How important are toys with a GFE provider?

[Guest 011723-1]

So... Of course I am curious. I had dildos in the past but never got off to them. I'm thinking I didn't have the right toy. My question is.. Is it a deal breaker if the provider doesn't have toys, or does it just not matter? I know I had fun with a toy that Amberance had, I think it was called, "The magic wand," that thing was amazing! It is on my Xmas list this Christmas. Let me know your thoughts. Sometimes when clients come with toys (not often). I do feel like a prude. LMAO! but I'm not a PSE provider so I don't care as much. LOL.

[DallasRain]

My toys stay packed & ready...sometimes I use them,sometimes I dont...I do consider myself gfe type of gal with a pse twist...as for getting a toy stash,it all just depends on the gents wishes.you might get a few cock rings and the wand just incase

[Guest 011723-1]

I'm definitely taking your advice! ^ Thank you.

[DallasRain]

my hitachi is my bestest toy...guys love it! have fun sexy lady!

[Guest 011723-1]

^Is it bad that I think that it sounds like a vacuum? LMAO! I will check it out though and thanks I will now!

[Anna Nikkole]

my hitachi is my bestest toy...guys love it! have fun sexy lady!

Mine too. I have a thunder stick, little more power. They get a show, you get off. It's a win win.....

[Island_Gent]

Not a must have for me, but it is a nice bonus during a multi-hour encounter with someone you’re comfortable with and enjoy exploring. Most def ain’t for every session with errybody...that’s just me.

[eastside70]

While I bring my own cock rings, I'm more than happy to use any of her favorite toys. I'm confident in my abilities in satisfying her without them so I'm comfortable in using them with her. I see it as additional excitement to the date.

[Guest 011723-1]

I actually had a client put on a ball ring and it was just so strange to me. I should open up my horizons, so to speak.

[Ajlybj]

Sounds like you’re getting all kinkly!!

I think toys are fun, they can even be an ice breaker so to speak so both parties get to explore a little and relax. Definitely not a deal breaker. But probably a go with the flow item. Dropping a hint during initial conversation may reveal which way to go.

How many toys are enough? Just thinking a toy that you like may not be visually stimulating to a gent. So what would a guy like to see you play with??? One that fits inside you and tickles your “on switch” would be fun.

Interesting to see what others think?

[Oralist]

Play with me when we’re together, play with your toys when you are alone. Don’t like it when I’m doing everything I can to pleasure a woman and she whips out her vibrator to buzz herself off. If you want to buzz yourself off, I’ll take Mr. Happy and look elsewhere. This is the main reason I Hobby.

[lovelyxxxo]

Ok so i get toys are fun. But ive rarely played with them myself with the exceptiin if one person whom i trust. (Cause trust hell chime in if im not brutally honest... Its just not in me to play WITH myself (and i would think with the hobby i happily indulge in i wouldnt need to) im just to sensual i prefer actual contact that warmth that you arent going to get with a piece of silicone...

plus i keep a hygiene bag.. But a toy bag..now i dont know where you guys live but even when ive been stopped for speeding and my purse has been oversized theyve asked to search the vehicle ( ok maybe the half sleeve and the non chalant way i speak as if their wasting my time doesnt help) and just to shut them up i agree ( i dont feel like making them either call in k9 or call and obtain a search warrant while i sit on side of rd. For 2 1/2hrs been there done that) knowing im clean, but imagine a SUITCASE FULL of toys...i mean besides the huge freaking laugh when i got to see the expression on that officers face (priceless) how would i explain my reason for driving around with it....

[Beau Derierre]

I enjoy both toys for myself and toys for boys. Makes edging so intense.

[1andonlyboardman]

I can have fun either way and have.
It's really about how you present it and I think that comes with being comfortable with them. If you are comfortable with them then I will be too. If they turn you on then they're going to be a turn on for me.
If they're something some of you ladies have more or less indicated would feel a bit awkward then that is probably going to come across and make the time awkward.

[DallasRain]

Wise words catdaddy