How important are toys with a GFE provider?

So... Of course I am curious. I had dildos in the past but never got off to them. I'm thinking I didn't have the right toy. My question is.. Is it a deal breaker if the provider doesn't have toys, or does it just not matter? I know I had fun with a toy that Amberance had, I think it was called, "The magic wand," that thing was amazing! It is on my Xmas list this Christmas. Let me know your thoughts. Sometimes when clients come with toys (not often). I do feel like a prude. LMAO! but I'm not a PSE provider so I don't care as much. LOL.

My toys stay packed & ready...sometimes I use them,sometimes I dont...I do consider myself gfe type of gal with a pse twist...as for getting a toy stash,it all just depends on the gents wishes.you might get a few cock rings and the wand just incase

I'm definitely taking your advice! ^ Thank you.

my hitachi is my bestest toy...guys love it! have fun sexy lady!

^Is it bad that I think that it sounds like a vacuum? LMAO! I will check it out though and thanks I will now!

While I bring my own cock rings, I'm more than happy to use any of her favorite toys. I'm confident in my abilities in satisfying her without them so I'm comfortable in using them with her. I see it as additional excitement to the date.

I actually had a client put on a ball ring and it was just so strange to me. I should open up my horizons, so to speak.

Sounds like you’re getting all kinkly!!

I think toys are fun, they can even be an ice breaker so to speak so both parties get to explore a little and relax. Definitely not a deal breaker. But probably a go with the flow item. Dropping a hint during initial conversation may reveal which way to go.

How many toys are enough? Just thinking a toy that you like may not be visually stimulating to a gent. So what would a guy like to see you play with??? One that fits inside you and tickles your “on switch” would be fun.

Interesting to see what others think?

Play with me when we’re together, play with your toys when you are alone. Don’t like it when I’m doing everything I can to pleasure a woman and she whips out her vibrator to buzz herself off. If you want to buzz yourself off, I’ll take Mr. Happy and look elsewhere. This is the main reason I Hobby.

Being an older gentleman, toys are a perfect compliment to what I truly enjoy and that is a woman's pleasure. Be it a vibrating butt plug to a slightly curved wand mixed in my mouth her clit the results can be earth moving... I used to think of toys as an invasion to my pleasure but once I discovered the real pleasure involved orgasms given I am willing and open to using your toys or buying and bringing a new toy... Guys remember our orgasms are super easy, the woman on the other needs a reason for pleasure it is not fueled by her hourly, daily rate... Sorry for any run on sentences or typos, phone typing here.

What Mr Dwb, Said toys can ad to the fun of the session. I have brought my own vibrators to sessions with little or no objection from the lady.

Toys enhance. Pushing ones limits....taking one to a higher level of pure bliss
I always cum prepared with my suite case full of toys...and yes they are for the boys and any of my friends that are joining

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Originally Posted by Ms.Athena

Toys enhance. Pushing ones limits....taking one to a higher level of pure bliss
I always cum prepared with my suite case full of toys...and yes they are for the boys and any of my friends that are joining

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The next question: just how big is that suitcase? Hehe

Her suitcase is HUGE and fun as fuck......and mine is actually a tool tote..lol
Were hobby girl scouts...always cum prepared...lol

Ok so i get toys are fun. But ive rarely played with them myself with the exceptiin if one person whom i trust. (Cause trust hell chime in if im not brutally honest... Its just not in me to play WITH myself (and i would think with the hobby i happily indulge in i wouldnt need to) im just to sensual i prefer actual contact that warmth that you arent going to get with a piece of silicone...

plus i keep a hygiene bag.. But a toy bag..now i dont know where you guys live but even when ive been stopped for speeding and my purse has been oversized theyve asked to search the vehicle ( ok maybe the half sleeve and the non chalant way i speak as if their wasting my time doesnt help) and just to shut them up i agree ( i dont feel like making them either call in k9 or call and obtain a search warrant while i sit on side of rd. For 2 1/2hrs been there done that) knowing im clean, but imagine a SUITCASE FULL of toys...i mean besides the huge freaking laugh when i got to see the expression on that officers face (priceless) how would i explain my reason for driving around with it....

I enjoy both toys for myself and toys for boys. Makes edging so intense.

