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I see a lot of providers posting ads that have never posted more then a new member thread. I’ve often wondered if ladies who engage in regular conversations on the forums get more business then the ladies who just post up ads only. I know that’s a hard statistic to figure out,.. but common sense tells me if a lady is replying to threads, that’s more exposure then just the daily ad. Then again, maybe all a lady needs is an ad a day to stay in business.
Thoughts?
Bright fellow!
I'm semi-retired now, but always found that a consistent and persistent presence, plain old fashioned PR (pubic, er, I mean PUBLIC relations), and clever but not necessarily obvious marketing, paid off.
I made comments, started topics, engaged in discussions public and private, tried to be helpful when possible, and did a lot to draw attention not confined to ad posting. If a lady wants to develop a loyal following, then establishing herself and keeping her name in the forefront in a variety of ways is the way to go, IMHO. Take the time and effort to work the brand!
I tend to be attracted to the women who contribute to the conversations. These contributions make them come alive to me, gives me some insights into their personalities. I am all about interacting with a whole woman, not just a woman’s hole.
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i agree! ! ! i post as much as i can, i stay active. but i’m careful where i comment.
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Originally Posted by Sugar~N~Spice
Well, of the ladies that only post ads and don't really chat here....based on the number of reviews they receive...their business doesn't seem to be a problem.
Exactly. I’ve also found the ones that typically are active in conversations are the ones that are more down to earth and fun to just hang with as well. More times then not the “appointment” time usually doubles once we start chatting, and the whole reason the appointment was made was more natural and fun. The ad only ladies, it seems like it’s in and out, your hour is up time to go type.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lovinglifeinaustin
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Originally Posted by redleg505
To be fair I’m basing my research on this forum and E. Some ladies who post there a lot, sometimes only post ads here for some reason.
I do prefer a brief glimpse into the conversation and wit of you ladies vs advertising only posts. Jmo
For me, most of the gents who are here, are over on the other. It just isn't as busy here.
Both have been very slow as of late.Quote:
Originally Posted by GypsyHeart
Personally, the shutdown impacted my budget and work schedule. Will probably be another month or so before I will be able to recover, I think.
I was once very active...years ago. With active posting comes a lot of drama, and rumors and lies. For me, the more "noise" I made, the more some lady would want to take me down. And no, I am not a bitch and never had been one. I really am as sweet as I seem. It's just some girls can't stand not to have all of the attention.
Now, I'm not so active... Most of my posts are my ads. I'll pop off on a thread every once in a while... throw my 2cents in. But for the most part, I prefer to lay low.
The business appears to be the same... no difference in actual appointments. However, I have noticed a difference on the type of gents it attracts. Since I only have my own experience to draw on, I can only speak for myself.
I seem to be attracting a lot more gents these days that are more interested in a real visit with a lovely lady who is good at carrying on a convo. They are looking for a real connection, and suspension from reality. A lot less of the "Hobbysts" I guess you can say...the ones who are always trying to out due the other guys... posting reviews that would be envied... trying all of the acronyms. Looking for that one "trick" that a lady can perform just like a performing monkey. Guys are wanting the ladies to compete with each other (upping the ante') to gain their business.
Honestly, I gotta say, I much rather be low key and just post ads. It seems to attract a much better clientele... at least for little ole' Miss Suzy T.
post **** like myself are flirtatious, approachable, engaging, forthcoming, showing their personalities through writing. Works for me
You ladies have the most to contend with and I don’t know how you do it. Between navigating the creeps, to dealing with the internal female drama caused behind the scenes I really don’t see how there isn’t a larger number of ladies that come and go quickly. Kudos to you and others like you that have put up with the b.s. and found your niche to keep doing something you enjoy.Quote:
Originally Posted by Suzanna Turner
I have discovered Twitter is a good way to share without the drama. I also keep a photo blog on my site for the gents who have already met me, which I do not allow the drama queens or the creeps into it. Thats where my playground is... where I over share, allow you into my personal life, where I showcase my personality. I like creating a real friendship with my boyfriends. Just because I am not a posting ho on the ho boards, does not mean I am an "in and out" type of a lady. Any of the gents who have seen me can attest to this. I have just learned to vet the ones I allow in.
for those that don't understand my humor, I use "Ho" as a witty tone & never in a condescending way.The term "Post Ho' was created long before I came along & can mean different things to different people. 'Post Ho' Marketing is good
Sometimes things get busy and it's not always easy to post on the boards frequently but you can also get a feel for some gentlemen's personality as well. It's a fun way to flirt and learn new things going on in the hobby world.
I agree with some of the ladies, be friendly and become active and backstage vendettas start to flair. Sometimes you just have to live life and be quiet. I’ve quiet enjoyed the past 6 months away from both Companion and clients
No. Not necessarily.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jugglover
I only engage on the boards when I see something that really makes me want to speak up on it I'm not on here too often and it's never stopped my business a lot of gentlemen arent here for convo on the boards. Thats the bored gents. The other giys just want to find a sexy reliable lady and get busy.
Sure conversation helps but a good chunk of these gentlemen are here to get laid they're not using this as Instagram or Facebook and the ones that are are usually the guys that have the least reviews they're usually the least liked guys these are just boards for advertising and finding women these aren't social media. I like the gents who know that.
I’ve found that being quiet can be good!
It keeps the drama away!
But sometimes my big mouth can’t stay quiet!
Ive gone periods where I’ve been quiet and gentlemen think I’ve disappeared!
It does seem however that when I first started I was so busy and I stayed active on the boards! I had more clientele!
Then you deal with so much crap and drama! If you say something stupid, you’re attacked by all sides! Lol! Sometimes it seems like people wait for any chance they get to attack you! Belittle you, to try and screw with your business! So here’s a question for everyone!
Why, when there’s so many wonderful people out here, enough to go around, do some find it necessary to put others down? Is it a way to try to get others to not want to see the lady? Is it a power trip, fueled by their need to feel superior?
I am no ones competition, i am just me!
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Originally Posted by Sugar~N~Spice
I look for the ladies who are articulate and enjoy conversation. A hot body is lovely, but so is a smart lady.
While thought provoking conversation is good. Trust me. I'm one to have those conversations on the boards.
There's a good many hobbyists Across various states. That tend to NOT want to hear women's thoughts/ opinions. As IF women are to be seen and not heard. Thus resulting in men berating women in this lifestyle. As IF women are somehow beneath them. (Not speaking in bcc terms).
So in the end. Some of us women get sick of those trumpian bully type guys. And we prefer to take charge in the bedroom. Where we have the last say.
Not saying all guys are like this. But a good portion are. As they tend to be (followers) in the hobby/on the hobby boards. Sad. Yet true.
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Originally Posted by Jugglover
I m not speaking for everyone but most guys just look at your pics and activities if listed. If there isn't any alerts or concerns about seeing you; a guy will see you, if that's his choosing ,basically relying on what I just typed. If you think that commenting on these websites constantly will help business I would say no but that's my opinion. Most men are visual creatures. You post more pictures and have an open menu then I would say that would give you more business than starting a bunch of threads about this and that.