thenamescarlett: thenamescarlett robbed me

Companion's Handle: thenamescarlett
Date of Visit: 07/07/2019
Preferred Method of Contact: Text
Phone Number: 682-990-2017
Email Address: the.namescarlett@gmail.com
Website, Ad, or Profile URL: https://thenamescarlett.tumblr.com/
City, State: Austin, Texas
Location: Arboretum
Type of Visit: Incall
Was the Appointment On-Time?? Yes
Activities: Meeting in the parking lot
Scheduled Length of Visit: 30 Mins
Donation: $150
Approximate age of Companion: 23
Hair Color and Length: Short brunette
Smoking Status: Smoker
Ethnic/Racial background: White/Caucasian
Companion Description: Cute with big booty; innocent looking - but turned out not so innocent !!!!
Meet or Exceed Your Expectations?? Hell no
Would You Recommend this Companion?? Hell no

Public comments:
Had an appointment with her and went to her hotel in time. She asked me to give her some cash to pay hotel. I was hesitant but when she met me in the parking lot, I was fooled by her innocent looking and gave her $100 to pay hotel. She ran into the hotel and never came back to me.

I know I was stupid - I helped providers pay hotel in advance before but this is the first time I got burnt.

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Relocated to Coed for discussion per H2 policy since no actual activities took place to be reviewed.

Thanks for taking the time to write up your experience, nothing. So sorry this happened, lad. Hopefully was a misunderstanding that can be corrected. (I try to think positive.) The lass is welcome to respond.

Her H2 link, although has been inactive with zero posts: https://home.ourhome2.net/vb/member.php?61186-thenamescarlett

So sorry Sir. It's happened to me. Even with ladies I thought I knew well and could trust. Sad that there are assholes out there on both dies of the fence.

That's unfortunate, I was planning on seeing her but now am more hesitant. Hopefully she can say her side of the story in coed. Robbed is technically the wrong term because she didn't use force, I'd say you were scammed or hoodwinked, if you're gonna pay for a hotel you gotta walk in with her and hand the money to the cashier. This is kind of the same situation as pre-paying which as we all know by now is a hobby no-no.

However I'm sincerely sorry for what happened to you, I've been there, it sucks.

Scarlett came back to me and explained that her phone died, and wanted to make it right by offering to make up the session or return the money. However we could not agree upon a time to meet again.

I could have been more patient and waited longer before putting up this review. It pains me to write a negative review like this.

She could have simply walked back to the parking lot to tell me after her phone died. This type of miscommunication, or lack of communication can be easily avoided.

Thanks for everybody's advice, I need to avoid paying money in advance, which, as Shakespeare put it in Hamlet, often ends up with losing both money and friends.

As someone suggested that "robbed" is technically not an accurate term, mods, can you help change it to more appropriate wording?

^ Perhaps a wee bit late to change the title now that it's been up in infamy all afternoon, lad, but you have clarified, and thanks for that. I also don't understand why she didn't just walk back to the car? What happened to the money and why did she leave?

Anyway... Please post when she makes this right. Happy endings are a wonderful thing to be shared!

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Originally Posted by nothingtolose

Scarlett came back to me and explained that her phone died, and wanted to make it right by offering to make up the session or return the money. However we could not agree upon a time to meet again.

I could have been more patient and waited longer before putting up this review. It pains me to write a negative review like this.

She could have simply walked back to the parking lot to tell me after her phone died. This type of miscommunication, or lack of communication can be easily avoided.

Thanks for everybody's advice, I need to avoid paying money in advance, which, as Shakespeare put it in Hamlet, often ends up with losing both money and friends.

As someone suggested that "robbed" is technically not an accurate term, mods, can you help change it to more appropriate wording?

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First thing I would say that if they contacted you after they had had a chance to see the ad and get warned on the grapevine the "make it right" is probably more damage control than make up. Like you say she could have just come down to the parking lot to let you know.

Also disregard the bleating from the dude objecting to the term "robbery." That dude is not arguing from a good place and I would be very, very surprised if he didn't use the situation and sticking up for you to get a discount which is just a different variety of skeeve when you think about it.

While "robbery" isn't the correct legal term, who cares? You got ripped off and people need to know.

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Originally Posted by killeeninformer2

........First thing I would say that if they contacted you after they had had a chance to see the ad and get warned on the grapevine the "make it right" is probably more damage control than make up. Like you say she could have just come down to the parking lot to let you know.......

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Yes that's actually the important bit of info there, that she did not feel the need to make things right until after she heard about the review.

*edit* And I take back what I said about robbery, theft, everyone understood the meaning, I was confusing it. Sorry.

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Originally Posted by puffDATY

Yes that's actually the important bit of info there, that she did not feel the need to make things right until after she heard about the review. And I was a bit over-zealous with the definition of robbery, but when I hear robbery I picture sticking up a liquor store which isn't what happened.

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Literally everyone else doesn't have that problem. I don't think you do either really.

If money is taken without services rendered, that is theft. If you pay for a specific amount of time and services are cut short, that is theft. Theft, robbery, scammed, punked, whatever you want to call it, that person should no longer be trusted and there is absolutely NO EXCUSE for it.

I bet if you had shortened her $100 for services she rendered you, she would be screaming to the high heavens.

