I love oral like REALLY love it.
I'm pretty confident in my skills but there is always room for improvement.
Guys, what drives you crazy?
Help us gals help you! :Blowjob:
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I love oral like REALLY love it.
I'm pretty confident in my skills but there is always room for improvement.
Guys, what drives you crazy?
Help us gals help you! :Blowjob:
Yes, don’t use your teeth!! My cock is NOT a chew toy!!!
Give him that smoking lustful look followed by pulling your hair up or even offering up the handful of hair for a handle.
But... but... it's called a BONER!:lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by DocHoliday
Here are some tips for a bad assed blow job-- veryone is different but these are some of my personal favorites
Slow and sloppy, plenty of spit, lots of eye contact, mix in a moan or 2 or even talk to me and tell me how much you like it, pay attention to the balls, rub the taint, mix it up, go shallow a few times and then go deep, rub the balls and fondle them, stroke the insides of the legs with your nails, then stop and lightly jack me off, then go back to sucking, use just mouth sometimes and use mouth and hand sometimes, use hand only sometimes, use a twisting motion with both mouth and hands. Once its decided you want me to cum-- pick a steady thing you are doing that you can tell I like and repeat it-- and keep repeating it till I start to cum. When I am very close to cumming, speed up and please please please-- stay on it through my orgasm -- dont quit on me half way through it.
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Originally Posted by luvagoodbj
Dammit that is fuckin hot!!!!! I like to worship the cock and balls. Like its my last meal!!
Damn luv. That was fucking hot.
Thanks -- I am available for consultation at a reasonable fee --
How thoughtful!
I do what I can -- you know for the benefit of the rest -- its a heavy burden, but someone has to bear it-- and I... Am that someone-- no thanks needed lol
As a lover of BJs, this is good stuff. I’m a guy that likes slow with firm lip pressure. Less HJ and more Hands Free. My Hobby Wife is a master of the Twisting DT, which, as Mick Jagger sings, will make a dead man cum. She’s the only one I know that combines up and down with the twisting motion. I prefer swallowing as I cum, as opposed to pulling off or jumping up to run and spit.Quote:
Originally Posted by luvagoodbj
Really strong mints like Altoids are fucking awesome. One of my civvie FWB's does this. She gives good sloppy head making sure there is plenty of spit running down on my balls. She'll even spread it out on my balls while massaging them. I don't feel the coolness from the mints until the air hits it so as she is sucking my cock I feel warmth of her mouth on my cock but the spit is running down on my balls will be cool. Then she'll spend a little time licking and sucking my balls clean which will be warm while my cock is getting the cool sensation. The back and forth is incredible. It helps her take it all down the hatch too.
Otherwise, make me believe you like it as much as you say you do and we're already over halfway there. Don't forget the balls. Finish it with NQNS and I'm a happy camper.
If you're a spitter then I'd rather you just slow stroke it out of me by hand somewhere else, your face or your tits. Wherever I finish will be fine just don't quit until it's time to quit. Which brings me to...
Know when to lighten up, this is critical. You can fuck up the best bj in the world by staying on it too long. 3 or 4 seconds after that last rope the glans gets sensitive as fuck. If you keep up with the pressure or sucking there it gets irritating. Light stroking or licking the shaft, licking or kissing the frenulum are all fine just stay away from the glans. Even going back down on it is fine, just don't suck. Ball massage is good too. Then let me know how much you enjoyed it!
Well, someone obviously read this and she applied the twisting motion to me recently.Quote:
Originally Posted by Oralist
1) use your tongue, pressure and swirling while working up and down. tongue work separates that good from the great. Sometimes hold still and just rub your tongue up and down and press. Use more pressure than you would licking pussy, we don’t have as many nerves as you.
2) Sloppy went attention to the balls. Get them good and wet, or lube them up, hold and massage them while still working on jr. Squeeze them up while your are going deep throat.
3) Play with my ass. I’m not really into TUMA, but i do love some attention down there. There are a lot of nerves in that area and rubbing around and some fingering can really increase the intensity of the big O. Lube well, if you can give a P massage, go for it. Most of us love this, but don’t ask.
4) Keep up good pressure with your lips, think how your really tight pussy feels when it grips down during your mind blowing O. And don’t forget that tongue while your at it. You don’t want it to feel “hollow”
5) Very your pace to get me to the edge a couple of times before going in for the kill.
6) Tell me you want my cum. It makes a big difference. Play with it, dribble some down your chin, tit, my cock, then lick of finger it back in your mouth with a moan and a smile. Spit or swollow, your choice.
7) Go as deep as I can, even if it’s not deep throat, it feel great pressing in the back of your mouth against your tongue.
