Does anyone actually know what flirting is anymore? Or how to flirt?
Ladies and gents, what is your definition of flirting in today's modern age? Is it a lost art?
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Does anyone actually know what flirting is anymore? Or how to flirt?
Ladies and gents, what is your definition of flirting in today's modern age? Is it a lost art?
The best flirts I see here are responses to photo albums.
Admittedly I’m a little outta practice, but I’ve never shied away from commenting to someone I’m attracted to, and that applies doubly so in the hobby because of its transactional nature.
It typically starts with a sincere compliment that’s not overly effusive, for instance if you’re smitten by a fiery red mane, winsome smile on a certain buxom beauty, you’d work it into the conversation somehow.
:cheers:
A flirting seminar !!!
Pulls up chair and winks at the men
Most people think they know what flirting is, but like any skill, some are better at it than others. I myself have never been too good at it. I was very introverted in my youth, and still am to some extent. I think my flirting skills have improved over the years, but I admire the guys that can charm the pants off a woman.
For guys needing some help, here is a nice resource.
https://www.winggirlmethod.com
Well, it seems to me that flirting these days is equated to sexual harassment. You cant even look at a woman sideways in public, smile at her (or God forbid, wink at her) without getting arrested for attempted psychological rape. Our society is becoming disconnected. And when they finally shut down the shrinking hobbyverse, the only place remaining for those with passion and desire for human connection, we will have no one to turn to for comfort but our robot overlords...
If person-to-person......caressing or stroking,soft whispers,kissing,sharing lustful convo
Online...exchanging dirty/lustful emails and pics
I luv flirting....the buildup is orgasmic and even afterwards
You all are making this way to difficult.
If you can get a gal to giggle, while dressed in a full outside snow day outfit, yes you're succeeding in flirting.
And yes, I collected a smile, while on a ski lift.
Fancy, it's becoming a lost art.
In regards to comment #6, it's always been a common sense rule to not mix your pussy with your pay check. Just avoid that completely, even simple flirting with a fellow employee. And yes, people do get fired for sexual harassment.
Start a conversation with a compliment, as suggested in comment #3. As you converse, her body language will tell you if she enjoys your flirting or not. If her body language is positive, she may even flirt back. If it's negative, end the conversation and leave her alone.
Heck, I flirt with almost any good looking waitress, check out clerk, etc. Even written flirting with some of the Companions. It makes them feel good that someone finds them attractive. There's a reason women spend billions of dollars on make-up, hair and clothing. It also makes me feel good when that attraction is directed back to me.
It's not Rocket Science.
You have a valid pointQuote:
Originally Posted by DirtyPanties
Interesting notes to ponder in this thread so far. Thanks! (And a blushing nod with wee demure smile to Island_Gent.)
Unique Carpenter is the George Clooney of flirting.....he is top notch!!
Hi or of course this mirror/nutty is.. Yext
It's a bit loud in here, h ow about we gtfo.. Always works. -ece��Quote:
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
ES..
LUV YOUR PROFILE.
How about that for starters.
Or mami.. esta muy rica.
I don't flirt with civilian ladies. I learned my lesson with that a long time ago. My cousin is a lesbian. She is fat and butt ugly. Her SO is uglier than her, but has nicer hair.
When I was introduced to the SO, she told me where she was from and who her family is. Come to find out, we are distant cousins, and she is distant cousins to her SO, my cousin.
Well, being the cocky drunk that I was that day, when I found out we were distant cousins, I told her that since we are so distant, we can still have sex, as long as I don't nut in her. Well that went over like a turd in the punch bowl. Being the work boot, flannel shirt wearing lesbian she was, she looked at me like I was crazy. She tried to slap me, my wife punched her, my cousin tried to jump in to break them up. I stepped back and watched these 3 women brawl it out. There was no lesbian sex in the brawl.
So, I don't flirt outside the hobby.
^ Oh, my!
I've enjoyed some very entertaining flirting in public with complete strangers, a glance into someone's eyes a wee bit too long, a smile, and a few well-chosen but double entendre words.
Have the bartender give her a Jameson. When she looks at you a wink and a smile will get the response needed to see if it’s time to flirt. If you don’t know which response is right don’t waste your money on the Jameson...
We live in era where flirting and courting is done through internet and social media then face to face in person, before i met my ex who i was with for 4 years and before i got into hobbying i use to frequent clubs and occasionally bars and practiced flirting in those atmospheres like most 21 yr old bachelor men which to me is a best environment to do so since women are dressed up looking to party, drink and have a good time. After a while going out with the fellas l then began going to places like that by myself and socializing and afterwards i got more confidence and practiced in everyday situations like flirting with cute girl working as cashier at heb. It really depends alot on the setting and the first initial vibe a woman gives off from my personal experience and if you can get her to smile or laugh. I heard bad stories of some guys trying to flirt with women at a gym which to me is the worst place to try to shoot your shot besides a church ofcourse.
I didn't get married until I was 40.
If I didn't flirt in my small dry county, I didn't get any pussy.
But having a traveling job, I did get to do some flirting in some decent sized towns. When working in Nola or Houston, back in the days before internet, there were alternative newspapers and magazines that advertised escort services.
It was a lot easier to pick up a hot chick there for about the same price as picking up a civilian at a bar.
Some of those civilian chicks would cost me 100-200 bucks in drinks, and still not be guaranteed any pussy.
i also love when a woman beglns to play touch with you thats also a good sign shes interested and might get her number.
>>And when they finally shut down the shrinking hobbyverse, the only place remaining for those with passion and desire for human connection, we will have no one to turn to for comfort but our robot overlords...<<
However, there are "charities" out there actively trying to "save" us even from the sex robots.
When they come for my multi-function, 12-speed, varying vibration, anatomy intuitive, I-don't-need-a-partner-for-private-fun friend "BOB," they will take him over my cold, dead body after a sword fight. He knows what rhythm I like, so that probably drops him into the robo sex service category too, huh?Quote:
Originally Posted by gentleman57
Don’t worry Fancy, they will “save” you from your private pleasures. You are a victim in need of an industry to save you, you just don’t know that yet. After your re-education, it will all be clear. :lol:
I find myself making lots of sexual innuendos at inappropriate times, like at work. I should stop that.
Other than that, I'm not very good at flirting, or "flirting."
I luv touching a person lightly....their hands/shoulder/hair...or even just locking eyes in that "cum hither" stare!
Last time I smiled and flirted with someone, her girlfriend got in my face and said she was taken...so, it's made me cautious. it sometimes doesn't come natural anymore.