I can have fun either way and have.
It's really about how you present it and I think that comes with being comfortable with them. If you are comfortable with them then I will be too. If they turn you on then they're going to be a turn on for me.
If they're something some of you ladies have more or less indicated would feel a bit awkward then that is probably going to come across and make the time awkward.

Wise words catdaddy

Although I used to object to toys, I've very recently started liking the idea of watching a provider get off during the session. Whether she's using it to warm herself up or I'm inside of her and she's just getting that additional stimulation, I'm here for it all so long as I get to clean up the mess and she's satisfied with me too! haha

The majority of men don't even like toys or just regular guys who want to have some really good head and some good sex. especially for GFE that's just normal boyfriend and girlfriends that I would say more so often on the PSC are the gentlemen expecting you to have toys. I have toys and 95% of the clients that see me even if I have my toys out they are too involved in the real thing to think about the toys

^ Yes the only reason I asked. Is because usually the clients bring the toys. It’s just not a must-have for me. Don’t get me wrong. It’s fun but I do enjoy the element of surprise. The surprise makes it so much better!

Never had a session with a toy.

But I will play with a fat ass. Does that count?

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my hitachi is my bestest toy...guys love it! have fun sexy lady!

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Mine too. I have a thunder stick, little more power. They get a show, you get off. It's a win win.....

Not a must have for me, but it is a nice bonus during a multi-hour encounter with someone you’re comfortable with and enjoy exploring. Most def ain’t for every session with errybody...that’s just me.

:cheers:

Not a must have. But hey im cool with them if they bring them. :)

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Originally Posted by canihitit

Never had a session with a toy.

But I will play with a fat ass. Does that count?

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This!!!

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Originally Posted by Island_Gent

Not a must have for me, but it is a nice bonus during a multi-hour encounter with someone you’re comfortable with and enjoy exploring. Most def ain’t for every session with errybody...that’s just me.

:cheers:

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There ya go!

Just gives playmates more options depending upon mood.

I am the toy. My fingers are very talented.

I like to play with a nice soft clean lady...
If she has toys and wants me to use them on her, I'm game.
But if I'm looking for GFE, I'm looking for the natural toys she was born with.

Often times I drop a little vibe on the bed as I’m getting undressed, if she’s into that’s cool, if not that’s cool too.

One time I as I was heading to the shower I did a little nipple kissing and DATY as a tease. I told her she could play with the toy, just don’t cum until I get back. I came out of the shower and she was sitting up, knees pressed together and looking a s guilty as sin. I asked and she said she was sorry, but she did cum, just could not help herself, said it was my fault for teasing her. Of course I told her it was ok, but now role over for a spanking you bad little girl....

That really was a very fun afternoon. The point is it’s all about fun and spontaneity, and big earthshaking O’s for everybody. Who’s not down with that?

I luv playing with cock n ball rings too...and my paddles n floggers

IMHO, using a toy during a session really has a lot to do with one or both parties outlook on sex itself. If a hobbiest is the self-centered type, he probably won't care to use them, he's just there to get a nut. If he's a sensualist, he's there for the whole tactile experience - sights , sounds , smells. Frankly, I like to think that my partner is getting at least a modicum of the pleasure I'm getting being with her. I always bring a toy to a session as I find it helps pinpoint where my partners favorite erogenous zones are. (I once had a provider that didn't know where her G-spot really was til I hit it with a curved vibe.) It's all about relaxing into the moment and just enjoying the feeling!

My favorite toy is a very clean chick, head to toe, for my licking and kissing pleasure.
Her liking my licking and kissing all over her body is a +.
I don't know why, but I can't get enough of sticking my tongue where the sun don't shine, and some places it does.

If she is into toys, that's cool. I don't discriminate against anyone who likes to feel good, sexually.

Is it bad that that turned me on? @Moondoggie LOL

No thanks personally.

No worries different strokes for different folks. Have fun!

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Is it bad that that turned me on? @Moondoggie LOL

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Yes it is, now roll over and put your pretty little butt in the air and get ready for YOUR spanky!

Toys R us
I am addicted to dildo, intervention in the horizon.

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Originally Posted by Moondoggie281

Yes it is, now roll over and put your pretty little butt in the air and get ready for YOUR spanky!

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Hahaha! Don't say, "spanky." Say, Get ready to get a spanking!

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