shift after seeing them.

Its not anything against them as people, im just a tiny lady.

Im guessing the stereotype of black men being on the larger side could be a factor in this issue?

• Oct 23, 2018, 3:50 PM
i have asked some of the girls about this, and they told me it's because they are cheap, (as anyone who has ever waited on them in a restaurant can tell you). also, they don't like to wear rubbers, their dicks are too big and they hurt, and some of them try to become the girl's pimp. of course not ALL blacks are the same, but let's be realistic, in life you have got to play the percentages.

• Oct 29, 2018, 10:40 AM
Quote from a lovely young lady with whom I have been a client "They are cheap and their dicks are too big."

• 7:24 AM
They are significantly more likely to be beaten and raped by black men then any other group.

1:42 AM
actually, on personal experiences I was seeing Black women escorts and they preferred white men over black men. One of them told me "white men treat me better." Came as a surprise to me also.