Another testament to never pay anything up front. :nono:

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Originally Posted by risn2theoccasion2

If money is taken without services rendered, that is theft. If you pay for a specific amount of time and services are cut short, that is theft. Theft, robbery, scammed, punked, whatever you want to call it, that person should no longer be trusted and there is absolutely NO EXCUSE for it.

I bet if you had shortened her $100 for services she rendered you, she would be screaming to the high heavens.

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There are exceptions to this imo.

I remember a time when I was called out from SA to Nb and the kid was high on something and kept dozing off.
I literally sat there for 15 min watching him nod off. Yes I left with my 400 at the 30 min mark.

Another scenario:
Guy comes over and has a stinker.
I ask him to go lather up.
I hear the sink tinkle for less than 30 seconds.
Sorry buddy but you can catch these polite we’ll manicured hands and that’s about it.

I don’t consider that robbing.
So the no excuse statement is kinda iffy to me.

I agree, the OP got robbed. Sorry this happened to you.

I don’t know why you’d trust someone that openly advertises she does xxxxxxxxxx anyway lol

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Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Relocated to Coed for discussion per H2 policy since no actual activities took place to be reviewed.

Thanks for taking the time to write up your experience, nothing. So sorry this happened, lad. Hopefully was a misunderstanding that can be corrected. (I try to think positive.) The lass is welcome to respond.

Her H2 link, although has been inactive with zero posts: https://home.ourhome2.net/vb/member.php?61186-thenamescarlett

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" Hopefully it was a misunderstanding?"
LOL

Yikes!

It’s always the bonafide squeaky wheels getting oiled around here.

I always hear guys talking about oh yeah I spent thousands to send her to rehab.

It’d be nice to hear more ‘I invested in this lady who is always on the up and up tuition, or new business venture.

There are so many trust worthy ladies here who could use your generosity but some of you guys give to the mess-heads and come crying here about it.

Bless your lil hearts....

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Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love

Yikes!

It’s always the bonafide squeaky wheels getting oiled around here.

I always hear guys talking about oh yeah I spent thousands to send her to rehab.

It’d be nice to hear more ‘I invested in this lady who is always on the up and up tuition, or new business venture.

There are so many trust worthy ladies here who could use your generosity but some of you guys give to the mess-heads and come crying here about it.

Bless your lil hearts....

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You know for sure a squaky wheel actually needs the grease though. It's good that you're on top of things but this is a transactional relationship most of the time. If you want extra money you should ensure you're the one I would come back to if you want more.

If you are doing well and put together you wouldn't need my help. I'm sure it would be easier for you if someone were just paying extra or tipping beyond what would be considered a tip but it's not something you actually need. If a girl is fucked up and is in a hole they're not going to be able to get out of themselves reaching down to pull them out is just the right thing to do if you're able. I've yet to do it in the hobby but there's been plenty enough times I've done that for someone else in my life and it's always a good "investment" as you put it. Even I don't get anything out of it.

Let's put it this way: it would be considered normal to give food or money to a homeless dude. It would make a lot more sense if I escorted him to a mental health or outreach facility to get his life back on track. If I did that to a business man he would be rightly insulted and let me know about it.

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Originally Posted by killeeninformer2

You know for sure a squaky wheel actually needs the grease though. It's good that you're on top of things but this is a transactional relationship most of the time. If you want extra money you should ensure you're the one I would come back to if you want more.

If you are doing well and put together you wouldn't need my help. I'm sure it would be easier for you if someone were just paying extra or tipping beyond what would be considered a tip but it's not something you actually need. If a girl is fucked up and is in a hole they're not going to be able to get out of themselves reaching down to pull them out is just the right thing to do if you're able. I've yet to do it in the hobby but there's been plenty enough times I've done that for someone else in my life and it's always a good "investment" as you put it. Even I don't get anything out of it.

Let's put it this way: it would be considered normal to give food or money to a homeless dude. It would make a lot more sense if I escorted him to a mental health or outreach facility to get his life back on track. If I did that to a business man he would be rightly insulted and let me know about it.

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Aside from the initial overly personal tone, you make some good points.

I’m glad I could understand where you’re coming from.
Have a nice day.

I just want to say I’ve had $2300 (yes TWENTY THREE HUNNIT folks) come up missing around a well know mess head who’s still around to this day.

I never outed her publicly or came crying to the boards about it.

I charged it to the game.

It was literally the worst time of my life and I STILL had some Gs in the bank to get a uhaul and get my own place.

Yeah I have had struggle moments, especially the last 1.5 years of laying low bc of the big changes in this hobby world, but I don’t steal from ppl.

I have also had a few times in all my years where clients come thru when I really needed it and I will never forget them. They’re also the kinda ppl who are like don’t worry about getting it back to me. It’s a gift and that’s it.

We’re all adults here and we should know by now don’t loan money you expect to get back.

I’ll tell it like someone told me.

You didn’t lose an arm or a leg.
You lost money (one hundred freakin dollars).
You can get more money.

if i lose an arm or a leg, im getting a bionic new one
like the 6 million dollar man
i figure by todays prices , thats about 3 2hr sessions with a greek upcharge

Let's please stay on topic with what happened regarding the OP's particular incident only. Thanks. -- FIH/staff

Update with a happy ending: https://home.ourhome2.net/vb/showthread.php?178949-thenamescarlett-thenamescarlett-made-it-up-for-me

Matter resolved, thread closed. -- FIH/staff