Facesitting 101 - I Would Appreciate Some Advice!

[elisabethwhispers]

I was having a zesty conversation with a girlfriend yesterday and well, the subject of facesitting and smothering came up.

Some submissive men like for a larger woman to sit on their face and be ahhhh...I don't know how to word it. But they like extreme facesitting.

I have always felt uncomfortable with it to a great extent. But since I am trying to broaden my repertoire (lol), I would like to ask the men and women out there about experiences with a woman lowering herself on a face and what are the impressions.

Is there a better way to do it? There is an OBVIOUS difference between a sensual act and one that is more aggressive in nature. Discussing both is just great but I thought placing this in the dungeon section was the best place to post the topic.

Would appreciate your thoughts! Hope I wasn't shocking. Just wish to know some additional techniques.

Thanks!
Elisabeth

[maxx (no longer active here)]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (elisabethwhispers @ Mar 6 2009, 08:44 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

I was having a zesty conversation with a girlfriend yesterday and well, the subject of facesitting and smothering came up.

Some submissive men like for a larger woman to sit on their face and be ahhhh...I don&#39;t know how to word it. But they like extreme facesitting.

I have always felt uncomfortable with it to a great extent. But since I am trying to broaden my repertoire (lol), I would like to ask the men and women out there about experiences with a woman lowering herself on a face and what are the impressions.

Is there a better way to do it? There is an OBVIOUS difference between a sensual act and one that is more aggressive in nature. Discussing both is just great but I thought placing this in the dungeon section was the best place to post the topic.

Would appreciate your thoughts! Hope I wasn&#39;t shocking. Just wish to know some additional techniques.

Thanks!
Elisabeth[/b]

I&#39;ve had both types of "carnival" and by far I much more enjoy the sensual easy approach. I don&#39;t like being smothered and having to gasp for air! Takes away from the enjoyment for me. You hold yourself (hover) just in reach of my mouth and tongue so you can be sensitivly caressed and sucked upon, if your partner wants more he&#39;ll pull you down or push up closer to you.

carnival -- sit on my face and I&#39;ll guess your weight

Just my .02 on the subject.

Maxx

[Guested as duplicate]

I specialize in face sitting. Use your ass on a mans face like a big breasted stripper would rub her boobs on your face. Also, they like to lick a clean, slick ass hole while you moan and rub your clit. Change it up a little by instructing them to lick the clit, then suck the clit, then wrap your theighs around his head and squeeze gently holding your pussy a few inches from his mouth. Now instruct him to reach with his tongue, come on boy, work for it. Ahhhh, reward him with a nice mouthful of your sweet wet hole. Tell him to hold his tongue still while you rub your clit, pussy, then ass allllll the way up, then allllll the way back. You can also rub your ass gently on his forehead, on his head if he is balding, oh so nice. Don&#39;t feel like he has to be on his back the whole time. Put him on the bed, legs crossed, facing the wall. Now stradle him also facing the wall. Now use him as your barstool. Okay girls, no taking my men now that you know my facesitting secrets!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh, and talk to him the whole time, good boy, harder, softer, do circles on the clit, make love to my pussy, worship my Goddess ass. you want to be my fuck toy, my designated bar stool? You want to please your Goddess? Oh, bad boy, don&#39;t talk with your mouth full!!!!! Are you grateful for this ass? Do you dream of my ass in your face? Are you going to wear my cum on your face all day so you can smell me?

