Verification using personal info??

[Phoenixx]

I want thoughts from hobbyist and providers on this issue.

This issue is your own personal problem, and it can be resolved by finding another provider...

[JessieJane]

Let's move on from the "Good ole boys club" and start realizing that ladies have way more at risk these days and if a asshat cant understand that then maybe he should hang up his hat.

On another note; K_bbw her response I hope sheds some light on the situation. Some guys need to step up their hobby minds to 2020. Not the good ole days ( for them). As guys continue to want face pics of ladies, sword swap with these reviews & gifs of acts in sessions constantly exposing ladies I hardly find verification being too much to ask. You hide behind a mask -multiple handles lol yet... expose ladies. On top of it if you dont want to assure the lady you are legit by submitting screening info.

Bottom line your always free to say no and move on.. not badger the lady for her standards.

[JessieJane]

This issue is your own personal problem, and it can be resolved by finding another provider...

Yup!

[Nascobar21]

Extortion is real

[Darksun000]

This issue is your own personal problem, and it can be resolved by finding another provider...

Luv not a personal problem. Sharing to make sure other hobbyist don't feel pressured due to inexperience and ever provide that info to a stranger in this hobby. There are many with ill intentions out there.

[jacksparrow]

Let's play a fair game, I'll give you mine if you give me yours. If you want a face or ID picture, you do the same too. Is easy to ask others to expose themselves, while you keep hiding....we have more to lose crap excuse is not enough, in this world we all have something to lose.
What I am trying to say is, no pussy is worth losing everything you have in the real life....marriage, kids, job, friends....etc......in other words don't be stupid enough to send RW info to a provider.....

[LiveFree]

Luv not a personal problem. Sharing to make sure other hobbyist don't feel pressured due to inexperience and ever provide that info to a stranger in this hobby. There are many with ill intentions out there.

This is a good point because lots of high quality providers who aren't on review boards ask for this. This seems to be the standard for them and it's quite one sided and very risky. This also leads to some newbies really wanting the experience and submitting said info without clarification of securely discarded personal info. Either way doesn't matter who it is do not do it. Your personal/professional life should never be in play just to hobby. There are many other ways to screen and ensure safety from both sides. If you really wanna be an asshole just ask the provider for her screening info lol.

[JessieJane]

Do not ask to come to a private location. A ladies apt .Without expecting strict screening.

[Lovelyjordan]

Everyone is different but don’t give out personal information, I would never ask for that type of stuff, if the vibes aren’t right then I just won’t see you, if your far I do require small deposit but nothing over $40 but that’s just me. Everyone has their preference so just pick the right provider that suits your screening comfortability

[Kandii_Kane]

Do not ask to come to a private location. A ladies apt .Without expecting strict screening.

That part!

[Vanessa]

That part!

Exactly! If you are going to a someone's private incall/home, then there's a good chance if you can figure out that person's real world info if you really want to. The fact is that people don't want to. And the nefarious people who want to do you harm will find out your info if they want to, no matter how careful you are.

If you are happy only meeting up at hourly cash hotels, then fine, you shouldn't give up personal info. But if you are meeting at a private location, then BOTH people are giving up personal info and that gives you both skin in the game.

I know of a male hobbyist with multiple sting arrests. All of which were cases were he answered ads for ladies who didn't ask for anything but "when can you get here?" You'd think he'd learn after the first couple of arrests.

[Universal]

^^^this
And he can get her car tag info at her private address.

[Anna Nikkole]

I'm not just gonna tell a newbie to come on over with nothing lol. I try to keep it as easy, discreet and private as possible. And I have no issues. Every now and then you get a entitled fuck who thinks just because his money is green you should just shut up and be happy to see him. Not my type of client actually, but the provider takes more risk, especially established providers like many of us here including myself. So move on to the next lady's screening if you don't like it!!!

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

Over the years I have relied on different ways to screen.
I've done the "vibe" thing and only trusted my gut with no more information than a first name and a conversation.
That lead to getting a LOT of my time and money wasted by "fantasy bookers" and NCNS with zero repercussions on him because he was using an app number that can be changed to do the same crap to the next girl.

I've done the "reference" thing.
That lead to losing the booking because the references took too long to reply (if at all), and too much of the session being taken up with him wanting to "regale" me on how his sessions went with those providers. - This is non of my business and makes me extremely uncomfortable. (Guys, please don't do this)
Not to mention the fact that I was seeing WAY too many girls that have IMO far too lax screening/discretion so I couldn't trust a reference from them.

Whether he is visiting me at my residential incall (my home) or anywhere else, I am still a member of the "weaker sex" and I refuse to be alone, naked, and in a most vulnerable situation with someone that I have little to no recourse should he do me harm. PERIOD.

So, if he doesn't want to give me the information I require to feel safe in his presence, then I wish him luck in his search and save my time and energy for those that are happy to trust me as much with their info as they trust me with their dick between my teeth. ;-P

[Guest 101723-1]

You referenced this post being there to warn newbies but newbies are the NUMBER ONE gents that will be thoroughly screened in this manner. They have no references, no board presence, no one to say if they’re safe, cops, harmful, dangerous, ect. That’s why more information is REQUIRED. If ladies aren’t asking newbies for RW information, please make sure to let me know. I do NOT want a reference from you.

Also, it’s about the providers history and reputation on the board. Why be afraid to give an experienced and well reviewed provider your screening information? Genuine question.