Step 1: Find a provider you like and date her twice or thrice
Step 2: Decide if you want to keep seeing her and if she’s the one
Step 3: If so, prepare to pop the question by first getting yourself tested
Step 4: See her again but this time take an extra donation roughly equal to her half hour rate; if this is too much then find another provider who fits your budget more comfortably
Step 5: Assuming you’re clean, ask her if she’ll go without the cover for extra (this is where your extra donation comes in handy)
Step 6: Be clear about what that includes (pull out only or creampie)
Step 7: Enjoy your new secret girlfr...*ahem*, I mean ATF