[Tia Travels]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Taylor Maiden @ Mar 6 2009, 05:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

I specialize in face sitting. Use your ass ...you can smell me?[/b]

Egads! I&#39;m getting all excited reading your description. LOL

[aljan]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Taylor Maiden @ Mar 6 2009, 04:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

I specialize in face sitting. Use your ass on a mans face like a big breasted stripper would rub her boobs on your face. Also, they like to lick a clean, slick ass hole while you moan and rub your clit. Change it up a little by instructing them to lick the clit, then suck the clit, then wrap your theighs around his head and squeeze gently holding your pussy a few inches from his mouth. Now instruct him to reach with his tongue, come on boy, work for it. Ahhhh, reward him with a nice mouthful of your sweet wet hole. Tell him to hold his tongue still while you rub your clit, pussy, then ass allllll the way up, then allllll the way back. You can also rub your ass gently on his forehead, on his head if he is balding, oh so nice. Don&#39;t feel like he has to be on his back the whole time. Put him on the bed, legs crossed, facing the wall. Now stradle him also facing the wall. Now use him as your barstool. Okay girls, no taking my men now that you know my facesitting secrets!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh, and talk to him the whole time, good boy, harder, softer, do circles on the clit, make love to my pussy, worship my Goddess ass. you want to be my fuck toy, my designated bar stool? You want to please your Goddess? Oh, bad boy, don&#39;t talk with your mouth full!!!!! Are you grateful for this ass? Do you dream of my ass in your face? Are you going to wear my cum on your face all day so you can smell me?[/b]

Wow what a virtual experience reading your post has been, almost orgasmic, could hear your voice, my response to your instructions, and the passion such a session would ignite. Me likey.........yummy yummy :P

[amazingasia]

<div align='center'><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Taylor Maiden @ Mar 6 2009, 04:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

I specialize in face sitting. Use your ass on a mans face like a big breasted stripper would rub her boobs on your face. Also, they like to lick a clean, slick ass hole while you moan and rub your clit. Change it up a little by instructing them to lick the clit, then suck the clit, then wrap your theighs around his head and squeeze gently holding your pussy a few inches from his mouth. Now instruct him to reach with his tongue, come on boy, work for it. Ahhhh, reward him with a nice mouthful of your sweet wet hole. Tell him to hold his tongue still while you rub your clit, pussy, then ass allllll the way up, then allllll the way back. You can also rub your ass gently on his forehead, on his head if he is balding, oh so nice. Don&#39;t feel like he has to be on his back the whole time. Put him on the bed, legs crossed, facing the wall. Now stradle him also facing the wall. Now use him as your barstool. Okay girls, no taking my men now that you know my facesitting secrets!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh, and talk to him the whole time, good boy, harder, softer, do circles on the clit, make love to my pussy, worship my Goddess ass. you want to be my fuck toy, my designated bar stool? You want to please your Goddess? Oh, bad boy, don&#39;t talk with your mouth full!!!!! Are you grateful for this ass? Do you dream of my ass in your face? Are you going to wear my cum on your face all day so you can smell me?[/b]

<span style="color:#9932CC"><span style="font-family:Century Gothic">Ive had so many responses for this type of uhh...fetish and didnt really know how to approach it. Just like elisabethwhispers I too am trying to broaden my repertoire and Taylor Maiden I see I need to be taking lessons from you. Your description even got me a little moist ;) as I could see myself applying your techniques in my personal time. Lol
Thanks for the help!!</span></div></span>

[maxx (no longer active here)]

Yes, I must admit, that is quite an explaination. Has me rethinking my response. I still like the soft sensual approach ;) But until I try the sensual dom, I can&#39;t say I wouldn&#39;t like it!!!!

[PurplRose]

Wow Ladies. Thanks for the post EW and thanks for that oh so graffic instruction TM.

I can&#39;t wait to practice.:P

I have only ever had a couple of guys ask me to sit on their faces, but now if I do.....mmmmm, can&#39;t wait.:D

[yourslave]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Taylor Maiden @ Mar 6 2009, 05:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