8) don’t stop moving when I cum. If your can take it deep, great, if no keep up the pressure and movement. Slow down as we do, try to get in touch with our rhythm, think how your like it when you are cuming. Big Bang, then slowly work it to prolong the feeling.
I’m always available for personal one on one lessons if your are trying to take your game to the next level.
Sounds like we need to get some accreditation for Blowjob University and hand out degrees.....or certificates.
Think about how you kiss him. Don't just give him a peck on the cheek, pay some attention to the rest of his body, too. Not just his neck and cheeks, try kissing him all over his stomach and back, as well. You'll even find that kissing his legs, right up to his groin can make for a really hot prelude before you get down to using my other
2. Always go from the base to the tip.
Once he's warmed up, your man will now feel extra eager to start receiving oral sex from you. Which is exactly what you wanted.
This next blowjob technique is the perfect way to transition into giving him an actual blowjob. Start by taking his trousers/briefs off so everything is easier to access. Gently hold the base of his penis in your hand and then use your tongue to slowly lick it from the base right to the tip. You can try licking from the tip down to the base of his cock too, but often you'll find that technique to be a little awkward.
Rather than just constantly licking straight from the bottom to the top, try a few variations of this technique: Try moving your tongue from side-to-side as you make your way from the base to the tip. You'll also find that your man loves it when you pay most of your attention to the top of his member.
3. Don't just go "in and out" ... mix up your movement.
You'll find that the two techniques I've just described will mostly help you uplevel the foreplay part. Now it's time to actually start giving him a proper BJ. One of the major mistakes that women constantly make is using the same old boring oral sex techniques over and over on their man. Instead, use a little variation.
The main blowjob technique that is used over and over again is called the "In And Out." This is when you simply take his penis in and out of your mouth with your lips wrapped around his shaft.
The thing is that most guys love this if you use it with other techniques like:
Keeping him in your mouth while using your tongue to "Twirl And Swirl" around it, massaging his penis as you do.
Using your tongue to focus on just the head of his penis.
Giving some attention to his testicles. You can lick them or take them into your mouth and gently suck and softly squeeze them.
4. Give him a helping hand.
Some women think that using their hands during oral sex is cheating. This is pretty ludicrous, as it's not cheating at all. In fact, your man will greatly appreciate it.
The easiest way to use your hands when giving him a blowjob is to just grab his shaft and slowly massage it up and down like you would when giving him regular hand job. When you combine this with using the "Twirl And Swirl" technique at the same time, you have a recipe for one happy guy.
But that's not all you can do with your hands. Another great blowjob technique is to use your hands to massage your man's testicles while taking him in your mouth at the same time.
5. Try taking it deep.
The first four techniques will give you a great start to giving your man more enjoyable oral sex, but don't just stop there; why not learn some more advanced techniques? Giving deep throat feels incredible to your man, but I'm not going to lie, it takes a bit of practice to get it right without it feeling horrible for you.
The key is to consistently practice on something like a peeled banana or even a dildo until if feels relatively easy to do. Also, rather than telling your man that you're going to give him deep throat, a better way is to just surprise him with it. Trust me when I say — he'll be pleasantly surpris
6. End on a slow note.
When you use all of these techniques I just shared, your man will have an incredibly enjoyable orgasm. When he eventually cums, he'll experience many things that you also experience when you orgasm. For example, his penis will become incredibly sensitive to touch, just like your clitoris is when you're having a clitoral orgasm.
So when your man starts to orgasm, make sure you don't apply too much pressure to his penis. Instead, reduce the speed of whatever you are doing and make all movements with your tongue, mouth and hands much softer. (Tip: If you decide to swallow and you don't like the taste, have him try flavor masque strips or pineapple juice to improve your blowjob experience.)
As a guy, this is all true and good advice.
Long time ago, I have read a book: From gay guy for a straight girl. Something like that. Advise on everything from a gay man, how to "manipulate" the guy. With sexyness. Advise on decoration, negligee, manicure atc.
Anyway,
Everything what is written down below, was in that book. Especially the fraze: "It's all in the wrist honey!" ... and the angle of your throat. And very short nails!!!
I like the idea about certification. How hard would the examination be? Would that be an oral or hands-on?:lol:
Do NOT forget to use that tongue. Lol
Several things to for a really, really great blow-job:
1. Tease first, delay sucking. Fast and furious can cum later
2. Watching a BL is sensual. Make sure no hair is in the way. Get a hair tie.
3. Make authentic noises. moans, dirty talking...but no fake porn stiff...the noise, moans, tak should come from your heart.
