chemistry

isn't it cool when you just click immediately with a new hobbyist? That elusive chemistry high that can't be faked. What do you think gives YOU chemistry with someone? for me it is almost on a psychic level, like i feel the good energy coming off them as we first start up our session. when i am rubbing their back and ass and legs they make little happy noises and act apprecitive. the conversation flows freely and easily too. the buzz of a good attraction can not be denied . It is so much fun when the buzz is mutual and you both light up with good energy and the exchange is mutual. this is opposed to a black hole of energy, an energy suck. When that happens he just lays there and there is only energy of mine going out out none coming back to me. good chemisty is so important and fun, yet so unpredictable and hard to create when it is not there. what makes u feel like you've got good chemistry and makes u feel the buzz. I love when i can tell he is having a good time and the time flies by. ladies do you know what I mean by a blackhole of energy. sapping your vital juices? let's talk about what makes you feel the buzz of mutual attraction.

It is indeed awesome when that chemistry is there and you really click. It can make for some wonderful experiences and make me want to be a regular.

But, it’s sad when that chemistry fades over time because one or both parties stop trying. That’s when it’s time to depart.

Energy!
I love it. Exchange of energy, attraction, feeling sexy and secure - is addictive. Positive energy is healing, good vibes are life extending!

Attraction starts from the first words exchanged over texting. You/I can feel it! My third eye has never lied to me yet. My gut feeling is a great compass also. Some dates are so great, that they continue making my toes tingle and curl, many weeks after. Many years after!

Stay away from miserable people.
No amount of love and good energy can change some angry person's life. My prayers are for them, because no one cares for them, and I don't care either.

Life is great! Love is Life! Big hug for everyone who is reading and needing this GOOD VIBES ONLY xoxoxo

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Originally Posted by AlexandraSand

Stay away from miserable people.
No amount of love and good energy can change some angry person's life. My prayers are for them, because no one cares for them, and I don't care either.

Life is great! Love is Life! Big hug for everyone who is reading and needing this GOOD VIBES ONLY xoxoxo

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^^^^^^^ This right here!!!!! ^^^^^^^^

People who are constantly expressing the “Woe is me” attitude is draining. I’m not talking about the occasional problem they want to discuss. It’s EVERY SINGLE TIME you talk with them…..”Woe is Me”. It’s all about them.

Kinda reminds me of a Toby Keith song:
We talk about your dreams
And we talk about your schemes
Your high school team and your moisturizing cream
We talk about your nana up in Munci, Indiana
We talk about your grandmaw down in Alabama
We talk about your guys
Of every shape and size
The ones that you despise and the ones you idolize
We talk about your heart bout your brain and your smarts
And your medical charts
And when you start

In response to risn2theoccasion2 "chemistry" you are so right there has to be something there a little spark so to say, It's so much better when you have that the feeling when your kissing or when one another touch eachother and it sends a tingling sensation. Im very sensual and touching lightly and caresing with my hands is a big thing for me . i know this might have gotten off subject but oh well felt the need to respond to your post .

Energy Vampires - it’s in their nature, that cannot help it, and while sometimes they know, sometimes they are not even aware, thriving in negativity. Male and Female both. They will drain you if you let them. Disconnect being the only path.

The (positive) chemistry is etched into our brains, and not only at encounter but afterwards... we remember with smiles, desires, passions motivations are energized. Appreciation. The chemistry is different with each person, sometimes calm and colorful, sometimes more explosive (be careful of that flame!). No two connections are the same. Sometimes intuitive, sometimes conscious decision.

There are companion providers on OH2, that I can hardly wait to see again (and you know who you are!). I am amazed. There are also other companion providers that I have recognized from the past, that I have reached out to, and simply expressed my thanks for the experience with them; and, they have responded... not that I was great or anything. But we connected. Trite but it truly does take 2 to Tango.

As for me, I choose the good, the fun, the passionate; that is well worth any investment. Support and be compassionate when others struggle, embrace connections, and reject the rest.

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Originally Posted by Strawberry Chaos

In response to risn2theoccasion2 "chemistry" you are so right there has to be something there a little spark so to say, It's so much better when you have that the feeling when your kissing or when one another touch eachother and it sends a tingling sensation. Im very sensual and touching lightly and caresing with my hands is a big thing for me . i know this might have gotten off subject but oh well felt the need to respond to your post .

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I believe this is the most neglected element in hobby encounters. The act of sensual touch, caressing, cuddling….it’s part of the chemistry. And it makes the actual physical connection more enjoyable. It’s called fore play and after glow. I don’t think you strayed from the subject. I think you enhanced it.