You really do not need to go to a sex shop to get some "supplies".

Might I suggest a nice hairbrush with a curved back?

A very large wooden spatula is excellent.

A silk scarf goes the distance for everything. And men love the feel.

Did someone say rubber bands on the penis? Around it? Smacking the penis? Pop. Pop.

And the bare hand can do more to make a man ... squirm ... then almost anything.

Go to The Home Depot. Use your imagination and take a limited amount of money. You'll have a great time exploring!!!

Hugs,
Elisabeth

P.S. And remember, nearly all of this is mental. If it's done right. Or wrong!