4. Keep eye contact. that's a real turn-on
5. MOST IMPORTANT: Enjoy yourself and make sure he knows that you are enjoying yourself...not just going thru the motions.
No hands!
Don't stop till I say you Win!
And allowing me the same coutesy on You!
Next!
You can practice on me!
Holy crap....you guys write books on blow jobs.
I e never had a bad one. All of you ladies are unique and I love it! No one has ever been the same and each unique style always does the job.
Just don’t stop....and let me know before you start if msog is on the table so I know whether to let you finish or not. I e been disappointed before.
Thanks for listening :)
I haven't had many blowjobs. I need to change that.
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Originally Posted by 69uiltaz
Miss Katie
for me i like to be teased until my pre cum starts to run from the tip of my cock, and my girl teases it from me....slowly with her tounge thats like real nice to get warmed up :-)
Let me try to see if I can do it right!
a proper BJ should come with a toy stimulating his prostate & the intense climax will be >INTENSE. Don't knock it till you try it. Did I mention the intense climax?He told me :nicethread:
This is a great thread. Unfortunately the desires of each man are as varied as they are for women. But, there do seem to be some basic commonalities.
For me? And in order of importance (these will also be common for many other guys too):
1. No hands at all. If you can do it this is one of the sexiest aspects to a BJ. Using hands is not all bad, it's"ok", and you can even do it effectively, but "zero hands" and just going up and down (as deeply as possible) is fucking smoking hot! :wink:
2. Use the tongue effectively, especially on the head which is the equivalent of female clitoris for a man. If you have a tongue stud, for me personally that's super, super fucking hot!
3. Don't stop when the orgasm begins. This can be be enormously intense for some guys (myself included). In fact at times it feels so intense to the point the guy will want to push your head away, or will practically curl up, or jerk around as you are draining him and not letting go. Think about when your clit is being played with, it feels so good, so so good, too good, you can't take it, you just have to push him away. Same deal. Basically it's exactly the same only the male version instead. But that orgasm and staying locked on can be mind-blowing.
That's basically it :wink: :smile:
Oh, and about the using hands thing, don't take it as some absolute rule that you can never use your hands. You can. Some guys will even want it. And you may need to anyway in certain situations due to how long the activity is going, size of genital in question, playing with balls (this is also super great to do at some point - either gently with your hands or mouth or both).
-MG
For me it's all about suction. I personally don't like it crazy drooly n sloppy. I want it to be wet but inside your mouth. I want the tongue to do work all over the sides, bottom, top and front of my head as your lips create an unbreakable seal around my shaft. Balls, taint, and shaft must be worked with lips tongue and suction. Slow and steady always wins the race and even when I'm about to nut keep the pace going at a nice rythm.
The sound of the suction popping and the wetness inside your mouth are a huge turn on to I can think any man.
Watch amazing blowjob queens on pornhub are absolutely invigorating. Watch bunch of MHJHB video, kris's kiss,the magic muffin, and the best one is yasmi butt. Yasmi butt has videos of her blowing her man and watching his dick ripple from her lips squeezing shit and seeing her cheeks cave in from the crazy suction she is doing.
God I love blowjob's
To be the Queen of blowjobs follow what I love to receive, and become the Queen of oral creampies! While sucking me, you dont have to get it all into your throat but kudos for trying. I can send you a video if youd like. ;) when sucking, change it up some. Go deep and then just let the lips hold around the crown while you let your tongue swirl around the head. Go deep and wiggle your head some. As you pull me back out, let your tongue stick out of your mouth like you're slurping the shaft, pull skin with your tongue if you can. Stop at the crown, do the cock head swirl with your tongue and as you go back down, stick your tongue out and caress that thick cum vein, all the way to be balls. As the head slips into your throat continue working your tongue on my balls. Watch my eyes for signs of what to do. As you pull me out of your throat do that tongue wrap around the shaft and keep smiling. When I cum, dont stop unless I ask you too, just keep mouth-stroking me and let the cum-mess happen, we'll clean it up. Then, get on your back and let me return the favor. There is nothing i love more than going downtown on you. Ill put one hand on your tummy and one under your bottom, I'll feel your body respond to my oral pleasure 9f you more like that. I love to swirl my tongue inside, taste and suckle each tinder lip and work my tongue from bottom to top and I will linger on the clit, sometimes pressing with my tongue, sometimes flicking, sometimes sucking and suckling, but always taking my clues from your body language and you being vocal. Anyway, that's me!Quote:
Originally Posted by CurvyCourtney
Sounds like youve seen me before!!! LolQuote:
Originally Posted by luvagoodbj
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Originally Posted by Universal
I second that!!!!!!!!!