I specialize in face sitting. Use your ass on a mans face like a big breasted stripper would rub her boobs on your face. Also, they like to lick a clean, slick ass hole while you moan and rub your clit. Change it up a little by instructing them to lick the clit, then suck the clit, then wrap your theighs around his head and squeeze gently holding your pussy a few inches from his mouth. Now instruct him to reach with his tongue, come on boy, work for it. Ahhhh, reward him with a nice mouthful of your sweet wet hole. Tell him to hold his tongue still while you rub your clit, pussy, then ass allllll the way up, then allllll the way back. You can also rub your ass gently on his forehead, on his head if he is balding, oh so nice. Don&#39;t feel like he has to be on his back the whole time. Put him on the bed, legs crossed, facing the wall. Now stradle him also facing the wall. Now use him as your barstool. Okay girls, no taking my men now that you know my facesitting secrets!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh, and talk to him the whole time, good boy, harder, softer, do circles on the clit, make love to my pussy, worship my Goddess ass. you want to be my fuck toy, my designated bar stool? You want to please your Goddess? Oh, bad boy, don&#39;t talk with your mouth full!!!!! Are you grateful for this ass? Do you dream of my ass in your face? Are you going to wear my cum on your face all day so you can smell me?[/b]

Wow... that&#39;s about all I can say is wow...

[vivianbrowne]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Taylor Maiden @ Mar 6 2009, 05:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

I specialize in face sitting. Use your ass on a mans face like a big breasted stripper would rub her boobs on your face. Also, they like to lick a clean, slick ass hole while you moan and rub your clit. Change it up a little by instructing them to lick the clit, then suck the clit, then wrap your theighs around his head and squeeze gently holding your pussy a few inches from his mouth. Now instruct him to reach with his tongue, come on boy, work for it. Ahhhh, reward him with a nice mouthful of your sweet wet hole. Tell him to hold his tongue still while you rub your clit, pussy, then ass allllll the way up, then allllll the way back. You can also rub your ass gently on his forehead, on his head if he is balding, oh so nice. Don&#39;t feel like he has to be on his back the whole time. Put him on the bed, legs crossed, facing the wall. Now stradle him also facing the wall. Now use him as your barstool. Okay girls, no taking my men now that you know my facesitting secrets!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh, and talk to him the whole time, good boy, harder, softer, do circles on the clit, make love to my pussy, worship my Goddess ass. you want to be my fuck toy, my designated bar stool? You want to please your Goddess? Oh, bad boy, don&#39;t talk with your mouth full!!!!! Are you grateful for this ass? Do you dream of my ass in your face? Are you going to wear my cum on your face all day so you can smell me?[/b]

jots down notes...
okay what&#39;s the next class, maybe assworship? or is it basically the same?

[Guested as duplicate]

how about a shibari lesson? The art of Japanese rope tying! Elizabeth, you really opened up a great topic that is getting a lot of attention!!!

[aljan]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Taylor Maiden @ Mar 9 2009, 06:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

how about a shibari lesson? The art of Japanese rope tying! Elizabeth, you really opened up a great topic that is getting a lot of attention!!![/b]

You should hold a coed workshop for both the facesitting and the rope tying yourself, you seem to be well versed.

[lacensatin]

That is definatly a great way to do it! There is also having the guy on his back...then you straddle his face with your ass toward his chest. In this way, he can see your breasts (even reach up and touch them, or curl his hands around your thighs)...you rub your pussy and clit back and forth over his lips and chin, letting him lick you...if you are close to the wall, that serves as a great way to balance yourself, so you don&#39;t smother him &#39;too much&#39;, or fall forward. But then you can lean slightly forward to smother a little bit...yes, I tend to be a kind Mistress.

[beatnik]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (lacensatin @ Mar 10 2009, 01:52 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

...you rub your pussy and clit back and forth over his lips and chin, letting him lick you...[/b]

...and when the gent has a full moustache/beard does that unbearably tickle too much?





B)

[Willn]

Well, as with so much else, variety is the spice of life here. I&#39;d say that in general I&#39;d go with the approach of having the lady guide me about what&#39;s floating her boat at the moment,

BUT

One of the best sessions ever took place when a well-known SA provider, since departed, treated me to an unexpected doubles with a favorite lass of hers. This second sweetie smothered me while #1 romped away down below. I can almost feel yet how tighlty #2&#39;a thighs were clamped around my head! So "vive la difference!"

Will