I’m leaving but before I go

Gents-

Be very careful of who you give your personal information to. Some providers have zero discretion and will out you for simply a small vendetta they have against you. It has never ever been okay to share real world info on an open hobby forum because of a personal grudge.

Ladies-

Don’t share your personal info with anyone. Regardless of how much you think you can trust a client or another provider. Some will find a way to bring harm to you for whatever reason.

I’ve been in this business for almost 20 years and I’ve never experienced such craziness.

Good luck y’all.

Best wishes Kati.
You've mentioned the key items of perspective.
Shame that a lot of folks simply don't get it.

Sorry to see you go Kati. That ^^^^ is some great advice Kati.

I’m not leaving providing yet. Just this board and probably the other for awhile.

There's quite a few gals that have gone inactive on the icky board and never joined this one. Two of whom I'm still on their dancecards. Drama, other BS and guys being azzes were the reasons they stopped being active on the boards. All valid reasons.