+1 and has to feel like she is totally into it...like a GF!
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95% of GFE is about IOP. GFE is not about specific activities, it's about the overall feeling of meeting and the chemistry of the encounter. If the man walks away feeling like he's one in a thousand, then he feels like he's special and had a true GFE experience. Even though...he really was just one in a thousand (haha).
This is an excellent thread and underscores 'the mix' of expectations that guys/gals have re: GFE
I assume GFE will include kissing and some modicum of IOP...
I would also expect BBBJ from a real (or GFE hobby gal),
butt I wouldn't expect BBFS (from a GFE hobby gal).
Maybe PSE 'might' imply that.
I would more likely expect BBFS from a real GF - butt again, not the same expectation from a hobby (GFE) GF...
GFE MUST offer 'good lovin' with pleasant chat, convo and mutually fun 'play'...
Sooooo GFE does not mean (BP style) BBBJ and CFS, with donate demand upfront, mechanical 29 minute "on the clock and out" attitude.
There needs to be the faux emotional connection via IOP. She's the GF, he's the BF...
Smile and kissing and fun and chat are significant parts of all this...
Soooooooooooooo... for me, I have preferences and if there is anything that I MUST HAVE for that date, I just (research reviews) or ask her - or both...