You get it. Some don't. Some of the young and hungries seem to feel as if it's "every woman for herself," as if any dollar not headed in their direction is being "stolen" from them, that every other lady is "competition" who must be thwarted, denigrated, or crushed. If you're between them and their Manolo Blahniks, their Gucci, or their rent then "bitch gotta die!"Originally Posted by maggiejewel
The reality is that every one of you is a unique package of visual and performing delights, not like anyone else. You have no "direct competition." You can't be duplicated. Just because someone sees lady "A" today, it has absolutely nothing to do with, nor does it take away from lady "B."
There have been ladies who have gotten territorial about some of their clients. If they found out a particular gentleman went somewhere else for fun, she would read him the riot act, or refuse to give references, or any number of other creative retribution methods. That kind of crap ultimately ends up costing them business.
I like many different cuisines. But I'm not necessarily in the mood for a particular one on a particular day. Maybe it's too close to payday for prime rib, so a burger is the plate du jour. Whatever I choose to enjoy on any particular day has nothing to do with any of the other cuisines and does not take away from them or "steal" from them in any way.
Those self-absorbed ladies who can't grasp the concept that there is room for *everyone,* and that helping others helps themselves need to get over themselves or move the hell on.
Yes; JMFO..
Hugs to you, MJ!
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