So is there a protcal for taking a client from up to sugar daddy then dating

[Ms.Athena]

I've had this happen several times. ..Start as a client that we both enjoyed each others time...then into a more sugarbaby arrangement then into a more BF\GF. Relationship...Now none of this I would wish on any one.....butt shit happens. So does anyone have words of advice or stores of experience in these matters

[Psycho Bunny]

Never done it personally myself but I would think like any relationship, maybe even more so in this niche we are in, open communication would be the key.

[DallasRain]

Ditto..communication is top priority...then compatibility

[bb1961]

You stated...sugarbaby...this is on your dime??
No wonder things turned out bad for you...most of the time it turns out bad.
The giver normally get less than they receive...99.9% of the time the receiver has
ulterior motives...what can go wrong with that!! Wish you the best thought.
As they say..keep your business separate for your personal life...things are less complicated the way.

[DocHoliday]

I get it, stuff happens but I agree with bb1961. It’s a good policy to keep your HW separate from your RW. Blurring lines usually doesn’t work. That’s why we separate the two.

[Jasmine Starr]

I get it, stuff happens but I agree with bb1961. It’s a good policy to keep your HW separate from your RW. Blurring lines usually doesn’t work. That’s why we separate the two.

+1

[MrSuess]

SB to GF progression is normal which happened to me multiple times.

[CurvyCourtney]

So sb/sd ok..dating, oh no. Homie don't play that.

[TexasRiley]

Sounds like you'll be losing money.
I've made clients sugar daddies. But never made a sugar daddy my bf. I would say just make sure you discuss the agreement because once you're dating just a normal dating there's no verbal contract or agreement. You're just dating. .

Also you mentioned this has happened to you alot. Just remember when you meet a guy in this life there's no guarantee that he will stop hobbying..

[1andonlyboardman]

Just be sure you both know what you expect out of the relationship and you communicate that to each other...And as TR said, if hobbying is still going to be a part of it for either of you make sure you are both OK with that.

[lovelyxxxo]

I get it, stuff happens but I agree with bb1961. It’s a good policy to keep your HW separate from your RW. Blurring lines usually doesn’t work. That’s why we separate the two.

Agreed

[SA_mikehancho]

If it is good in the beginning. Enjoy and it will get better (maybe) as you continue the steady agreed upon situation. If you change it up as it has been stated you will lose some money but more importantly your time dealing with issues that you originally paid to not have to deal with.

Find a few nice friends. Treat them well. Splurge on an over night and then go home and stack your money for the next new lovely.

If money is what rules the relationship whether RW or Fantasy it is a no bueno deal.

My rule is first time they ask for a bill paid and they do not say come over right now and lets chat about it . I calmly say good bye. I may even pay the bill if they have been good to me up to that point, But the pendulum has swung too far at that point, Move on or the Car note is next.

My $.02

[Ms.Athena]

Thanks for all the input. Coed has been a bore as of late and I was going for a topic that would spike some input as well as hopefully give some good pointers.
And out of my 8 years in the hobby, I have truly enjoyed my clients, my sugar daddy's , if not so much the one I fucked up on and allowed in my real life

[Kammye]

I get it, stuff happens but I agree with bb1961. It’s a good policy to keep your HW separate from your RW. Blurring lines usually doesn’t work. That’s why we separate the two.

I agree 100%!!!

[Warpt]

My observations, it may work with a real SB, college type arrangement.
But I've had ATF's who were great, fun... But the more we hooked up,the less fun it became.