Quote Originally Posted by JuggHead View Post
Absolutely but we (guys) go in with higher sexual expectations since in our mind sex is an escort's forte.
I think this may be a part of the problem. The only way to understand this fairly is to put ourselves in the ladies frame of mind. OK, they provide with 2 customers during the day, fucking in 10 different positions from plain ole missionary to swinging by the ceiling fan. Perhaps they want something more intimate, more like making love, and having actual passion. This is one way the boyfriend of a provider can meet her needs. Us gentlemen aren't ATMs and the ladies aren't machines either. They have hearts and needs just like us guys do.

Let's dig a bit deeper. Let's say all the guys are providers. Now we get a text to see an unknown lady. I guess there is someway to quickly verify if she's not a cop, I just don't know. So we get a room and meet the lady and take a chance she isn't a cop. Next she's 70 years old, 5 foot tall, and weighs 300 pounds, and hasn't showered in two days. Now big boy, get it up and do what she wants you to do for the next 30 minutes. Just being honest, this can't be easy. Then at another time you get an appointment for 8pm, you pay for the room and she doesn't show up. This is just a small sample size what the ladies go through sometimes on a daily basis.

One of the ladies mentioned their clients aren't Brad Pitt or George Clooney. Me, I'm midway between Quasimodo and Brad Pitt, leaning toward Brad Pitt.

Am I kissing the ladies asses and white knighting? That's not my intent, as my intent was to turn the coin over and look at the other side.